Broken up ideals are shattered by reality

Break up, she has her ideals, you have your life. There is a difference between men and women, so please understand her, she has her helplessness and struggles, talk about it well, and then, get together and break up, don't worry about each other's pain after the breakup, time will dilute everything.

Ideals and reality are always incompatible, and to realize one is to give up the other. Two people should be together for the purpose of happiness, but now it has become a reality and an ideal choice. How tired!

When it's time to let go, don't force it anymore. There's still a long way to go!

Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and you can't blame her for giving up on you, let it go. If he really loves you, he will go with you, my mother gave up the opportunity to work in a big city for my father, and now our family is doing well, although it is in a small county, but it is also considered a well-off. There's not so much work pressure either!

Hey......It's all the fault of stinky money. Just like you. But I didn't run all over the country.

Stay at home and join the wife. It doesn't feel manly. Ready to go out and do engineering.

Since you have a good job outside, don't delay your work for any feelings. It feels like your affairs are still in your feelings. Something went wrong.

It's really time to talk about it. Save trouble, whether this relationship is worth testing.

If you don't want to continue, then just divide it.

Trees die, people live. A blessing in disguise!

I believe it must be difficult for you to choose, men are indeed a disaster when facing love and career. I can't answer your question, because any answer requires a lot of courage, and it is clear that the other person is no longer able to do anything, and perhaps the answer is up to you, and in this battle, your girlfriend has left the problem to herself.

Humanity began to progress in order to be happier.

But he lost his way on the way...

Humanity has entered a world called "matter".

So, we began to have troubles ...

Actually, happiness is not hard to find.

It will float in gruel.

It will cling to the coarse linen ...

People know that it exists, just, after looking at the name "matter".

There is no way for people to go back after something ...

If you're willing to throw away those substances, there's still a chance!!

Go and tell her: as long as you are happy, I am willing to stay by your side and find a new job again! In the same way, as long as you feel happy, I am willing to secretly share your smile in the distance!

But. I want to be close to you and stay with you forever, is that okay? (This passage is very strange...)

I guess you can't tell!! ）

Pray!! Improvise!!

Change jobs, start from scratch, if you really her, you will do anything for her, and the situation will be uncertain after the treatment of these, how do you know that it is not good? Give it a try!

Work, money, career, future, we can all start from scratch. Only love, lost, is in the pursuit of **.

My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for half a year, seven of which have been long-distance relationships, only the first year together, but we don't feel like we've been separated! Because we call ** every day, thanks to the long distance fee that is so expensive to move!

Now we're together.

So I don't think distance is a problem, feelings are the most important thing!

Dividing is the best choice, which is why the ancients said that the family should be united first, and then the country should be governed.

Well, a long-distance relationship is hard to succeed

The table was sad

The sun is always shining after the storm

Girls still have a lot of ruthlessness!

Find someone to live by

ps: Even a vegetarian child

The bigger a woman is, the more realistic ... You better divide it.

Divide it! I thought so too!

If you really love deeply, you will not be defeated by reality, and if you are defeated, you will not be deeply loved.

Don't be sad, you still have a future husband.

A breakup isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's just that there are a lot of things that keep you from coming together, but in later life, you can still care for each other. It's just that you can't go to any kind of relationship.

I think you're having a hard time, too! Either you love each other deeply and break up. I understand your feelings. It's painful! Why don't you talk about it? If you can get it back, get it back! After all, you still love each other!

I deeply understand that I am the same as you now To be honest, I don't know how to persuade you Sometimes you have to accept it When you accept it Yesterday I passed with him ** After everyone was forced to break up, the most they said was to let each other take care of themselves and swallow it hard in their hearts After struggling, I realized that not all love can be overcome There is a good saying Let go does not mean that you don't love Breaking up doesn't mean you won't miss I wish you all happiness Come out early You must know that he is sad when he sees you He is more sad than you Aren't you distressed Cherish each other's memories At least there was love Be strong It's also me who I say to you.

What is the reason? Distance? Future? Or something else? The same is the end of the world.

Love is cherished, break through many difficulties, and let go if you don't love.

Joke? Why bother yourself? How old can you live? How many heartbeats can you encounter?

How old are you? So quickly defeated by reality?

Since they love deeply, they strive to create the conditions for mutual love and defeat all kinds of problems in reality.

Don't worry, you still have a future despite the cruelty of reality.

Let's just say that sometimes the ideal prevails

Don't look like this, as long as you have a good body, you can't work there to make money!

The ideal is noble, the reality is cruel, and people need to be balanced and clear before they can come out and do things!

Be responsible, you must be strong.

Ideals are to be had, goals to be achieved by oneself, difficulties to overcome, a little setback to be strong, don't be defeated at every turn, as long as your life is full of confidence, one day, you will achieve your ideals.

You all know that it is an ideal, why do you have to report so much hope, the reality and the ideal itself are not the same, people will only beautify the ideal in beautification, and do not consider the difficulty of actual operation at all, so recognize the reality, there is no ideal that can be realized, only the ideal that can be approached step by step. There are so many things that will be difficult in the future, and one will defeat you?

Why can't you live? Be brave and face the reality! Live a different life!

Love and reality are separate, but it is also possible to intuitively choose love to give up reality and look at the individual.

Don't talk about reality, saying that women are realistic can only show that men are not capable This is what my ex-girlfriend said to me back then Since you broke up, you broke up Why are you pulling so many calves.

The sufferings you have suffered, the losses you have suffered, the responsibilities you have bought, the sins you have carried, and the pains you have endured, will eventually turn into light and illuminate your path.

It's okay, maybe someone who really loves you is waiting for you not far ahead.

Do you think you make a movie? "Break up and say I love you"？Interesting?

Cut off all contact. Throw away everything that reminds you of him. After a long time, you will naturally forget. Have personal experience.

You live in your ideals, your family lives in reality, most ideals will be shattered by reality, since you are separated, don't fantasize about anything, go and find a real happiness!

Now that it's divided, don't think about it anymore. Your parents are standing in reality, and you're still in the theoretical stage, so since you've broken up and someone else has a girlfriend, let it go!

He belongs to the past tense, and he has found a girlfriend, which proves that he doesn't have you in his heart, why do you still care about him. Life is a constant pursuit, and you will meet the right one.

Find a new love, you have to believe that you can find happiness and live better than anyone else!

Firewood, rice, oil and salt are indispensable in life, no matter how much you love it, you can't stop arguing. Do you really have to drink water?

Forget it, time will smooth everything out.

Because it's your first love, some memories are not downplayed.

Change to a better boyfriend.

So girls break up ruthlessly

You've polluted and broken up with her conscience.

Confused about what, now is the real society, and if you don't have the strength, you can only be abandoned.

Hammer eats too much, can't give others happiness and let it go, if you like him, marry him and take care of him for a lifetime, what is there to worry about, how can a man be so indecisive,

Everyone will experience failures, everyone will encounter setbacks, and everyone must learn to withstand blows, otherwise, his life is imperfect. And people who are easily defeated by setbacks are not worthy of people's pity and help. The fittest survive, and the unfit are eliminated.

The dream is very beautiful, but there are a few people who can achieve it, so we need to be Xiaoqiang, Xiaoqiang who can't be beaten proudly stands proudly in the wind and snow, and enjoys the scenery alone.

The ideal is very full, the reality is very skinny, sometimes it is like that, but we will continue to work hard.

Pisces is actually a very indecisive sign, and for anything, they will be like that. Pisces people are also very romantic, and when faced with feelings, they will try to make the relationship more romantic as much as possible. Therefore, many people can't understand why Pisces people are so romantic, and even think that Pisces people are too naïve.

Being so incomprehensible to everyone must be very stressful.

For Pisces, the love of fantasy is actually one of their biggest characteristics. No matter what they are facing, Pisces people can have a fantasy mentality. Just like love, family and friendship, they can always have a good hope for it.

But the reality is often very cruel, and many times it is impossible to develop like the place they imagined, and they can't even get to the edge. Faced with such a situation, the pressure on a Pisces person must be very high.

But Pisces people are often very slow to let go of pressure, they believe very much that romantic things will always happen, if they have not experienced it themselves, they absolutely do not believe that romance does not exist in life now. Pisces people want to release their pressure, so they can only digest it slowly, try to use new things little by little, and forget about old things, so that they can slowly let go. But once Pisces people say they want to let go, they will let it go very thoroughly, which is also one of their strengths!

Of course, the way to release stress is to be alone, which allows you to figure out a lot of problems and make your mood more mature.

Personally, I feel that when Pisces' ideals are shattered by reality, the most important thing is to regain confidence.

Pisces will cry silently for a few days in the middle of the night, and after recovering their mood, Pisces will still smile at life and not give up hope.

When Pisces encounters such a situation, they usually cry a lot to vent their inner stress.

I feel that when Pisces' ideals are shattered by reality, the pressure in his heart will be released by shouting.

I'm a Pisces, I'm going to be very sad and I'm going to cry most of the time.

In my opinion, once the Pisces etiquette is shattered by reality, I should choose to avoid the problem.

The method of solving by force, hitting the pillow [as long as you are not afraid of being scolded by your parents], tearing the paper, etc., etc., all rely on the roaring method, and shout out the pressure to the sky.

Time forgetfulness method, walking outside, thinking more about good things, poor writing, forgive me.