Between my parents and me, my boyfriend is on his parents side, can you still have such a man

If I were you, I wouldn't choose him, because although he honored his parents and was a good son, he was by no means a person who loved you 100%, and one day, if you quarrel with his parents, it will be unfavorable to you, and sooner or later he will break up with you, and you are looking for someone who loves you and can spend your whole life with you, if you say; He is on your side, then you can be proud, he loves you, but you can't choose him, if you don't even want your own parents for you, you will not want you in the future, then he loves himself, that is, no matter which side he stands on, he is not a good man.

A really good man, he will keep you, and his parents around. If he has a heart, he can satisfy you, maybe you think I am too harsh, but only in this way is a good man.

If, in the future, my girlfriend asks me a question, I will be like this: of course I will be on the side of my parents, because they are the ones who gave birth to me and raised me, but my heart will always be on your side, because you are the person I love the most, and you are my lifelong companion. )

Not only can you want it, but you must cherish it, because only those who know how to protect their parents know how to protect their families.

Absolutely. It shows that he is a man who loves his family, is a responsible man, and is a reliable man.

This is an interesting question, if you don't stand on your parents' side, do you have to stand on your side. Remember that no matter what happens to you, even if it's your parents' fault, you must first stabilize your parents. You two can talk about it beforehand. Afterwards you were like a kind play.

It shows that he has filial piety and is a good man, but blind obedience is not good.

It depends on who's right and who's wrong! But personally, I think it's the parents who are more important.

Hehe, you also have to see what the problem is, maybe he also has something difficult to come up with, you can talk to him well.

Such a man?

What's wrong with such a man?

Isn't it bad to be on the side of your parents? Is it good to be on your side?

Replace it with you! If you're on your parents' side and not your boyfriend's side, is he going to ask "such a woman"?

I also think that parents are important!

Summary. My dear, your boyfriend's parents go to your house and ask you to speak, stand on his parents' side and don't help your own family.

My boyfriend's parents came to my house and asked me to speak on their side.

My dear, your boyfriend's parents go to your house and ask you to speak, stand on his parents' side and don't help your own family.

Honey, your boyfriend is a smart guy . Ask your parents to help him so that his parents agree to marry you back home. There is no need to distinguish between high and low in speech.

My dear, I guess it's time to talk about some money, the cost of marriage.

My dear, it doesn't matter how much the red envelope is, but how much you can see in your other half's heart through the red envelope. Zhang Ailing once said: "Spending his money, my heart is happy." Women don't love to spend men's money, women use spending men's money to express love. ”

Today, my boyfriend's parents went to my house to talk about our affairs, which is equivalent to talking about family affairs, and his parents told me in advance that when the time comes, my parents have any bumpy problems, let me say good things for my boyfriend, and people are on their side, and let me come out to talk when the time comes, what should I say.

My dear, that's the question of money. You should know the financial strength of your parents, my dear, is the matter of the dowry. There are many couples who have fallen out over this issue.

My dear, your parents will offer the other party how much to pay for the dowry, as long as it is reasonable. This money is also a guarantee for you, I am afraid that you will get divorced in the future and you will not have a penny. This money will be brought to your husband's side.

If you believe in your husband's affection for you, then you can count this dowry yourself, right?

If a guy has just confirmed his relationship with you and tells his parents, it means that the boy likes you very much. He has already regarded you as his best goal, because telling your parents is already a guess to show that the whole person agrees with you.

So when this Zhaozhu boy has just confirmed his relationship with you, and tells his imitation parents, it means that this boy is in a particularly excited state to be in love with you, and he also feels that he is very happy to find you, and he is very attentive to you.

The meaning is very acquiescing to the relationship between you, ready to talk about marriage.

I think he showed off more to his parents, or he used it to prevaricate his parents and urge them to go on a blind date.

As a young person, I feel that my own path should be chosen by myself, although my parents stand in the position of thinking about us, but after all, the thinking of the next generation is a generation gap with our young peopleEspecially on the road of feelings, don't use material things to decide everything, a person's character is the first place.

The divorce rate among young people is so high today because they are too blind when they get married. Without really understanding a person's character, they are blindly together, so the advice provided to us by our parents is for reference only, how to choose depends on ourselves, if the boy is worthy of our lifelong support, then we must communicate with our parents well, let them know that the boy is good.

You should also let your boyfriend communicate with your parents more, don't let each other feel distant because you don't agree, after all, if you want to be together, of course, you have to love the house and Wu, this truth must make your boyfriend understand, let your boyfriend behave more in front of your parents, so that it is more useful than you say more.

And now the rural hukou seems to have a higher gold content than the urban hukou, because now the state has a lot of favorable policies, all of which are biased towards the countryside, and now the rural hukou wants to move to the city, which is very simple, but it is absolutely impossible for the urban hukou to settle in the countryside, so we should also recognize this.

If your parents are resolutely opposed, you should also listen to your parents' views to see if there is some reason, after all, parents have walked more bridges than we have walked, I believe that as a young person in the new era, you should still have a certain ability to discriminate.

To be honest, rural and urban areas are the same, looking for a partner to chase the main thing is to find a person who loves himself and is self-motivated, who was not an urban person at the beginning, but also because of the self-motivation and hard work of generations of people from the countryside to urban people? Moreover, some rural areas are now living better than urban residents. So let's keep dating.

I think this still depends on your own opinion, if you think your boyfriend has the potential to be self-motivated, you can continue to date him, but if he doesn't know anything and doesn't have a skill, I still hope you think about it carefully.

I think I still need to continue to socialize on my own. If you don't have a relationship just because your parents suggested a boyfriend, then do you have a true love for him, and if he loves you deeply, then I think you should continue dating.

It still depends on how your boyfriend treats you and what his ambitions are, and you can't blindly look at your background, after all, this is just an external factor, if he has great ambitions, he can still live a good life.

I think just if the boyfriend is very self-motivated, and he has a good job and a good future, the key is that he really loves himself. I think it's okay to keep along.

First of all, it depends on whether this boy is true love for you, and then whether his ability will help him in his future development, whether he is responsible, and whether he is self-motivated.

If your boyfriend is self-motivated and wants to develop in the city, there is no need to break up, and you can also convince the parents that living conditions in the countryside have improved a lot.

Is it his fault, people can't decide their own origin, but as long as people are good, they are all equal, if you don't love, please don't hurt, if you are an aspiring young man, you can still convince your family.

I think it's mainly up to you, if your boyfriend loves you very much, works hard and is self-motivated, I think you still have to be with him.

You ask your parents, will my boyfriend spend your life with you or with me? How easy is that! Parents may want to be good for you, but they feel good for you, but not necessarily for you.

Do you understand? Since you love him, don't regret it. The choice is yours!

If a good man misses it, he won't be there, and even if he finds a good one, it's not him, because everyone is unique! Parents will eventually forgive you. It's just up to you to see if your choice can work for you!

I don't know what love is all my life, because you haven't experienced it! Sad

It's basically the same situation as you, but I chose to go to another city to be with my boyfriend, and my parents still couldn't accept it. I understand my parents' thoughts, it is really difficult to live without a car and a house these days, and I also feel hard when I think of the financial pressure I will face in the future. But after all, feelings are to be cherished, as long as you love and don't regret it, don't regret not loving it.

There will always be a house, but if the lover misses it, there will be no more. I wish you happiness and hope you have a good communication with your parents.

...Hello, first of all, I think your parents' point of view is wrong! How old are you and your boyfriend?

But 27! 27, if you want to have a house and a car, you go and ask your parents, is it realistic? It's hard to have a house and a car at the age of 27 on your own, except for the rich second generation!

So first of all, you have to put your parents in the right mindset, the peak of a man's career is at the age of 35 or 40! You want them to value your boyfriend's potential! You should talk to them properly.

If you love your boyfriend and think he loves you too, then don't let go! Boyfriend, husband is the one who will accompany you for a lifetime! Mom and Dad's intentions are good, your family's economy should be good, right?

They are afraid that you are used to a good life, and they are afraid that you are not used to it! But you should be brave, you have to leave the arms of your parents. And if your boyfriend really loves you, he will also work hard for you!

So you have to tell your parents well, don't doubt yourself and doubt love.

Every parent thinks twice for the good of their children.

Your problem will be encountered by many people as well! Grind slowly!