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The world is so big, there is no coincidence that there is no book, and this kind of romantic thing really exists in this world, and it happened to my friend, who started a solo trip to Indonesia.
For girls who love to travel, most of them have a Sahara complex, and they have also fantasized about becoming a wandering Sanmao. On the train, they finally met. When the train passed Surabaya, he actually took out a guitar and sang, and the whole carriage instantly boiled, and I sat not far away, listening to his song and looking at Sanmao.
Everyone took a ride to the volcanic town, and I learned that his surname was Su, and after staying in the town for two days, Mr. Su said that he was leaving, and he would ride a motorcycle to visit Koh Samui and several nearby islands for half a month. He asked his friend if he wanted to go with him, and he agreed to go with him without thinking about it for long. They chatted non-stop along the way and found him to be a very interesting person.
They like to travel the world, they love freedom, and they want to go to Africa. Friends soon traveled with him, gradually got to know him during the trip, walked into each other's hearts, and finally fell in love and entered the palace of marriage. I once read an article in a person's worldview, values have not yet been formed.
When he was not yet financially independent, there were great limitations to testing him by any means. It's like a sapling is still growing, and you haven't yet known what kind of tree it is, and how do you know if you will like the flowers it might produce in the future? When a person has matured in all of the above, some temperament and patterns of getting along can be discerned through travel or other means.
But that's what he lets you see, too. If you have no interests with him, you can see the real him. If he has ambitions, pursues you or takes advantage of you, how can you see him as he is? Now I wish my friends to get this kind of romantic and reliable love.
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When I was traveling, I met a girl who loved to laugh, and when I looked at her eyes, I felt as if there was a galaxy, and then I fell in love with her.
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Yes, the other half will appear at any time and anywhere, as long as fate arrives, that person will appear, so it is possible to travel.
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No, I'm not a big fan of traveling, so I don't have the opportunity to meet my other half.
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My boyfriend was a volunteer I met when I was traveling in Dali, and then he helped me carry my luggage when I was staying in the hotel, and we met, and then he took me everywhere to play, and then we were together.
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I think it's very difficult, because at most, I meet people with similar interests, and the travel time is so short, it would be too hasty to meet my partner like this.
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I don't, I go on a trip either with my other half or my other half is busy and doesn't have time, so I go with my friends.
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This kind of thing should be rare, but if you really encounter it, then this is a kind of fate, and it is fate that you are destined to meet her.
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There should be, but I haven't encountered anything like this around me. This kind of probability is still relatively small, especially for those who are more vigilant, let alone encountered.
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Yes, some very many people meet their other half when they travel, and the other half of Concord is actually a very romantic thing when traveling, many people should have imagined this kind of picture.
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1. Parents. It's hard to raise us, and they rarely have the opportunity to travel, and they always want to save money for our sake. Therefore, I hope to take my family to see other cities and other countries, feel the different customs and culture, eat different delicacies, and relax their minds in the morning.
2. Friends who match the concept of tourism.
Not every friend is suitable for traveling together, some people like to eat food, some people like to see the scenery, some want to save money, choose the cheapest food and accommodation, and some are very luxurious, the pursuit of comfort and high-end, if these basic things can't be discussed, it will be very depressing. It was originally a very happy thing to travel, but in the end, it was awkward and even hurt feelings because of these trivial things.
3. The other half.
Sometimes it is not suitable to see if two people are suitable, just go out to travel, travel is also a process of understanding each other, you can judge whether it is a compatible person from the details, and whether the three views are consistent.
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When it comes to the romance of traveling, there are many of them, so let's talk about one. It was a group tour with my lover on the eve of the Spring Festival, first to Meizhou City, Guangdong, I don't remember which hotel to stay in, I feel that the accommodation conditions are not bad. Maybe there was just a wedding banquet here that day, the hotel lobby and restaurant are very festive, especially the arched flower door, very beautiful, after the meal, we took a few group photos while the place, the lover was very happy, proposed to go outside.
We came from the north, and when we came, there were snowflakes floating in our house, and when we arrived in Meizhou, it became a drizzle. It feels good to walk in the rain, especially on the streets of a different place thousands of miles away, hugging your lover. Looking at the weather forecast, our next trip will be accompanied by rain, when we walk on the street, the shoes are soaked, so we bought a pair of rain boots, the high-legged kind, I am brown, she is blue, and the rain boots also need a couple suit.
In fact, the rest of the trip, after the rain, the sky is clear, ** is Lanlan's day. You might embarrass us both with two pairs of bulky rain boots. At first, I was really so frustrated, but I didn't expect it, but later on a sunny day, rain boots came in handy.
It was Qingao Bay on Nanao Island in Shantou, a paradise hidden behind the dust of the city and embraced by romantic feelings.
Qing'ao Bay semi-enclosed form embraces the sea surface, makes the bay like a crescent moon, the sea surface is like a tide, the beach is gentle, the water depth within 50 meters does not exceed meters, it becomes a rare natural bathing beach, it is called "Oriental Hawaii", and it is also the "Swimmer's Heavenly Pool" praised by national leaders, foreign merchants, literati and ink writers. It's a pity that it's not the right time, after all, it's almost the New Year, the rippling sea is still very cold, and the tourists can only stroll on the golden beach, watching the waves come and go.
The tour guide gave us enough time to play, but in the face of the sea, we couldn't walk into the sea, everyone was really helpless, and some returned to the bus early to sleep. Unexpectedly, our rain boots became an artifact for catching the sea. We had a lot of fun at the beach!
On the empty beach, we strolled or chased, forgetting where we were, forgetting our time and age. I was on the beach, using a small bamboo pole to write poetry-like love words, although it was quickly wiped out by the jealous tide, but the hot and spicy poetic love conveyed still made my lover's face flushed, ashamed and happy!
Later, when I returned to the tour bus, the bus was full of tourists who said that coming to Qing'ao Bay was a romantic honeymoon for the two of you. Who's to say it's not, but I can only think like this, I can't say it in my mouth, or it may affect the emotions of other people, after all, they didn't play well, and we had too much fun.
The two pairs of rain boots, originally on the way to prepare to give to the local residents, with the romantic experience of Qingao Bay, we are both reluctant, just take it all the way, that is no longer an ordinary rain boots, it carries our romance and memory, encourage us to take the opportunity, all the way together, with the end of the world!
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I haven't done anything more romantic, but it's very tiring to go out on a trip, and I will help him get a massage whenever he rests at night.
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It was he who bought him something he liked for a long time without his knowledge, and it was the most romantic thing I ever did.
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The most romantic thing is to run through the streets of a foreign country together, to feel the charm of the city, and to eat the food of various places together.
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When I was traveling, I secretly bought some of the things he saw for him, but I was reluctant to buy them. He was very impressed.
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Travel is the easiest way to see what kind of person a person isTravel is the easiest to see what kind of person a person is, if you do understand the true face of your boyfriend through travel, and the performance in the usual communication is quite different, you can choose to break up.
I believe in this sentence very much, so the year before last I proposed to travel with my ex, I went with the purpose of seeing him clearly. So on the way, I deliberately took some small things to get angry with him, to see if he would still take care of me and comfort me when he was tired from traveling. As a result, he was completely absent from the gentleness and thoughtfulness he used to be, and he kept a straight face, feeling particularly cold.
Later, I didn't go to a few attractions that I wanted to see, and I was very unhappy, and I even quarreled. After that trip, he and I naturally broke up, and it was neat. The other party didn't look like he wanted to redeem it at all.
In the end, I couldn't help but ask him, why is his temper so bad when he travels? He said: "Travel is the best way to see a person, you can lose your temper when you travel a little thing, give me a look, it's very difficult to serve, it's not like you usually, I finally see the world clearly."
That's what it's like.
During the journey, it is inevitable that there will be constant situations; What's more, when going out, the mode of getting along with people jumps out of the daily quiet years, and a few people who have been busy with the state for more than half a year will inevitably relax their nerves of being sanctimonious on weekdays. As soon as a few moths come out, whether it is communication style, emotion management ability, or problem-solving skills, you can see it at a glance. Compared with those strangers who form a group temporarily, intimacy faces more tests, the truth of adversity sees the truth of temperament escalates, once there is slackness, the previous decency seems so unreal, and those who are mature and secure are more likely to get the other party's affirmation.
Travel is fraught with serendipity, and it may not be wise to rush to define your partner's behavior.
Therefore, travel is not necessarily a relationship curse, and the accidents that everyone wants to avoid during travel can also become a turning point in the relationship, and the key is whether to return or focus on the other person's feelings, or to focus too much on the other person, and emphasize the self too much - not that I am traveling alone, but that "we" are traveling. Perhaps the safest thing to do if you want to stay on the sidelines and not be disappointed in your intimate relationship is not to throw your perfect assumptions about life and your partner into a rush trip at once.
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It is said that traveling with the other half can reveal his true character, is that true?
Hello, according to your description, it is as follows: Travel can indeed see the true character of a friend Qicong, but also the real life state of a person. Because of the long time spent together when traveling, it will be good for Sakura to make people take off the mask of social interaction and show their true selves.
You can also get a glimpse of what life is like for the other person through the small details, details and conversations during the trip.
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Tourism is up-close and can amplify differences. Travel is a period of pure companionship, without the influence of anything else, and can clearly show how you interact with each other. Travel will encounter stupid and endless accidents, you will have fun, but you will also encounter disagreements.
In the process of dealing with differences, you can clearly reflect your true values, such as whether two people can talk, whether there is empathy, whether there are major differences in the perception of money, etc.
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That's the case, from a person's words and deeds, we can know what kind of person he is, and whether he is worth paying for him.
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Yes, so when you are in the object, you must travel to a certain extent to ensure the future life of the two of you.
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That's right, because there will be a lot of things to get used to when you travel together, and many people will expose their shortcomings.
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Read 10,000 books and travel 10,000 miles. Travel is an extension of life, a good way to enhance life experience, and a way to expand your horizons.
Traveling with your significant other, then the lives of the two of you expand to a larger space, not just the pots and pans at home, but also the routine of your respective work and occupation. In a larger space, in front of a beautiful landscape, two people can experience beautiful moments together, and both can feel the need for two lives to merge into one.
So, traveling with your significant other can strengthen your love and bring your hearts closer together.
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Traveling is the best way to check if the other person is a good fit for your partner.
Recently, a friend complained to me that she went to Thailand with her boyfriend during the National Day. Now I'm going to break up when I come back! It doesn't matter if you don't ask, you will be shocked when you ask. My friend said that only two things happened during the trip: "I wanted to hack him to death" and "I couldn't help it".
It turned out that the strategies before the trip were all made by girlfriends, but after arriving, my boyfriend complained that the arrangement was not good, and I wanted to go crazy. Play on your phone all the way you go! Walking, eating, and seeing attractions are all playing!
What a rout! He was impatient to take pictures in front of the attraction, and he also took pictures of missing arms and legs, which was a huge dislike. If such a male ticket comes back and doesn't break up, do you keep it for the New Year?
Afterwards, I checked with her boyfriend about the situation, and he felt that there was only a small mistake, why did he end up so serious about breaking up?
In fact, it is very important to travel together before getting married, because the shortcomings of two people are exposed in 24-hour companionship, so you must think about whether it is suitable between you during the trip. It can be done from the following aspects:
1. Whether the life and rest are consistent.
You like to wake up early and want to go to the sunrise together. But the other half is completely a late-night person who likes to be active at night. But waking up early in the morning is nothing short of devastating.
The original formation of the full arrangement was delayed due to the problem of departure time, which will also be very frustrating. Therefore, you should live with people with similar lifestyles so that you will not feel uncomfortable.
Second, whether the values are compatible.
You may want to travel in a good hotel and enjoy a relaxing life, but the other half of your trip may be a trip that you want to travel on a budget. He thinks it's okay to squeeze the hostel, and saving money is the last word. TravelFor him, shopping is the most worthwhile aspect of his money.
So it's easy to be contradictory. You need to understand whether the values of two people are compatible.
3. Whether the concept of money is consistent.
Can two people's understanding of consumption be consistent? When you are shopping for something, when you come across the original book you really want to buy in the bookstore, the other half is pouring cold water. This book is so expensive, and it's too heavy to take it back, so you might as well buy a pirated copy online.
If you have some doubts about money, you must understand it clearly before you get married, otherwise it will be difficult to get along after you get married.
If you want to know if the other party is suitable for you, take a trip before getting married!
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