Excuse me, do you dare to ask for such a child?

Yes, life should be respected! The quality of the child will not affect the child just by your points. Pay attention to your mentality, don't smoke mainly, it's okay to drink in moderation! Exercise more, cheer your baby is happy to have a good parent like you!

For the sake of the happiness of the family, it is recommended not to. Many children who drink alcohol and drugs hurt their brains a lot! They are still young, and they will pay attention to it when they want to have children in the future.

Can't ask for it! This has a huge impact on children! Whether intellectually or physically! All have a lot of damage!

Oh, yes! Your worries are justified. It is recommended to go to the hospital to consult a doctor, after all, we are not professionals, a life is the most important! But my personal opinion is not to continue the pregnancy as well, eugenics is a responsibility to you, your family, and society!

It should be born, after all, it is a life, and maybe it can be remedied by the day after tomorrow.

In order to be responsible for the family, the society, and yourself and your children, you still have to go to the hospital to ask experienced expert doctors for more practical and well-founded. You say yes, right? Wishing you all happiness!

You can go to the obstetrics and gynecology hospital to do a three-dimensional or four-dimensional color ultrasound, and under the guidance of the doctor, you can have more accurate information. I hope the child is healthy!!

Go to the hospital for a check-up. Look at the baby in the belly.

This question can really be called soul torture, because whether to keep this child or not will have a lifelong impact on yourself. If you choose the wrong one, you may regret it for the rest of your life. So what are netizens doing about such questions?

It can be said that netizens have their own opinions on this issue.

The child should be left behind.

My husband left when I was pregnant, but I didn't bother with grinding the key points, and I gave birth to my son, who is now 9 years old, and I feel very satisfied.

Stay, so that the in-laws will also have some comfort.

The child is not very pitiful if he doesn't have a father, there are so many single parents and orphans in the world, and the child is pitiful if he is killed alive without doing anything.

It's me and I'm sure I'll stay, first, I'm reluctant, second, the economic conditions are good, after all, it's a life, and third, I can't let go of my husband's feelings.

I'm a woman, and frankly speaking, this pregnant mother really shouldn't be entangled in the question of whether to keep the baby. Even if you don't think about your deceased husband and think about yourself, if you lose your husband, do you want to lose your children......Just so that I can live a better and easier life in the future? Anyway, I think she will regret it in the future if she doesn't keep the baby, it's better to muster up the courage to face it, what has been lost has been lost, and she is destined to bear the pain of losing her husband, so don't weigh the pros and con......s anymore

This child should not have been left behind.

It's really pitiful for a child to have no father, and you can consider not having it in five months.

Don't stay. A child who has lost his father from birth. If you are already in pain enough, don't give your child any more pain.

The person who left has already gone, the living person has to continue to live, the child is born without a father, and it is not divorced forever, is it fair to him.

There should be no moral kidnapping. Her husband is gone, how hard it is for her to raise children alone, and she has to go to work and take care of her children. And this Qiao girl is so young, she must be remarried, how can she find her own happiness with children?

Depending on the actual situation, it is decided whether to stay or not.

If the parents-in-law have a bad family, they will not stay; If the conditions are passable and you have feelings with a man, you will stay.

See what you think. There's nothing wrong with staying or not staying!

If you have a good relationship with your husband and your in-laws' conditions are good enough to support, leave a thought for the old couple!

Everyone should replace it with their own daughter, what do you think, and what advice will you give your daughter? I think it's right to stay or not.

This is really a very challenging question, and the opinions of netizens are really saying everything, and there are different reasons for the same opinion. My personal opinion, I still think that this child should be kept, not considering the husband, nor considering the in-laws, after all, the child is also his own flesh and blood, and it has been five months, as for the future, I can only take one step at a time, I will definitely face a lot of difficulties, and I may regret leaving this child, but I think this regret is only for a while, if you abandon this little life, it will be too late to regret it, this regret will be a lifetime.

Absolutely! You can't even be a beast.

Hello, for me to get married and have children is a necessary thing, marriage means to have a family, in this family, to make the family complete, you must have your own children, marriage is to let the feelings of two people who love each other rise to another level, to a certain extent, children are not the necessities of marriage, but the child is the crystallization of the love of both parties, and it is also the best time to have children when both parties are ready to take on this responsibility.

In fact, thinking back to my own growth, the impulse of love for the opposite sex in adolescence, and the talk of marriage in adulthood, perhaps more parents did not have a clear concept when they first entered marriage, "I need a child" and "What does this child mean to me". It's just that since this is a program, it completes the general execution of the mission of life.

It is more due to traditional concepts, as well as the pressure and gaze from parents or society, I feel that if two couples do not implement or plan to have a child, it will be very "different", just like the current lack of understanding and support for "Dink". Even if we face the "struggle" of "chickens and dogs" with children every day, we will still promote the concept of having children to the young people around us, is it the meaning of "we have entered the pit, not you and who you are".

There is no need to numb oneself for reasons such as raising children to prevent old age. To this day, parents in the family are still running around for their children to help their children raise the next generation. Even if the parents who do not participate in the task of raising the file are taking care of themselves, if there is a real need to "prevent old age", maybe the children can do very little for their parents.

In order to participate in the growth of a life, a life starts from nothing, from small to large. Feel the wonder of a life, the surprise of two hearts beating in a body, the wonder of slight changes and fetal movements. Feel the tenacity of a life, and come to a world with complete trust.

In order to better understand yourself, to be a seed, a new life, and an understanding that comes to this world with trust. To better understand one's own state in the process of growth, to see and accompany the process of one's life growth, is to take care of and understand oneself in the process of growth.

In order to better understand life, it is with children that our lives are fully possible. It is with children that we can become parents, better understand our own needs, make our lives more complete, and make our families warmer.