I asked my boyfriend for a room, and he couldn t leave me

Updated on psychology 2024-04-12
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Life is a personal matter for the two of you, not the responsibility of one party, I think if two people work together in exchange for it, then you will live a happier life, people are greedy animals, so, don't pursue material things too much, don't ask him to ask for anything, he doesn't owe you anything, you can discuss it, see how to solve the problem of the house will be more appropriate, if you get married purely for the sake of getting married, if you have no feelings, if I am your husband, I will tell you no! The reality is cruel, but don't hurt anyone with the cruel reality! Work together to create your common home, don't put too much pressure on your husband, because he is your husband, not someone else's!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't ask for it if he's afraid he's leaving, and if he can buy it, do you still need it? If he can buy it but won't give it to you, then it means. You can say it shyly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you love him, make money with him to buy a house, and if you feel wronged, break up with him and find someone with a house.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Money and sincerity, I think sincerity is more important! The money has been spent that day! But yes, I'm really going to make money!

    Figure it out for yourself! My object is also calling me for a house now! But I didn't, so I told her I didn't, but I'd try!

    She didn't say anything either! Sincerity is the main thing!

    Let's create your own nest together! This is the main thing! Women themselves must have the ability! People who ask for things are the most despised!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The current society is very realistic. It is a common phenomenon for material things to take precedence over spirituality. Don't put too much pressure on men, you can make money together to buy a house!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I support you, if you don't even have any material conditions together, you can do anything, let's disperse!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Are you sure you love him and he loves you too?

    Does he have the financial means?

    Let's think about it first!

    Don't hurt each other, feelings are the most important!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    As soon as you mention this, I think of the fragrant show in "Country Love", hehe.

    Miscellaneous is the same as her, if you have a house, you will get married, if you don't have a house, you will be scattered, never talk about feelings, and you have to be looked down upon when you live in the palace like this!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Do you live for money?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you want a house, you will get married? Chelarious

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on the relationship between the two of you, if you can buy it hard, it will be the best, or you can buy it in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't value "money" so much

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Sort it out, let him do whatever he wants. It might be painful for him to leave you now, but he may blame you if he has to let him stay. In addition to loving each other, two people should also consider some material reasons when they are together.

    Because you haven't worked yet, you probably don't feel that way. I think that if I love you too much, I won't leave you, and I won't let you cry, and people who love each other should face difficulties together, if they love each other, .Couples who are not together try their best to be together, but he wants to leave you, why should you do this?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In this case, why not let go, it's not worth wasting your time for a boy who no longer loves, there are discords sooner or later, it is better to meet someone more suitable for yourself sooner.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Why did you leave? If you don't say it, how can I help you analyze it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not interesting for you to get along with him like that.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because what left you is that you are not good enough.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's a shame for you to think like that.

    You blindly want him not to leave you.

    On the contrary, people are quite stressed.

    His problem, you say you'd be unhappy if you left him, or something.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is no other way!

    If your boyfriend is obsessed with the "house", there is basically nothing else to distract him!

    Here's the strange thing: Why does your relationship feel so awkward?

    Maybe you're too wishful thinking to love him!

    What I want to say is: you have satisfied his house now, and you will continue to meet his car,,, or whatever other conditions he has come up with!

    So, if you continue to satisfy his breakup threats, then be prepared for endless "filling holes"!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This man is so materialistic and realistic, he should leave him immediately, what he cares about most is not you, but the house.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He is a man who eats soft rice, a kind of scumbag with no self-esteem and no connotation. We are all men who buy houses and cars for girls, and our wives as long as they can take care of the house.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you love him, it won't cost him a lot of money to buy him a set.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is only one way, leave him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What do you love about him without him, such a man?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let's break up! Will it be long to be together for a house? Think about you, is it you who he needs? You don't go to a house with him! Why bother!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then you can be direct and don't drag him back If you still love him, ** contact, but don't talk too much.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because of what? Another woman? This is really done by letting go and saying that I wish you happiness. Really, there is no room for redemption, and the woman is sad to find another person. This situation. Only a haughty turn.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What's yours is yours If he doesn't have feelings for you, it's useless to stay and drive the shell Girls have their own dignity and believe that you can find better.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you can keep it, you can keep it.

    If you can't keep it, you can only .........

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I advise you to leave, the most basic life now is not guaranteed to be very sad in the future, you also said that even he himself does not know how to be motivated, this kind of person is not saved, you should also wake up, for this kind of person is not worth it!!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, separation is not necessarily a good thing, a responsible man will not let his lover suffer a little grievance! In addition, your personality can also be changed a little, and quarrels will intensify conflicts.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Leaving him is the right thing to do.

    1. You are a sophomore, he has entered social work, and the core is that he has proposed to break up, do you know? It's two people who love each other, and they will break up due to geography and other reasons, not to mention your situation.

    2. The love and pain when you are young are all experienced in the process of growing up, and the love when you are young is relatively pure, it is good to have such a simple love, cherish the memories.

    3. In fact, you may not understand why he said to be quiet and break up, but you understand this.

    Forget about him, pack up your mood, and move on to tomorrow.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't think too much about it, maybe it doesn't mean he's leaving you. And some unpleasant things may happen because of some of your words or actions.

    Perhaps, what you said was not the right time, maybe what you said was not the right way.

    I recommend you to try to let go of your arrogance. Lower your mindset if you really want to keep the relationship. Actually, it's not a big deal to let go of these. If you think about it, you will realize that maybe you get more, more than you put down.

    Another thing to keep in mind is not to stick together all the time. After a long time, you will feel bored and tired. Appropriate, create a little sense of alienation. It gave him a sense of crisis. In this way, you can take the relationship to the next level.

    The so-called Xiao Biesheng is the reason for the newlywed.

    Give it a try and believe in yourself!

    In fact, it's the details that matter.

    Did you find out? It seems that he did not bring up anything excessive. Rather, he needed to be quiet. Don't overcomplicate things, sometimes, it's just a simple thing.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hehe, he's just waiting for you to say break up, in fact, now he is also a man who looks like a god and even asks you for the house Even if you are really together, the future life situation is worrying.

    When I was in college, as long as the men were not rich 2 generations and official 2 generations, the starting point was basically the same, except that some people might be handsome and have desserts. At this time, the only thing that can be given to the girl is all kinds of promises, and as for some things that happen, whether the promises can be fulfilled basically depends on the character.

    Some words can be believed, some words are just listened to, these are all things that people have to experience when they grow up, and I wish you to come out as soon as possible.

    At this stage, it is estimated that it is useless for anyone to persuade them.

    The time has come for nature to understand.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Pluck up your courage, dear!! Leave him!!

    You're afraid of leaving him now, I'm afraid of that feeling, I think since he wants to leave you, we have to put our posture higher, in this world, there is no one, without him, the earth will stop, and his life will not be over from now on, right?

    People are like this sometimes, the more you pester him, the more he thinks you are annoying, worthless, you just calm down, don't pay attention to him, you just divide it unilaterally, you don't have to say anything to him, silence is the best answer, he may have another idea

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You see, he's going to be under a lot of pressure, that's for sure.

    You're only a sophomore, and you can't find any good men.

    The old does not go, and the new does not come.

    You gave him everything, including the body.

    Then I'm going to tell you, it's not that you give him your body, it means you have to be with him for a lifetime, and now women must know how to be self-reliant.

    I think you're too weak, and it's as if it's worth it when you lose everything, and he's done something for you.

    Break up directly, no matter how much you like it, it will fade.

    When you enter the society, you will meet a better man who cares for you more and you like.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Friend, if you just can't make you deeply understand "how did you die" and other exchanges like **, I suggest you walk up to him bravely and ask: "Do you still want me?".“。

    He said, "Don't", just give him a slap, and then leave in style, he hesitated and said, "Yes", also give him a slap, and then you say:

    I don't want you anymore!He turned to leave. No matter how reluctant you are in your heart and feel that you have given everything, don't shed a single tear in front of him;Even if you cry in the bed, don't ask to be with him.

    In the world, whoever has no one is still the same. You open your mouth, but you are only gentle to come.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    He is not good to you, so why should you rely on him? It's better to find someone who is good to you, he is not good to you now, don't expect him to be good to you when you get married. It was right to leave him, he was determined to break up with you and there would be no turning back.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    1. Feelings are feelings and feelings, through your description, I don't think you know exactly why he said that he was going to say that he was busy, and I don't know exactly what you have developed, and the crux of the problems you are facing is not very clear.

    2. I don't agree with some friends using material things as the only yardstick to measure their feelings, if the feelings are so simple and can be clearly explained in RMB, I'm afraid no one will fall in love anymore.

    3. I think what you actually care about is not whether you are separating or not, but about wanting to know what happened and how to deal with it.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    He has someone you flash, what's the meaning of being cheap to yourself like this Don't you have anyone to ask for it There are many good men in this world Oh, have you seen a few couples who fell in love in middle school, high school, college and when they were in school, they were successful and kept going Not necessarily Even if they are married, what can they do, and now he treats you like this Do you dare to promise that he will not leave you in the future Think about it clearly This is a small emotional episode Go to the park Go to the park Go shopping Go shopping When you are powerless, go back to take a shower and sleep beautifully It's dawn In the past, I told him to give in and start living the life he wanted, don't reduce the price yourself, I'm not a supermarket second-time seller, I have a higher value, and there is that good man waiting for you somewhere My words are harsh Please forgive me or you kick me.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I think he may have come to a crossroads, and he said to you quietly, because he also loves you and does not want to give up on you (or maybe he wants to hang you and observe his other way). If he can say quietly, it means that he has already started to have the idea of rejecting you in his heart, which is the result of your attitude and behavior towards him. If you're afraid of pain, say goodbye to him in advance.

    At this point, it is no longer under your control, and if you appear in front of him in a short time, you may still have a chance to recover.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    After graduation, he has a wide sky and a bright sky, and you are not around, how can he keep you? Besides, he was going to find someone who would help him as a girlfriend at that time, so forget it, the more it drags on, the worse it will be for you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Don't listen to the nonsense upstairs, what is called "Actually, you may not understand why he said to be quiet, to break up, you understand this when you understand this" When you understand, it is not until the Year of the Monkey and the month of the horse. If you still say nonsense, if you can understand it, then you have a problem. Now I am still young, and I can follow my heart to do things.

    If you like it, you will fight for it, and you will not regret it in the future, at least you know that you worked hard at the beginning, but he doesn't know how to cherish himself, and he has no vision. After I really grow up, I think about more things, I can't do anything well, and now there is no pressure from society, family, life, etc., to know how difficult it is to find someone who really likes in the vast sea of people (I mean I really like it), maybe you will meet what you like in the future, but it is never as unforgettable as once, so deep. In a word, if you like it, go for it, and if you get tired of it, let it go.

    It's useless to think too much, it's already a blessing to be able to do a good job of yourself, so why look at others. I hope that Nien is enough to find his own happiness, whether he is this person or not, while he is young, he will play a good game. It may be frivolous, but that's often the way it is.

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