Why am I not popular Am I persona non grata?

When I was in junior high school, I was worse than you, but when I went to college, my popularity was very good, I have now graduated from college and worked, and the popularity of the unit is still very good, I only talk about experience.

1 Speak less, do more, and don't say what you can.

2 Laugh more, no matter whether the jokes told by others are funny or not, laugh and laugh, so that others feel that you are very easy to get along with, and they will naturally get closer to you.

3 Participate in school club activities, don't be too active, and you can't be inactive, if you are too positive, others will be jealous, and you can't talk nonsense, and you can't be active.

4 Learn to share.

5 It is not necessary to learn a good way out, the most important thing to enter the society is ability, what I learned in college is useless, I studied environmental engineering, but now I am working in **, learning in vain.

6 If you study well, you can take care of the students in the class who are not good at studying but are very active during the exam, and they will definitely remember you.

The above is just my experience, I hope it will be useful to you.

You should also show your personality in the virtual world in reality, maybe many people misunderstand, then you have to change it. It may be enough to get close to them yourself.

Maybe people think you're deliberately eye-catching, a bit contrived. Sometimes you don't have to be close to others to get recognized by others, highlight yourself in more social occasions, express yourself, and reach the point of perfection, maybe others will go from recognition to understanding to liking (referring to between friends).

Maybe you're too sharp? Maybe it's something different? Or maybe you're someone who really likes to show your face in front of your boss, and you ignore your colleagues.

You should highlight your personal charm and show your cheerful side, and read more of the writings of successful people.

You're too sensitive, how can a person with friends feel that he is not popular, if he is really not popular, how can he have good friends, and not one or two, but several, want to open a little, let yourself be optimistic, take the initiative to greet people, maybe people are embarrassed to greet you because they are not familiar with you, but you can take the initiative to greet people, slowly familiar, there is one more friend!

You may be too sensitive and have no confidence in yourself, you will pretend to be stupid when you encounter similar things in the future, just giggle and laugh with your classmates and teachers, don't think that others are unhappy, just talk to them more, be thick-skinned, it's okay, try it.

Just be a useful person. This society is only popular with useful people. What you think you are is different from what people think of you.

It's always hard to be self-aware if you want to be popular.

You think too much about pulling Maybe it's because you want to get the attention of others too much Don't care about pulling Just treat it with a normal heart It's good to pull You always feel tired like this Don't put too much pressure on yourself Don't put too much pressure on yourself to pull Study hard Just do what you have to do.

You should highlight your charisma.

Classmates, I hope you don't have any psychological burden, think about your shortcomings and strengths, and see if you are really unpopular or your own delusion. I felt something similar when I was in middle school. I always ask others to write about my shortcomings to me, (of course, I don't have to let others write about my advantages).

In a word, in the world, we need to learn from the mistakes of others and introspect! Keep reflecting and summarizing, you will benefit a lot after a long time.

Because the game is not the same as reality, and it has to be adapted to local conditions

Maybe you're too sensitive, or maybe you've done something that your classmates think you hate. So think for yourself

Ask your good friend to be open and honest about your shortcomings, find them and improve them, you will be welcome, and don't have a psychological burden.

That's because you're too patterned. People nowadays don't need to be too conformist.

You just don't have to be qualified, or it's easy to be isolated.

For example, when a group of men are together, they will always say some yellow humor.

You don't have to be the best at everything, the point is that you have to be like everyone else.

If you are too tall, you will have no friends.

First of all, learn to find self-confidence.

The psychology of love tells you about a different kind of love.

This Wednesday, half of us stayed in the classroom and half went to class. I'm part of the classroom. Recently, I don't know why, but it became popular to write a classmate, and I helped a boy in our class write a classmate list and handed it to him.

But later, I found out that the list I wrote to his classmates had been torn up by other boys. I was very angry and chased after me and asked my table mate to come back, but my table mate refused to do so! I also read all my information with another boy.

At that time, I was really angry, if you want me to write a classmate, tell me, I will definitely write it, why tear up the classmate record I wrote to someone else! And, did I say I was going to show them? They still haven't paid me back!

I was so angry that I went back to my seat and shouted, "I don't want it anymore!" Then he sat down angrily and wrote.

I was in a bad mood when suddenly the guy who had been at the same table with me to get my stuff came up and got the colored pencils of "Grandma" (as my friends call them to play games) on the floor, and I became more and more angry, plus they had just taken my paper ......I couldn't hold back anymore and cried while picking up the pencil. You could see that the boy was surprised, but more of a panic. My good friend Xiao Dai, Sister Bingbing (Bingxin), took me out of the classroom and into the side hallway (because there was no one there, so it was best to stay there and cry), and she said a lot of things to me, all of which were sincere.

From her words, I understood one thing. Some friends make friends with you for a complete purpose, in fact, there will not be many of your real good friends, but I know that Sister Bingbing must be my bosom friend, because we can speak our hearts and never leak it.