The topic of why young people don t like to go to relatives anymore has caused heated discussions,

When it comes to the Spring Festival, I believe that many people's first reaction is to visit relatives and friends, especially the parents' generation pays special attention to the form of relatives, but now many young people say that they don't like to go to relatives more and more, and this topic has also been on the hot search for a time, causing heated discussions among netizens, and I am also a member of the hot discussion.

Relatives are too gossipy, and there is no bottom line for the problem As a young person, the main reason why I don't like to go to relatives now is that it is ** in our familyRelatives are too gossipy。As a woman, who has just graduated from college and has not worked for two years, she will be urged to fall in love and get married by all kinds of people in the family. And as I get older, this phenomenon of being urged to marry will become more and more serious, from the urging of my parents to the urging of the whole family to get married, it really makes me feel pressured.

Some relatives don't move around once a year, but when it comes to the Spring Festival, they have to visit, and when they get to their relatives' homes, they will be asked, such as how much is the monthly salary, and whether they are in love? If you don't fall in love and don't get married, then there will be all kinds of nagging. The New Year is originally a happy festival, but this nagging voice andRegulation without boundariesIt made me feel very uncomfortable, so I didn't want to leave my relatives.

Relatives show off I believe that everyone has such relatives in their families, the family conditions are a little better, or the children are a little better, they will show off in all kinds of family gatherings during the New Year's Festival, and this kind of showing offwill also increase the value of their own children by belittling other people's children.

And there are a lot of such relatives in our family. There are both male and female relatives. As I grow older, I will also have my own thoughts and opinions, so when these relatives are playing some things in front of me, I always can't help but want to be ironic, but this kind of irony often makes relatives very embarrassed, so in order to avoid this embarrassment, I still try not to go to relatives.

Interfering in personal life is annoying, and the lifestyle of young people today is very different from that of the elderly in the past, for example, I have always been in a state of living alone, and living alone makes me feel very relaxed, but this kind of behavior seems to be abnormal behavior in the eyes of my relatives, and I think that the young ones either live with their parents, or find a husband to marry and have children.

Although my parents and my relatives think completely differently, I am also worried that one day my parents will think that my relatives have a point, and thus prevent me from living freely alone.

Because the relationship is not very good, it makes no sense to go only by the New Year, if you really have the heart, you can also go, and you have to send red envelopes to your children during the New Year, which is not often seen in itself, and you have to give red envelopes, buy gifts or something, it's too troublesome, I don't like to go to relatives, it's better to wrap a bag for them directly.

My reason is that young people nowadays are more transparent in their way of seeing things, they don't want to waste their time on relatives, they want to use that time to work on their dreams.

I think a very important reason why young people don't like to go to relatives anymore is because communication is becoming more and more developed, and it is not necessary to go to relatives face-to-face, but also through ** chat or a variety of online chat tools to contact.

Because with the continuous estrangement of geographical distance, the feelings between these so-called relatives are getting weaker and weaker, and there is an old saying that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, right? In many things, we are not able to help each other in time or be helped by each other, so we are very indifferent to the affection between relatives. Another reason is the continuous shrinking of the clan, which used to be called the family, probably like the scene in the Ningguo Mansion and the Rongguo Mansion in the Dream of Red Mansions, there are many branches below, and it is understandable for children to laugh and play together.

But nowadays, there are very few children in people's families, and they rarely see each other, and there is not much contact at all, so it will not seem particularly warm to meet. And isn't it even more disgusting to have fake care between those relatives? In the name of caring about you, I tried to compare who was better off, and said that I might feel very kind when I received condolences from relatives in the past, but now I am only embarrassed.

Young people are reluctant to visit relatives, and this phenomenon is increasing, especially around the Spring Festival. Many elders think that young people don't go to their relatives because they don't understand that your relatives have a weak concept and criticize young people in a blind way. But they don't know that it is the thinking of the older generation, and kinship is important, but the thinking of young people is also changing.

And now when I go to relatives, every time I go to a relative, they will ask themselves about their own situation, ask themselves whether they have a partner, how much is their salary, whether they are ready for the exam, when they will get married, what is the brand of the car, these questions are not only very embarrassing for themselves, but also very annoying to these questions.

The relationship between relatives is an important structure in ancient society, whether it is an early slave society, or a later feudal monarchy, or even the current socialism, relatives are an important structure, whether it is a royal family or a family relative. Many young people are reluctant to go in because it takes a lot of time to visit relatives. And when relatives get together, many people find that there is nothing to talk about, and visiting relatives is becoming more and more formal, there is no meaning, just a burden rather than an emotional exchange.

Changing a blood relationship with relatives now does not seem to bring any benefits, on the contrary, it will affect the allocation of your precious time.

Walking in is like the New Year, getting lighter and lighter, and the questions asked at every house are the same. Young people yearn for freedom, for all kinds of play, rather than going to relatives and then sitting there and talking to those relatives. And they have their own work to keep busy.

There is not enough time to see the world, so they are reluctant to visit their relatives, and the elders of the family do not blame them.

It is important to go to relatives, but it is more important to take care of your time. If you have time, you must go to visit relatives and contact yourself to contact yourself.

For my father's generation, blood ties were very important. In the countryside at that time, it was common for families to have five or six children. If there is only one male in a family, it is easy to suffer dumb losses in the intrigue of various complex interests (such as the division of land, the distribution of irrigation water, etc.).

Although there are disagreements between relatives, when they encounter some disputes, they will report to the outside world together. In the countryside, the more relatives there are, the more united they are, and the fewer people who dare to bully your family. Therefore, visiting relatives during the New Year's holidays is not only to contact feelings, but also to consolidate this blood alliance.

In addition, another role of relatives is to help in life. The annual spring and autumn harvest is the heaviest time for farm work, and helping relatives to do some farm work can greatly improve the efficiency of agricultural production. In weddings and funerals, if there are no relatives to share some complicated trivial matters, it is difficult to do it decently.

Having money in hand, being sick and needing someone to take care of you for a few days, needing to borrow tools, etc., and other small things such as having relatives to help can often get twice the result with half the effort. Visiting relatives during the New Year's holidays is a thank you for helping each other this year.

By the time of my generation, most of the young and middle-aged laborers in the rural areas had gone to the cities to work, and I was taken out by my father at a very young age, and I was basically separated from rural life. I have personally experienced that this kind of kinship has been slowly diluted by economic and social development.

Because young people's family concept is getting weaker and weaker, and they don't like this kind of red tape, young people don't like to go to relatives more and more.

First of all, today's young people live at a fast pace, and the energy involved in various factors such as work and family is too great, and they have very little time for themselves, so they have no time to go to relatives;

Secondly, most of them are only children, and they do not have a deep sense of affection for family other than immediate family members, unlike their parents, who have many brothers and sisters;

In the end, I think the most fundamental reason is that the difference in thinking and concepts is too great, the older generation is empathetic, they have a common topic, and they need to talk to each other, while the young people's thinking is more modern, and the older generation has no common language, so naturally they don't like to string relatives.

Not all young people don't like to go to relatives more and more, there may be young people who don't like to go to relatives because, on the one hand, because in the process of going to relatives, they generally don't like to be asked by relatives if they have a partner, how much income so that they feel more sensitive topics, on the other hand, many young people are now rare to celebrate the New Year, these days of rest time are all spent on going to relatives, so that they do not get real relaxation.

Because young people are busy with school, work, etc. all the time, there is no more leisure time to visit relatives. In addition, parents of young people do not necessarily mention their relatives to their children. There are also relatives who do not live with young people, and it is inconvenient to move around.

Young people are becoming less and less inclined to visit their relatives, mainly because they have been working outside for a long time and have a weak relationship with their relatives. In addition, they are reluctant to socialize with other people, they will be questioned and they feel a lot of pressure, so young people are willing to avoid relatives for these reasons.

In the past era, going to relatives is a kind of interaction between family affection, there is a warm sense of close knowledge, it doesn't matter how many gifts, affection arrives, there is a heart, it is enough, and the other party will also press back the gift, and have to be grandly entertained. Children follow the adults, and it is more likely that they can improve their food and teeth. There may be a few cents or even a piece of New Year's money for the New Year.

In today's era, the relationship between relatives is more of a formality, lacking that enthusiasm, and more of an entanglement of interests and calculations. There are also those who hate the poor and love the rich, and compare themselves with each other. has long lost the simplicity and sincerity of visiting relatives in the past.

Young people simply don't attach much importance to these kinship relationships and are not interested. There are also embarrassing questions about whether young people are reluctant to go to relatives because they may be asked about their studies or work salary, and some will ask about whether they are talking to someone, etc., which are all reasons why young people are reluctant to go to relatives

Because most young people may be in a state of working or studying outside, it is natural that there will be less contact with relatives, and it can even be said that they are strangers, so when they go to relatives, they will only feel more embarrassed when they meet. And most of the relatives in life always like to compare the achievements of young people, and at the same time will talk about some topics that young people don't like. So many young people are very resistant to taking relatives.

Nowadays, young people are less and less inclined to visit relatives. On the one hand, the reason is that the network is developed, and it is relatively easy to communicate through the Internet, and the pressure is also fast-paced, and the reason is that I am reluctant to go to relatives.

Why do we young people dislike visiting relatives less and less? In fact, not all young people are becoming less and less fond of visiting relatives. There may be a reason why young people don't like to go to relatives.

On the one hand, it is because in the process of visiting relatives, it is generally not like to be asked by relatives. Is there an object? How much does it earn?

This is a topic that they find more disgusting. On the other hand, many young people celebrate the New Year now. If these days of rest are spent on visiting relatives, they will feel.

Particularly tedious. In fact, it is very comfortable to take a few days off in Shenzhen during the Chinese New Year to make yourself relaxed and relaxed. I don't want to hear so much gossip.

This is also the main reason.

Because now young people are becoming more and more independent, and family affection is becoming weaker and weaker. I can't get the family affection I want when I go to relatives, so I don't like to go to relatives anymore.

Because we young people don't have that close relationship with our relatives now, we haven't grown up together like our parents, and we don't have any common memories, and it's awkward to sit together. In addition, young people have their own social circle of friends, and we prefer to stay with friends rather than relatives. The second is that the pace of life is getting faster and faster, and only the New Year can make you completely relaxed and adjust your mentality, so you are more and more reluctant to go to relatives.

There are two main reasons why young people are becoming less and less inclined to visit their relatives. One is that the contact between young people and their relatives is often not close, and many of them do not even know each other, unlike the elders of the generation whose relatives are not far away, so there is no need to move around. The second is that relatives often like to ask young people some intimate questions, which also makes young people very disgusted and even lose face.

Therefore, young people nowadays generally do not like to go to relatives.

Why are we young people less and less inclined to visit relatives? In fact, I think that young people nowadays are less and less inclined to visit relatives, mainly because relatives are particularly fond of nagging, every time young people go to visit relatives, these relatives will constantly ask their jobs, their partners, their children and other questions that make them very annoying. And now young people are under a lot of pressure in life and work, and they all want to relax and rest during the holidays.

As a result, young people are becoming more and more reluctant to leave their relatives.