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<> girlfriend quarrels with you, it's extreme, and she always doesn't listen to your explanation. Then I think this issue has to be looked at separately. can understand why my girlfriend is like this.
First of all, we have to see what kind of personality your girlfriend is, whether she is a very extreme person. It's not just for you, it's for anyone. When you encounter something and can't solve it, you begin to show your extreme nature.
The high-flying and domineering began to shout, why can't the problem be solved, why is this and that. Let's explode again, this type of girlfriend, I can only say that the problem itself is related to tutoring. If there is any suicide or death, it will be enough for you.
I can only pray for you silently......Anything else, we can't say anything, it's a good bite of heavy taste. It's also your unique ability to appreciate it, and others don't necessarily appreciate it.
Second, it's just like this to you, and it's a girl who is usually humble and polite to everyone, but when she quarrels with you, she completely changes as a person. So I think it's time for you to review and review, what have you done, what have you done to break the girl's heart? Women are generally made of water, but in fact, they are more soft-hearted.
The knife mouth tofu heart is even more handful. Generally, a girl who is more normal, if she quarrels with you, it will not be normal. My suggestion, if you can redeem it, try to redeem it, after all, the road to feelings is not easy.
If you do something wrong, there is no way to undo it. Just let them go, and leave each other a way to live.
Feelings are not used to hurt each other, they are used to make progress together and spend the rest of their lives together. Love enters marriage and turns your girlfriend into a wife, you have to be qualified enough, you have to stabilize this heart. Come on, fellow men
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I think, in fact, it seems that your girlfriend is not the only one, and most girls should not listen to explanations when they quarrel, and they behave very extremely.
What about myself, in fact, is such an example, I remember when I fell in love before, I was a girl who was very jealous, but my ex-boyfriend had a good relationship with the girl, so basically I would always quarrel with him because of this kind of thing, and every time I quarreled with him because of this kind of thing, he would explain to me, but because I only believed in the side that I saw with my eyes, I couldn't see the other side of things, so it was always extreme, and I would feel that all his explanations were covering up, I felt insecure, so I didn't trust him very much and didn't want to listen to his explanations. In fact, after a period of relaxation, I will slowly calm down and think about something, and I think, maybe it's really me who is too extreme to listen, because sometimes I love someone too much or am too insecure to be too easily immersed in my own thoughts and reasoning.
If you want me to say, in fact, the subject, although your girlfriend is very extreme when she quarrels with you, and she can't listen to the explanation, but you don't give up the explanation because of this, you still have to explain when you should explain, at least say it, so that although the children can't listen to your explanation at the time, they will still think about it when they think about it afterwards, and when she can't listen to the explanation, you just hug her fiercely and hug her tightly, in fact, girls are very addicted to this set. Wait for her to calm down and give her a satisfactory explanation.
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When arguing with your girlfriend, sometimes reasoning doesn't solve the problem, and there may be several reasons:
1. Emotional: When people are in an emotional state, their ability to think rationally and reason is usually affected. In the process of arguing, both parties may become angry, impatient, impatient, etc., and this emotional state may make it difficult for both parties to listen to each other's point of view or let Fan explain rationally.
2. Different positions: The reason for quarrels is usually because the two sides have different positions or inconsistent values, and reasoning can only start from their own positions, and it is difficult to truly understand the other party's positions or values. When both sides have different positions, reasoning may be perceived as imposing one's own point of view on the other side rather than solving the problem.
3. Improper communication methods: Reasonable needs to pay attention to communication methods, if the communication methods are inappropriate, it will make the other party more angry or feel ununderstood. For example, speaking in a strong tone or not being sincere may make the other person feel disgusted or attacked.
4. Want to be listened to and understood: In the process of quarreling, people often need to be listened to and understood more. If you simply reason, it will be difficult for the other party to feel heard and understood, and it will also make it impossible for both parties to really solve the problem.
Therefore, when it comes to arguing with your girlfriend, reasoning is not the best way to solve the problem. Both parties need to remain calm, listen to each other's point of view, understand each other's position, try to find common ground, and look for ways to solve problems.
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I feel that there is a lack of communication between you, or you are not suitable at all, and your immaturity is also partly part.
After explaining your thoughts to him, if you can't reach an agreement, then break up. If it's not suitable, don't be together, being together is also a drag. But pay attention to the way you communicate, and speak calmly, otherwise some will quarrel.
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You often quarrel with each other, you can't all complain about your girlfriend's head, a large part of it also has its own responsibilities, the love during school is definitely different from the society, especially if two people live together, they will slowly find each other's shortcomings, so they will definitely not avoid quarrels, but there is something you can communicate with her in a different way, I believe that if she has feelings for you, she will definitely not be unreasonable, and there is a point that your girlfriend can take you back to their home, indicating that he is full of hope for your future, Otherwise, it won't take you back to their house easily, so you can also think about it in a different way, if both of you are careful, then you are destined to quarrel.
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Do you think she loves you? You have to think about this for yourself, and don't base your feelings on money.
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Girlfriends spend money to verify your determination, and a few men in the world can really end up with their own women.
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Basically, I am in a similar situation to you, I just graduated, and my salary is about 2000. After reading the summary, your girlfriend is really willful, is it the reason why she is spoiled by her family and you. There is also your girlfriend who wants to live well but does not come according to the actual situation, and takes you home to meet your parents but wants to choose the expensive one, which seems to be very vain.
Your problem is to rely on her everywhere, please think about yourself too, a bit of a man's opinion, some people just get worse the more spoiled! The advice to you is not to live together, think about the problem separately, and communicate with each other well, after all, it is not easy to have a relationship for two years.
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Love sustained by material things. Don't. It's true. True love is not like that.
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Take her with you to the places you have been to and have good memories, experience your good memories, and then you will have a different perspective on each other, women are not angry because of one thing, it may be held in their hearts for a long time!
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Hello, find out the problem first, then there is a way to solve it:
Question 1: You live on campus, and all your time in school is nothing more than studying and procrastinating. So when you have pressure, you can't vent it. Either take the study out of anger, or take the couple out of anger. Quarrels are absolutely indispensable, and this is caused by the campus atmosphere.
Question 2: Your personality is passive, often you can't even handle your own affairs well, the root cause is that your heart is not strong enough, you can't take care of your studies and love, and your learning has been imperceptibly affected You don't know.
Problem 3: The common goal between you and her is not clear, that is, you and her can't concentrate on doing things, and even if you have a goal, you don't have the perseverance to persist and fulfill it in a down-to-earth manner.
Time waits for no one, how do you solve it:
First: Tell her patiently, keep a certain distance and space with her, and encourage and grow together in order to learn.
Second: reduce the exchange of text messages, discuss with her patiently, establish a common goal, and work together to implement it until the goal is achieved.
Third: For yourself, enhance your confidence, whether it is the high school entrance examination or the college entrance examination, you must be worthy of your parents.
Fourth: Or for yourself, you are not positive enough, because you are afraid to face the future, afraid, is a feeling that swallows your heart, don't be afraid, and you don't have to be afraid, there will be a way out after graduation, the boat to the bridge is naturally straight, the pressure is caused by yourself.
Advice: If your heart is not strong, try to become stronger, and if you lack strength, try to improve!!
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If you feel tired, just let it go, be good to you and her, and if you still love, you have to think about how you get along with each other.
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Let a little, take your time, and it will understand you!
Physical or psychological causes, [stomach bloating or vomiting].
In fact, if two people really love each other, there is nothing to stop, of course, you are separated because of age, this is a very scoundrel, she chooses to break up with you also has her reasons, you can try to ask her why, since she 2 will cry when she breaks up with you, it proves that she still loves you, and she is reluctant to break up with you, have you ever asked her why she broke up with you You have to face it with her and work hard, you have to figure out if there are other reasons to break up with you.
It's okay to quarrel, don't cold war.
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