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University is actually a small society, in the university to learn a lot of things, but also very practical, it can be said that children from the university will be easier to connect with the society, I have done a lot of things in the university, program hosting, outreach, but also engaged in class dinner and other activities, but also organized everyone to play outdoors together, there are many times of speech experience, the school will participate in the big and small things, because I can enrich myself more.
Don't underestimate these activities, the meaning of these activities is not that you have a ranking in it, but in the process of participating, you will more or less have some benefits, and this benefit can be interpersonal relationships, or experience, anyway, no matter what kind of form, to me, I think it is a useful thing, because there will always be something associated with it in life, and I will find better solutions more easily.
Interpersonal relationships in college are very important, interpersonal relationships can be the decisive factor in the success or failure of some of your things, so master your own interpersonal circle, not just swimming in school, and when you enter the society, you will find how important interpersonal relationships are, the so-called one more friend is one more way, this is not false at all, when you encounter difficulties and are helpless, you have multiple friends, maybe this friend can help you in some form, so in the interpersonal relationship area, I learned how to get along with others, which is called communicative skills.
When I was a freshman, I participated in the college's outreach department, at first I didn't know what outreach was for, and then I slowly learned that I could help them earn profits in the form of advertising through the businesses around the school, which is equivalent to a way to make money, at the beginning, I was how much money the business gave, how much money I gave to the school, and then people said I was stupid, I began to be a little higher in the business, a little first in the school, as long as there are activities in the school, So every time I can take a few hundred dollars of profit from it, although it doesn't seem bright, but it's also money earned through my own efforts, I think it's a manifestation of ability, and in fact, the school allows this kind of thing to exist.
In these activities, I am more likely to exercise my organizational skills and teamwork skills, in these activities, some of them are to go to the nursing home to perform programs, and some of them are to go out on behalf of the school to carry out publicity, and in the process of being conscientious, you will find a lot of management tips.
In the process of activities to constantly improve themselves, you can also see through these activities whether I am suitable to do some leader work in the activities, so in these activities to exercise my organizational skills, in the school there are still many places to exercise themselves, what I said is just the tip of the iceberg, the exercise in the school is very docile, the exercise in the school can make you faster and social, but also improve your ability in all aspects!
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When we look back and think back to what we learned in college and what the abilities we cultivated, we don't seem to know anything. When someone asks you what your university has really done for you, we still don't know anything.
In fact, each of us will ask ourselves like this, what has college brought us, what abilities have we cultivated, and what is the best place for us to be better than before?
I think this problem is really simple, even if we don't do anything in college, the ability that the university cultivates us is to make us more mature and stable, as a person sees more things in the process of going out of class, although he has not experienced this, but at least he has seen how to solve it, and he will get older and older, until it is time for him to face the dangers of society.
Just like the university has brought me a lot, and the ability to cultivate can also be touched in life, once when I first entered the university, I really belonged to an ignorant child, that is, I had just become an adult, and then a chance opportunity allowed me to touch that high position.
I joined the Youth Volunteer Association when I was recruiting new students in the club in my freshman year, and I actively struggled in it for a year, and finally succeeded in staying at the time of the change, but what I faced was that the club reform became a student organization, that is, the authority was increased, because this organization had to be divided into departments, so I somehow became the president of our department.
Maybe I'm not ready to accept all this, but the fact has happened, I still remember that I used to give a speech on stage so nervous that I couldn't speak, I didn't know what to say, but now I have become a cheeky person, no matter what the occasion as long as I go up to give a speech, it's a lot, maybe it's a little bit of ability.
After all, my competent profession is there, and the responsibility is relatively large, and I must be able to lead the younger students to participate in activities and not reduce their enthusiasm, so I was thinking about what to do, how to do it, and what kind of activities to hold to retain them.
After a year of hard work, I have done all of these things, and I know how to do them, whether it is dealing with teachers, leading the members below, or holding activities, and I know how to do them, which may be regarded as the leadership and organizational skills that the university has brought to us.
More importantly, we need to deal with others, whether it is in school or in society, so at this time we need to interact with others, so we need to make others like us.
These so-called abilities will be used in the future, and they are also the ones that can train us in the university.
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As a college student, I feel that the university has taught me a lot, and although it is only two short years, I feel that I have learned a lot.
First, there is self-control. In college, there is no teacher to care about you, even if you play on your mobile phone in class, the teacher will not say, and will not even give you a look. They only care about talking about themselves, whether you learn or not, whether you listen or not, it's entirely up to you.
The library is free and open, but no one knows if you go there or not, and only you know whether you go to school or not. So, with a certain amount of self-control, you can go to the library to study on your own, and read some books that you have not read before.
In college you learn to control yourself and let yourself learn, which is a necessary skill. This skill will benefit you a lot in college, because there are a lot of people who can't control themselves, and if you can have self-control, you can surpass them.
Second, be able to exercise yourself. The university is the equivalent of a small society, and you will find that there are almost no interpersonal relationships, as well as human feelings, and there are almost no social differences. Every day, like the Qing court drama, intrigue is staged, and I am deceitful.
Sometimes you may offend others by accidentally saying the wrong thing or doing the wrong thing, and you may not have a good life in college. Therefore, in college, you have to learn to look at people's eyes, learn to judge the situation, and be a junjie as a real agent.
After these four years of college, you will stand out in these crowd relationships. Even in society, you won't be sad because some people frame you or you don't look cold. Whether it's your ability to work or your interpersonal relationships, you can be trained.
Therefore, the university is very capable of developing and growing.
The four years of college require you to experience it with your heart.
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Personally, I believe that university is a platform for self-development, and what abilities to cultivate depends on how you develop, whether you choose your own interests to develop, or expand your network and exercise your interpersonal skills.
University is a relatively free platform, in the university, there are many things for us to learn, but we can't learn all these things, in the university, there are libraries for us to study, there are professional courses and professional teachers for us to study, there are also many clubs enough to exercise, develop their interests, and exercise their interpersonal skills.
Some people may think that going to college has no effect, just wasting their parents' money, this statement is undoubtedly wrong, extremely irresponsible, even if a college student is playing games every day in addition to class, he can also get a lot of new information, and this information is difficult to access outside, and this information has laid the foundation of his career, which is what we often call the pattern.
Take my roommate as an example, he doesn't like to study, he doesn't like to read, but he likes to start a business, so when he was in college, he sold flowers and promoted apps, which made him accumulate a lot of contacts in the process, and then in college he met a well-known alumnus at an entrepreneurial meeting, and got some of his resources to help, during the winter vacation, during the winter vacation, he also went to the alumni in Shenzhen, got more resources, and is now preparing to start his own business.
I think that entrepreneurship at this time must be much simpler than entrepreneurship when he first arrived in college, after all, in the process, he has gained a lot of things that he can't get in college.
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When we step into the university, we not only learn deeper knowledge, but also develop our abilities. In the two years I have been in college, I have definitely felt that I have changed a lot, whether it is studying, thinking or communicating. Now, I will talk about what abilities universities have cultivated in us from these three aspects.
1. Self-directed learning ability
In university learning, it is very important to listen to lectures in class, and you must learn to learn actively.
When I was in elementary and middle school, the teacher taught almost by hand. In college, the teacher usually teaches an entire chapter in a class. When encountering some teachers who have a small class schedule, it is even more difficult to instill content that can only be accepted for several weeks in a class.
It's really "the master leads the door, and the cultivation depends on the individual". If you want to learn more thoroughly, you have to look up the information and read the books after class. In the four years of college, if you are diligent enough, many people are not as good as themselves.
2. Ability to think independently
Most of the choices we made before college were decided by our parents. When we arrived at university, the distance between us and our parents widened, and there were many things that we had to decide for ourselves. From the choice of clubs, to the direction after graduation, graduate school entrance examination or work?
This is a test of our cognitive and judgmental abilities.
Premier Wen Jiabao once said, "A good university has its own unique soul, which is independent thinking and free expression." "In college, students are expected to think independently.
3. Interpersonal skills
In college, the dormitory is where you live and rest, the club is where your interests are, and the class is where you learn knowledge. It is very important to have a good relationship with the people in these places, to be tolerant of each other, and to understand each other. After all, in a small society like a university, we can't do without socializing and grouping.
In all kinds of people-to-people exchanges, you will slowly discover the colorful side of the world, including the dark side. In this way, we will not be unable to distinguish other people's nature, and choose positive people to be friends, and Heng Que Tong will be more helpful to our study and life.
In addition to learning, university is to participate more, see more, think more, and communicate more. After that, remember that in the rest of your life, you will continue to regurgitate and summarize, and such a life will be a very good life.
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1.The ability to study and study hard. "Opportunities are only open to enterprising and promising people, and mediocre people will always be eternal.
Far from being able to patronize. "Even going to college wasn't as easy as we thought. In order to cultivate high-quality talents, universities pay more attention to the self-learning ability of students.
2.Think for yourself.
The ability to draw inferences. Learning alone is not enough, and through a knowledge bypass, we should expand our cognition and apply it to real life.
3.Self-growth, self-mediation. In college, away from the protection of teachers and parents, people and things here are strangers, and there are often frictions and misunderstandings with strangers.
Flee or face? We should have the courage to face it. University is a transition to society, and you can feel it in advance in such a small society and prepare for entering the society in the future.
4.Ability to communicate with people and gather information. Our counselors, mentors, roommates, etc., all need to work together with us with kindness and sincerity.
In terms of communication, we must grasp the degree well, not arrogant or arrogant. Modern society learns to be civilized and friendly. Information Age.
We are asked to focus on the facts and gather information. We are constantly expanding and enriching our information.
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1.Time management skills.
If we just focus on watching dramas, watching movies, and shopping, then time will be squandered, so we have to use our spare time to read books and learn other skills, and in four years, we will stand out.
2.Verbal communication skills.
Working in a club is a great way to develop your language and communication skills.
3.Ability to live independently.
After going to college, you have to take care of your own food, clothing and daily life, a house is not swept, how to sweep the world, if our life is very messy, then how to deal with things at work, so it is particularly important to make yourself refined and learn to be independent.
4.Problem-solving skills.
In the future, when we go to the workplace, we have to deal with everything by ourselves, if we don't solve things, or if we seek help from others in everything, then we will be very passive, and others will no longer trust us.
5.Communicative skills.
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