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You haven't officially married your boyfriend and he treats your family like this, which means that he doesn't take you seriously at all, you better think carefully and marry him again, because marriage is not a matter of the two of you, but a matter of two families, otherwise you will not be happy if you get married. I would also like to say: Do you feel happy now?
If you are not happy now, you will not be happy in the future. It stands to reason that talking about friends is the happiest part of the process, and you have often quarreled and even fought, and I personally don't think you are happy.
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If the relationship between two people can stand the test, then there will be happiness. Because parents always want you to be happy, as long as you are happy, they will accept it.
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If I were you, I wouldn't be enough.
If you can't have a boyfriend, you can find it again, and your mother is just one. What's more important in the world than Mom?
You don't want to have anything other than him, and you can't find a better idea of you than him.
How do you know if you haven't met it?
Your parents gave birth to you and raised you, and worked hard all their lives.
What about spending 700 yuan? I'm going to be bankrupt, and I'm happy to.
No matter how much money you have, can't you and your boyfriend even earn back 700?
It's all an excuse, you have to understand the truth of love and Wu!
To love you is to love all of you, especially your parents, of course!
You let your boyfriend educate your boyfriend about what filial piety is.
What a b thing, look at the anger. Divide it, divide it!
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Sometimes love is blind, just miss you, that kind of love can't stand the test, persuade you to leave if you can't do it!
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It's hard to be happy. A marriage with the support of both families can have harmonious feelings between family members and a happy and long-lasting marriage.
An important indicator of a happy marriage is the harmony between family members.
If the rest of the family does not support the marriage, there can be no harmony between the family members and no happiness in the marriage. Only with the approval and support of family members can the relationship between family members be harmonious and the marriage be happy.
Therefore, family support is very important for a happy and long-lasting marriage.
The disapproval of the man's family is equivalent to antagonizing all his relatives, who do you talk to when you encounter problems in the marriage in the future. His parents' disapproval, equivalent to all his relatives are also not recognized by you, then after the New Year's holiday, although the matter of visiting relatives is omitted, but you have to think rationally, no matter how good love is, there will eventually be a day when it fades and returns to dullness, when your feelings become family affection, his family is always in front of him to say that you are not, can you guarantee that he is still firmly on your side? After all, human nature cannot stand the test.
If the man himself does not have his own opinions, and if his parents do not agree to this marriage, it is meaningless for the woman to insist. After all, in the future, it is also necessary for two people to maintain family relations together, if we find a man who has no opinions, then the future life will be very sad.
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Legally, parental consent is not required.
The Marriage Law stipulates that the male is 22 years old and the female is 20 years old, and the parties are willing to marry. No third party shall be coerced or interfered with.
In daily life, some parents will use the method of "not giving the household registration book" to prevent their children from getting married.
Methods such as re-applying for household registration book], [household registration certificate], and [household registration moving out] can break this situation.
Addendum: Don't always say nonsense such as "marriage without the blessing of parents", "don't listen to the old man, suffer in front of you" and so on.
An adult should shout to make his own choices.
Parents can make suggestions, but they cannot force or interfere with the "freedom to marry" granted by law.
A modern society governed by the rule of law is not an ancient feudal society.
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I can't say that I don't have to be happy, but it's true that if you want to be happy, it's much more difficult than a marriage with the blessing of your parents and relatives.
In fact, the crux of this question is not whether you can get this kind of blessing, but why you can't get it. In reality, there are some belated blessings, as long as such blessings will come sincerely, it means that the original choice is correct. But if you are opposed by your family because you meet someone unladylike and choose an improper mate, you can't help but reconsider your marriage.
There are no parents in the world who do not feel sorry for their children, especially in the marriage of their children, there is no one who does not want their children to be happy.
If some parents only value each other's money status and hinder their children's pursuit of personal happiness, it is more because there is a problem with the parents' three views, but in the original intention, they still want their children to be "happy". This is an approach that is not worthy of praise, but can also be somewhat sympathetic to parents. And simply for the benefit of themselves or their families, parents who do not hesitate to sacrifice the happiness of their children's lives and push women into the fire pit are also many of them, but that is one of the few "wonderful" in the world.
For parents who have problems with the three views and are motivated by pure profit, children can pursue their own true happiness according to their own ideas, even if they have to fight with their parents for this reason, it is not too much.
However, after all, parents are people who have come over, and there are many more people and things they have experienced, and observing people and things really points out the substantive problems that exist in marriage, and as a party to the marriage, we still have to treat them correctly and do some serious scrutiny.
Marriage is not child's play, and even if an unhappy marriage can be dissolved, it will inevitably leave one or two traces of pain in life.
Marriage is indispensable for affection, but it also requires enough reason to be completely emotional. Marriage is not only the union of two people, it is the connection between two families that are not related, and a marriage without the approval of parents will inevitably produce a lot of contradictions, but it cannot be avoided, and it must be faced every day, there is no problem between the two, and it is not happy to talk about happiness!
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It's not really hard to be happy. Because there are more love blocked by parents, why can't they be happy, some parents are very selfish and don't want their daughters to choose their own partners. Many couples can still try to live a good life on their own.
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Not necessarily, there are many people who have not received the blessing of their parents, and their parents did not agree at the time, but they are still living happily.
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Not. Because marriage is a matter for both husband and wife, and the relationship with parents is not big, if you are very affectionate, you are still very happy.
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Yes, love without the blessing of parents is unhappy, and it will be particularly difficult to live on your own, and when there are some emotional conflicts, you will be particularly pitiful.
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It is indeed difficult to be happy, because even if two people get married, they may not make the family harmonious, and it will become particularly painful.
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I think it is really difficult to be happy in a marriage without the blessing of your parents, because with only the two of you young people struggling to support you, and you usually don't have the help of your family, life will definitely be very difficult.
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Whether parental consent is required for marriage is a complex issue that needs to be judged and decided on a case-by-case basis. However, with or without the blessing of their parents, both spouses should work together to manage their marriage and take responsibility and obligation. Parents' opinions can be used as a reference.
The opinions of parents can play a certain role in the decision to get married. They usually have more experience and a more holistic perspective, and are able to provide some valuable advice and opinions. Listening to parents can make young people make more rational decisions about marriage, thus reducing the risk of problems after marriage.
The blessing of parents can increase the happiness of a marriage. Receiving the blessing and love of parents is everyone's inner desire. If a couple can get the blessing and support of their parents, their marriage will be happier and more stable.
Parental involvement and blessings can increase a couple's sense of belonging and security, making them more confident in facing the challenges of married life. Parental opposition does not necessarily mean that the marriage is unhappy. Sometimes, parental objections may be based on their experiences and observations, seeing problems that the newcomer himself or herself has not noticed.
However, this does not mean that the opposed marriage will necessarily fail or be unhappy. If the couple can rationally face the opposition of their parents, communicate carefully and solve the problems, their marriage may be stronger and longer-lasting. The happiness of a marriage depends on the efforts of both spouses.
The happiness of a marriage depends not only on whether or not you have the blessing of your parents, but more importantly, whether the husband and wife can work together and operate.
There are challenges and difficulties in married life that require mutual understanding, support and tolerance. If couples are able to face problems positively and solve them together, their marriages will be stronger and happier. Marriage is a matter for both husband and wife.
The final decision should be in the hands of the couple themselves. They need to take responsibility for their choices and decisions, as well as for their marriage. Whether they have the blessing of their parents or not, they should strive to create their own happiness and work together and fight for each other's future.
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Not necessarily, the key to a happy marriage depends on whether two people really love each other, appreciate, support and understand each other, whether they can have a common vision, work hard for a better life in the future, and whether they enjoy the time together and the process of working together, and whether they are willing to pay and share for each other.
In addition, parents are not necessarily right, many parents have their own marriages, and they have lived a lot of chicken feathers in their lives, so they may not be the truth in this regard, and they may not even have the right to speak. Whether you want to listen to a person's opinion in a certain aspect, it depends on how well he does in this regard, but in any case, marriage is his own business, others including parents, at most can only suggest, can not control, by the parents control the marriage, it is difficult to obtain happiness, a person can easily hand over his life decision-making power to others, indicating that you yourself do not have the confidence and ability to pursue happiness.
When I met my wife, I didn't have anything, and the family conditions were not good, so my mother-in-law was against my wife marrying me, and my wife said that if I wanted to listen to her, I would live the same life as her, and her parents' marriage can be said to be extremely painful, and after a lifetime of quarrel, my wife's biggest fear in this life is to repeat her parents' life.
In the end, we persevered, and we have already changed the views and even the relationship between her parents, and now we rarely quarrel, mainly because the conditions are good, the so-called poor and lowly couples mourn everything, and if they lack money, they will not like each other, and they are not short of money, and the whole world is amiable. And making money is actually the most basic, even the best way to express love.
My parents didn't say a word about my marriage, and they couldn't manage it, and they didn't let them care about anything when I got married and started a family, so they didn't care about anything, and I could do it without saying anything about my son's marriage in the future.
Marriage is a matter of self-awareness, no one can make decisions for you, no one can be responsible for your happiness, no matter how good others give, it is meaningless if you don't like it, no matter how bad your own imitation is, as long as you like it, no one is qualified to say that you are unhappy.
As Kant said: Even if a person is driving a fragile boat, as long as the rudder is in his own hands, he has the power to control his own direction, and will not be at the mercy of the waves.
This is especially true of marriage. Marital happiness and wealth and fortune are the same, and they need two people to work hard together to strive for it, and it is not easy to get it. If the person is right, everything is right, the person is wrong, nothing is right.
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