What does it feel like to be emotionally hurt and stop believing in love?

Every relationship should not be smooth sailing, and there will always be stumbles, divisions and mergers. But in a relationship, no one wants to hurt themselves, and they all want to be sweet all the time, but how rare this will be!

I'm a typical lovephobia, I don't dare to accept anyone's confession, even if someone else says something to me, I feel so disgusted, I resist love in my heart, and I can't accept anyone. However, sometimes I envy myself when I see other lovers frolicking together, especially when I am alone.

Let's talk about an incident that happened to me the night before: I went to dinner 4 kilometers away with my colleague and his boyfriend the night before, and in the process of eating, they sandwiched each other's favorite dishes, and I was so happy to see them sweet and happy. In the process of eating, I was embarrassed to interrupt them to talk to them, so I kept burying my head in eating, and I felt more and more bored, so we talked more than 5 sentences after the whole meal, and I was particularly helpless.

I had no choice but to agree, but sadly we walked for more than an hour, we didn't say a word in the middle, and I was very broken along the way, and I felt so disgusting to see them show their love, but I was very envious that they could be so sweet.

If you have been hurt, you will not dare to accept others, and you will be afraid of being hurt again and sad again. The last relationship was when I was a sophomore in high school, the two of us were junior high school classmates, he began to chase me in junior high school, and I liked him in my heart, at that time, the family discipline was stricter, and I didn't dare to agree to him, and I didn't block his power to accept him in the second year of high school, but the good times didn't last long, we didn't stay together for too long, his mother didn't want us to go to school and wanted us to get married early, and if we didn't get married, we would break up early, wasting time, I always felt that he was cowardly, and they broke up after two months, I really love him, the two of us didn't break up because we had no feelings, so we broke up with each other with pain and regret, and the two of them have always regretted wanting to start over, but they didn't have the courage to say this, and in the end we didn't see each other again, no longer in touch, but I heard that he is now married, and I am still in that relationship, I haven't come out, I fall in love with someone unconsciously, it's so difficult to forget someone!

I can't believe that love is really painful, I want to fall in love when I see the sweetness of other people's love, I really want to taste the sweetness of love and the happiness brought by love, but I am afraid that I will be hurt and sad like a relationship. Sometimes I hate myself for being so spineless and unable to get out of my last relationship, so cowardly and afraid to try and not dare to accept others. I always feel that everyone is pursuing me with a playful attitude, and when I really entered the play, it was time to break up, in short, after the relationship is hurt, I will no longer believe in love, the whole world is only myself, and the world is only black and white.

<> feel. It's like being bitten by a snake for ten years and being scared of the rope, and you're scared of the same thing happening again, and you're afraid of being hurt again. You can't afford to be hurt again, and you will no longer believe in love if you don't face fear for yourself.

I liked a girl when I was in high school before, and I was a classmate and came to become a front and back table for various reasons. In the past, because I was more introverted, I basically didn't take the initiative to greet people I didn't know, so even though we have been classmates for a year, I still haven't had any contact with her.

However, it was different when she became the front and back table, and at first she took the initiative to turn her head and talk to me, because she was a very cheerful girl herself, so no one felt anything strange. However, I still felt something different, he was gentle with me, and he didn't smile like other boys. Gradually, the two of them talked more, and I found that I had a crush on her.

After that, we got along for another week, and when we were on vacation, she asked for the address of my home and said that she wanted to come and play. Although I didn't give it, I said that you can just come to me directly, and I will come out. The joke that was already a joke really came true, and he asked me out to play a few days after the holiday and confessed.

I agreed at the time, and then I lived the life of a summer couple.

Later, my friend said that they had been a couple since the summer vacation, and I had seen them shopping together before.

Now I'm very serious when dealing with girls, and I'm afraid of hurting again.

The last relationship has ended for more than two years, but until now I am still reluctant to enter the next relationship and accept another stranger. The last relationship, after five years, exhausted all my youth and patience, and I felt that I could not accept the next relationship, because I was afraid, afraid of being disappointed again. Fear makes me so sad again.

That relationship started in high school, when we were young and ignorant, just simply liking each other, and the love at that time was sweet in our hearts. After surviving the long distance, but not getting along every day, and then we began to fall into endless quarrels, the two people who quarreled were heartbroken, physically and mentally exhausted, this kind of days lasted for a year, a year of pain and suffering, so that all my beautiful illusions about love were completely shattered. I can never imagine how two people who once loved each other so much could become like this.

Now I am still alone, eating alone, shopping alone, getting older and older, my parents began to urge me to go on a blind date, even if I coped with them, but I didn't want to talk to each other more. I don't want to let a stranger come into my life again, I don't want to let another person have the opportunity to hurt me, I would rather live alone and quietly, but I don't want two people to face each other in pain. I don't have confidence in others, I don't have confidence in myself, I don't believe that I will ever fall in love with someone, and I don't believe that anyone in this world will love me.

When a boy treats me well, I get disgusted and want to run away, not wanting that person to disturb my life.

It's not that I don't believe in love anymore, but I have lost the patience and courage to love, and the feeling of not being able to love is too painful, and who wants to experience that heart-wrenching feeling again. I still believe that some love is beautiful, but I may never have it.

You should believe in love.

Love is worth believing in because there are still many people who have love. If you are hurt in love, then it is because you are hurt by the other party, not by real love. In any case, there is still a lot of love in this world, but we have not yet met this love, but we have to believe in love.

Love is very worth believing, because many people also have love, they are very happy and happy in love, and two people in love are also very sweet.

One: Love is sweet.

Either way, love itself is very sweet. It's just that we don't have this sweet love, and then we will feel that love is fake, and finally we don't believe in love. In fact, love is very sweet, and when we have a real fate, then love will be very close to us, and we will also have this sweet love.

Two: Don't disbelieve in love.

In love, it hurts a lot, but don't disbelieve in love in this case, because it's the other person's actions that hurt you, not true love. If you are hurt in love, don't disbelieve in love, you must know that the previous ones are not real love, you must know that you may still be some distance away from true love, and when fate comes, love will come. You are only hurt by the other person, not by love.

We must believe in the existence of love, and believe that we will have a beautiful love. <>

Three: Love is very precious.

It is precisely because it is possible to be hurt in love, so love is very precious. Love is very rare, and it is difficult for many people to seek true love, which also shows that love is very precious, and precious things are difficult to find. We also have to believe that we will have our own love, love is sweet, this sweetness makes us happier, with sweet love, it will make us grow better.

In short, love is precious and rare.

Everyone's emotional experience is different, some people can have a relationship from the beginning, while others struggle in the emotional vortex. But no matter how deeply you are hurt in your relationship, you should still believe in the existence of love and believe that love will come to you.

Once incomparably pure love, in today's era, it has become a strange appearance. People are hurt in their relationships, lost in their feelings, desperate in their feelings, and even self-degraded in their feelings. But don't be tired, what kind of love you have experienced, no matter what kind of hurt you have suffered in this relationship, we should firmly believe in the existence of love.

What kind of feeling is love, everyone's feelings are different, but no one can deny that love can make people feel sweet and happy. If you have been hurt in love and have already questioned love, then love will be farther and farther away from you.

There is a saying in life called believing in the power of believing, which actually makes no sense, but this is what it is. Because if you believe, you are willing to think about love from the point of view of purity, as a participant in love. But if you don't want to believe in the existence of love, then you will face all the opposite sex around you with a scrutinizing eye, and even you will think that everyone approaching you will have a purpose.

If you live in such a state, then you will not be able to grasp love at all, and it is impossible to be happy in love. But everyone expects to be able to go to happiness through love, and in this situation, you must believe in the existence of love, and love can really come.

It may seem like an irony, but that's what life is all about. No matter what kind of hurt you have suffered in love, you must believe in the existence of firm love, otherwise your future road to love will only be more bumpy.

Yes, it should be believed. The reason why it hurts deeply is because that's not the person you're waiting for. Love is beautiful and pure, and true love is always there.

Everyone has the right to pursue love. On the way to pursue love, we may meet people who are not suitable for us and will be hurt by love. But love should always be believed.

I think so. Because true love still exists, we can't resist all love because of the harm that love has brought us.

You have to believe that the previous encounters are all tempering for you, true love will always appear, the world is so beautiful, there is always someone who is constantly looking for you, so you have to protect yourself and wait for him to appear.

It is said that time is the best healing medicine, and emotional damage especially needs time to heal, but even if the injury can be healed, the scar will still exist. Therefore, many people no longer believe in love after being hurt by an emotional injury, because they are afraid of being hurt again and adding new scars to the old place again, the following threeConstellationsThat's it. : CancerCancerians are very sensitive and delicate, and they are always able to detect what the other person really thinks.

Insecure Cancerians finally find love, but when they become more and more balanced and unable to extricate themselves, the other person suddenly withdraws. This kind of blow will become a shadow of their psychological regret for a long time, not to mention letting them go into the next relationship to forget this relationship, they even lose the strength and courage to love someone. : AquariusWhen Aquarius people have suffered a very serious emotional injury, they will decide that love will never be as stable and long-lasting as friendship.

Especially Aquarians who are very involved in this relationship seem to be able to get something in return even if they give more emotionally. But friends are different, even if Xiang Xiang hasn't done anything for each other, they won't leave. Aquarians who have been hurt by their love no longer have thoughts about love, but will instead manage their friendships wholeheartedly. ：

Libra When Libras encounter a relationship failure, they will be severely psychologically unbalanced. When two people break up, they always remember how good they were to their lovers before, and they paid so much but didn't get a good result. If there is another love in front of them, they will be very hesitant to pick it up.

In the end, the scales will be biased towards the fear of being hurt, and they don't want to be hurt because of love anymore.

We can put aside the result of this love for a moment, and we can reflect on the beginning of this love and the process of this love. I believe that we choose two people to be together, and then start this love, want to go hand in hand, and then the experience of virtue and vanity, is to believe that love is real, and we believe that from the beginning, we instantly feel that we must be the most loving, and must be the happiest.

<>Maybe we were hurt in the process because of some problems with each other, but it wasn't the fault of love, but in our love, as the protagonist, there was a deviation that led to a bad ending. So love can still be believed, but the protagonist needs to change. When it comes to love, people often say that long-distance relationships are unreliable, the age gap is too big and unreliable, and the status gap between two people is too big and unreliable.

But the truth is that no matter how far apart two people are, no matter how different their ages are, no matter how much their income differs from the other, there are always lovers who end up together and end up doing well. So sometimes, you don't have to say that love hurts, because you have suffered a failure in love, and then you are no longer willing to love anyone, you know, love is never wrong, it is only the people you meet who are wrong. When you meet the wrong person and you don't get along in the right way, it will be difficult for him to cherish you and give you the ending you want.

On the contrary, if the person you love is nice and knows how to treat you well, it is easy to have a happy ending and a sweet relationship.

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