What it s like to have a chatter around you

There are a lot of feelings, my classmates are just a chatter, sometimes it makes people have a very annoying feeling, especially when I am in a bad mood, I am very disgusted and want to scold, but think about it in other words, when there is no him, your life is too peaceful, there is no ups and downs, there is no joy in life.

Although the happiness of having a talkative friend around me is that I will never be afraid of being cold, because I will always have endless topics to talk about, and I always have the ability to chat all night without being cold, in fact, this is not my problem, it is not that I talk too much, nor that I have too many grievances to vent, just because the chatter next to me always has endless energy to chat with you about topics that he can never finish.

I also have a deep understanding that when the people around me are chattering, it will always make people feel very annoying, especially when they are in a bad mood, they will be very disgusted, just think about it, when there is no him, your world is peaceful, think about it and feel beautiful and quiet.

My friend is, every time she is like this, I can't wait for everyone to listen to her, and, every time she speaks, she leads the topic to herself, the same thing, she has to say it several times, this time after saying it, she will say it next time, keep saying, turn over and over so many things, always show off how happy her family is, this, I don't see that she lacks family warmth, maybe it's love.

I don't smoke in the car, I don't eat snacks, I don't chew betel nut, coffee doesn't work for me, my wife gets sleepy when she gets in the car, I go into the service area every two hours, but I can't sleep in the service area. Just wash your face and move, 1 o'clock at noon is particularly difficult, sleepy slap yourself, my wife also said I was stupid, in fact, he doesn't know the pain of driving, there is a chatter, long-distance driving is really good.

Today is the time for winter vacation again, and my girlfriend can't go home with me because of temporary things. And I set out on the journey home alone, as the saying goes, the journey is always hard, and I ran from 11 a.m. to 11 p.m. to get home. The long journey is always tiring, I spent the drive in my sleep, and when I woke up, I received a 99+ message.

There is such a talkative girlfriend who feels that life is complete.

There was a female colleague who walked into the office every morning and started complaining about her morning, or telling me something about her children, I tried to sneak into the office as much as possible, and I didn't even dare to say hello to her, because I didn't want to be the recipient of her topic, and whenever there was a short chatter from her parents, I started talking about my work, completely ignoring her, or I gave her a blank stare.

When I was in elementary school, my grades were very good, and I was in the top few in every exam, but there were no awards, so my mother was very curious and asked the teacher, why didn't my daughter's grades be so good? The teacher said: Your girl is really noisy, the first row of talking changed to the third row, and then to the fifth row, and now she sits in the last row, but she is not quiet when she sits in **, the strange thing is that the previous places are very quiet, your daughter is really a talent, but there are too many words, and she uses the wrong place.

When I was in junior high school, I didn't know how to be assigned to a top student's class, and from then on, the quietest in that grade was brought by me to become the noisiest in the age, and since then, I have become the school's most popular figure, the most chattering one, and two weeks later, we have become the most lively place in the class.

One of my friends was a talker, and every time he started nagging, I wanted to put my size 40 shoes over his size 39 face and stuff a pair of my 87 year old socks to plug that mouth.

In daily life, mom is the majority of talkers. Learning and training, work, and life, no matter how big or small, pass on their own development concepts to their children's ears. The little ones will be annoyed.

My mom was the same, taking care of me and being considerate, but at the same time she kept babbling. Even if you understand that what your mother said is right, you have to refute it. Just thinking about getting married, who would have thought that she would run away from her chattering mother and meet her chattering mother-in-law.

At that time, everyone didn't have a house, they lived together, and they earned their own money and spent it themselves, but the old woman was a broken mouth except for the mahjong game, and scolded the family to manage everyone, and the big and small things in life had to be the master. I can't scare my mother-in-law like my mother, and I can't help but have a lot of resentment in my heart. Quarrels with her husband have become normalized, and life has become a difficult ......

Couples, in the love stage, will always say endless words, during this period, there is a chatty boyfriend (girlfriend), the mouth is not good, but the heart is full of happiness. You'll show off in front of your friends, and you'll show off in front of your loved ones. has been in love for a long time, often grinding together, and the other party is talkative, especially if there are too many related things, Wang Qiao's trouble affects the other party's personal privacy, and it will breed disgust and boredom.

In married life, having a chatter around you, especially the kind of 360 all-round chatter without dead ends, will make people feel restless. Especially the kind of person who resists the other party and finds the wrong half everywhere, there will be a sense of suffocation. Parental nagging can be avoided.

Couples have nowhere to avoid but to cope. Therefore, it is easy to have an emotional breakdown and cause disputes ......In the relationship between men and women, the person who talks is actually insecure, and he just wants to brush up on his presence in his words.

Among elderly couples, the majority of them are talkative. Talkers talk to tuberculosis, and neither of them is lonely. But for the wife who doesn't like to talk, it may be annoying, but it is also happy.

When people are old and there are people around them, they can not be lonely and have "popularity value". Don't think that your wife can't look down on her mouth, but the soul is full and stable.

If you don't talk about it, you will be disappointed, and even a trace of fear will grow ......Living with the elderly, you can slowly experience that even two people who are always quarreling will worry about getting sick after their spouses have abnormalities. In the world of the elderly, chatter is a common thing to be sleepy. Affection has long seeped into the depths of my heart.

If there is a chatter around, this feeling is still very painful, in addition to boredom, it may produce a more serious disgust, and may even express dissatisfaction with the other party's judgment of their own demolition, and the situation between the two parties may also have more serious problems, which is not conducive to the subsequent development between the two parties.

If there is a chatter around him, he will often feel very annoyed when he is blind, and he will talk a lot, and he will often be very irritable when he is with him; After a long time, you will feel very bored, and you will see that he is very annoying, and I don't want to have a meal with him.

Most of the friends who have the withered appearance of Jane Losers will be happy, because at least they have gotten rid of the loneliness of the widow king, but at the same time, they feel that they will always have a BB machine on their bodies, and they will make a lot of noise. In addition to boredom, it will also feel very painful.

Having someone to talk about will make life full of color, but at the same time, it will also make life no longer quiet.

Talkers can express their memories and opinions endlessly only by talking about topics, which can make life full of vitality and relieve the quiet atmosphere in life; But when the chatter is serious, it will affect the normal life, just like a girl who talks about a topic in the unit, she can express her opinions for half an hour as long as she is on a topic, and she is basically stopped by the supervisor because of the impact on her work, so chatter is not a good thing.

It's just a kind of torture for yourself.

A roommate in our dormitory has a lot of words, as long as he opens his eyes every day to start his day's "speech", there is a topic to publish his long speech, there is no topic, he has to make his own topic to talk about it, sometimes it feels like the whole bedroom is his world, everyone loves to listen to it or not, he will say his, as long as the conversation box is opened, it is like the water of the embankment gushing endlessly.

A chattering person has a characteristic, that is, whether you listen to him or not, whether you respond to him or not, he is always there to talk non-stop, and he has to say a word about everything he sees on the road, and if you pick up with him, the topic will never end.

In fact, when you are fine, you can listen to the chatter and analyze it carefully, you will find that the chatter is also very smart, at least the observation and analysis of things are very strong, because his description of an event or thing will be from various angles, if it were you, you may not come up with so many words to describe what happened

It is said that women talk a lot and love to nag, and the typical case is Lu Xun's "Xianglin Sister-in-law", who catches him and talks to him over and over again.

In the history of literature throughout the ages, there has never been a typical example of a man talking a lot and nagging.

But in real life, I have met such men.

More than 10 years ago, there was such a man in the office director of my unit: the office director.

Coincidentally, the office director sat across from me, and I was a newbie to the industry, so I respectfully addressed him as "teacher", and when I encountered something I didn't know about at work, I looked up and asked him for advice.

The director of the office was already a good teacher, and someone asked him for advice, just to show off his knowledge and eloquence, a small question, can be answered clearly in a few words, he has to quote the classics from ancient times to modern times, and then from domestic to foreign ......

And I had to listen patiently to his nonsense all over the world, and I didn't dare to mention any topics easily after a few times, for fear of being trapped in his "Dragon Gate Array" and unable to get out.

Colleagues who have something to say hello and leave the table early, and colleagues who have a good relationship with him, especially male colleagues, have to talk to him and drink with him. During this period, it was hinted that he was almost over today, should he drink it next time? But he continued to dance as if he didn't understand, and his eyebrows fluttered ......

He said it to the fullest, not knowing the pain of the people next to him.

I'm a very quiet and introverted person, and my girlfriend is the opposite of me, a non-stop chatterbox.

She was like a little bee that buzzed in my ears all day long. It's a bit of a hassle at times, but it adds a lot of fun to my life.

I only need a few "uh-huh" responses, and she'll be able to say it for a long time. I was worried about whether she would be thirsty, so I handed over a cup of tea, and she could continue to talk after drinking it all.

Because of her nagging, my life went from black and white to a rainbow of colors.

Maybe I don't talk much, so I talk a lot around me.

What they all have in common is that once the topic starts, it seems like they can't stop talking. But when they're done, you don't know what they're trying to say!!

So I asked a question about this issue, and my friend said to me very strangely, what do you want to express? I'm just complaining!

When I was in school, there was a boy in our class who was very talkative, and the classmates in our class were very afraid to sit near him, because he kept talking as soon as he spoke, and he would always talk to you in class or after class, in fact, he could always talk to you if you ignored him. Every time I pulled a seat, I was terrified of sitting near him. I felt like he had a lot of words, and he was talking so fast that we couldn't understand what he was saying at times.

It's so annoying, my ears are about to be cocooned. My colleague is a talker, with a special mouth, and she can say a thing in two minutes, but she has to tell the ins and outs of the cause and effect, and sometimes with other vignettes. Everyone is busy enough to work every day, and listening to her chatter every day, I can't live my life.

There's a chatty guy around me who finds it a lot of fun.

There are always all kinds of things to do with him, and he will be happy to explain all kinds of things, and you will have a lot of things to do, so that it will not feel boring and boring.

And when you're in a bad mood, he will help you talk about other things to change the situation. Makes you happy. I'm glad I have someone around me who often brings you a joy and keeps you entertained.

It's also a fun thing to have a chatter around, and when your friend is a chatterbox, you won't experience boredom or the awkwardness of two people having nothing to say. Usually together, he will always share a lot of what he has seen and heard with you, and in the time you are together, he will bring you endless happiness and make you feel valued and recognized. Although sometimes I think he is a little annoying, but slowly you will find that you can't do without this person, as if listening to him has become a habit of yours.

You're lucky to have such a friend.

The body is lively all the time, and you don't feel lonely. You may also feel a little irritable when you're in a bad mood.

I have a deep understanding of the word chatterbox, because my aunt and uncle both have the trait of chatterbox, maybe because of genes. Their chatter really gave me a headache, but in order to show respect for them, I had to listen to their broken thoughts, which was miserable.

As long as I see that the caller ID is my uncle, I will be very scared, because I know that I will have to listen to them make ** porridge again. Uncle said everything, and everything that seemed unrelated could come out of his mouth very coherently.

He complained to his mother that he was very dissatisfied with some of the actions of his cousin and sister-in-law, that the bride price for his little nephew's girlfriend was too much, that his child had won a scholarship, and that the rice in his field had been trampled by cattle. It's just a chattering old lady through and through, and even the mother here is starting to get impatient.

And when we met, my uncle's chatty nature scared me even more.

He would sit me in front of him and listen to him with a serious expression. He told me about his hardships as a child, about his life when he and his aunt first got married, and then about what kind of boyfriend I was going to find, what I would do after I got married so that I wouldn't suffer, and so on.

If I yawn or look away for a while, he will start criticizing me, saying that I don't respect my elders and don't listen to their reasoning, that I will suffer sooner or later. My uncle's rhetoric distressed me. I think he's too dogmatic.

And my aunt is as good as my uncle, and her ability to talk is what scares me the most.

Every time I went to visit my aunt with my mother, she would ask from beginning to end, such as what kind of car we were in, what time we left from home, whether there was a traffic jam on the road, whether we saw some acquaintances on the road, and so on. Seeing my mother patiently and meticulously answering beside me, I secretly cried out in my heart.

Of course, every time my aunt would cook a good meal for me and my mother, her cooking skills were excellent, but when she cooked, she still showed her chatty nature.

As long as her aunt is cooking, she asks her mother to stand next to her, and she doesn't need to wash and chop vegetables, just chat with her.

My aunt would talk to my mother about whose food was fresh, whose meat was expensive, whose child was admitted to college and had to go to courtesy, whose son bought a suite for a marriage mortgage, and would convey some cooking tips to my mother from time to time.

At the dinner table, my aunt would naturally not let go, and would ask me a lot of questions, such as how much I was paid, what kind of work I did every day, how I was in a relationship with my boyfriend, when I planned to get married, etc., and would bring out many examples of neighbors to educate me, which made me very speechless.

Although I was annoyed by talking to a certain extent, I also knew that the reason why they talked was all out of concern and love for me, so whenever I thought about it, the disgust in my heart would disappear and be replaced by warmth and touch.