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Generally, after getting married together, people may feel that two people will live a lifetime, but there may be some conflicts in the process of two people getting along slowly. For two people who love each other, or for two personalities, if they can tolerate each other enoughThen their relationship can last long enough, but for some people with conflicting personalities, maybe the two of them will slowly stop loving each other so much. <>
In particular, after people huddle together, they may feel that they have also gotten it, so they don't think too much about their actions. It makes the other party feel bored, especially after the girl and the boy are together, they may play some small tempers, which will make the boy feel very tired, thus producing a feeling of boredom. In this way, the relationship between the two of them may be conflicted, and once the man has a feeling of boredom, then it will not last long.
There is also a special material girl. They may always want their boyfriend to buy them something expensive, or always be willful when their boyfriend is very tired, and when their boyfriend is not capable, they are very whimsical and want to live the life they want, since you have chosen him, then you must have the heart waiting for him to succeed. Therefore, as a girl, you should try your best, and this boy should not force him when he is tired.
And the most important point is not to be angry with this boy outside, or when he is unsatisfactory at work or at home, you have to lose your temper, and force him to do something he doesn't want to do, let him express his attitude, this practice can be said to be very rare, everyone has a glass heart,It can be said that the same is true of a man, if you still want to push him when he is most upset, then he will definitely have a feeling of boredom with you. It may be counterproductive
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When a woman turns a blind eye to the man around her, tramples on his dignity at will, and is only selfish, the hearts of the two people go farther and farther, such a woman is no longer worth cherishing, and it is only a matter of time before the man gives up on her.
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Women are particularly humble, blindly pleasing each other, and even after paying, they are afraid that they will not pay enough, such feelings, men will take it for granted, or even should, and they will not cherish it!
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Women behave too humbly in their relationships, especially some women who chase men, and feel that women are easy to get, so they will not cherish them very much.
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Or a lot of things are always giving, and you don't ask for anything in return, which will make men get used to your goodness, and slowly you will become very cheap, resulting in you not being important in the minds of men, and naturally you will not cherish you.
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Zhang Ailing once said: "After a man fully understands a woman, he will not fall in love with her." "If you have a book in front of you, and the book happens to be something you haven't read, then we will take out the book and read it, and we will gradually be attracted by the plot in the book.
Many women look at emotions too irrationally, always thinking that loving someone is to dig out their hearts and lungs, and they can't give all their things to men, but they don't know that they do this, which can only make men lose interest in themselves. True love must be invested, but it also needs to be preserved to a certain extent, to keep some freshness for yourself, so that the relationship can last for a long time. In the emotion, a woman casually gives these 4 things to a man, but it is not easy for him to cherish it!
What is too simple to obtain is not easy to be cherished after all. If a woman gives her body to a man so casually, thinking that she can get the man's love and care, in fact, she only gets the man's neglect and care. Therefore, women must understand self-esteem and self-love, although today's society is very open, but women may have to take responsibility for their own life path.
After some women fall in love, they put falling in love first in their lives, and no longer have the idea of doing anything else, and spend all their free time on men. Women do this, men are not only not easy to impress, but also feel very pressured to work, feel that they are completely constrained, and have no time to do what they like, after a period of time, men will feel bored, want to save more time for themselves, want to escape from this kind of life state.
Many women are usually very good to you, but if you are a partner, your temperament will become worse and worse, and you will always be angry with men. Women feel that men treat themselves well, and they can do anything wrong, but love must be maintained by both of them, and men used to love you because you attracted him at that time.
And now you, but more and more only have a temper tantrum, in the process of bearing your small emotions, in fact, it is also the whole process of chilling you, when she feels completely tired of it, unwilling to bear it anymore, it is time to give up on you. Therefore, women still have to learn to restrain themselves in their emotions and understand to consider men.
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If you don't care about your body and give it to the other party easily, the other party will not cherish you, but if you are very dependent on the other party and give your sincerity to Nare, they will not treat it sincerely.
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If a woman takes the initiative to give a man a body, takes the initiative to give a man money, takes the initiative to give a man all his energy, gives up her interpersonal circle, and takes the initiative to give a man the worst self, the man will not cherish you.
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Don't give your time to each other easily, don't give money to each other easily, your body, your bad temper, the worst side, don't give these to each other.
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When a woman gives time, trust, companionship, respect, understanding, tolerance, preference, and a sense of practicality to a man, he will not cherish you.
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Always pay for each other, often quarrel with each other, be cold and violent with each other, and have a cold war with each other, if there are women who perform these 4 things, men will not cherish them.
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Don't go out to work.,Maybe you don't take things seriously at home.,Often perfunctory.,Treat the feelings of the tomato reputation very inspecifically.,Always entangled with the opposite sex who knows him.。
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A woman who blindly pays in her relationship, a woman who can tolerate anything, a woman who is unreasonable, and a woman who interferes too much in the lives of men and people, men will not cherish it.
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Some people say that they have never been able to find a perfect love, one of the main reasons is that it is very likely that the person is really not suitable for themselves, and the other may be that they are not good enough, so that others feel that their level is relatively low. In this era, men like women who have ideas, temperament, career, and a good image, and I think such men are right. Women sometimes have been in a humble situation in love, but sometimes this state is added to themselves, so what makes men feel?
I was very saddened by this message, in fact, she had many opportunities to jump out of the abyss, but she chose to endure again and again. When a person loves you, they can be too good to you. But when this person leaves, it is equivalent to choosing to give up the damage, and at such a time, it is best to break and love yourself well.
Never exaggerate someone's feelings for you, and don't look back when it's time to let go.
I have broken up with my boyfriend for half a year, but I have never really learned to let go of him, and even imagined countless encounters and reconciliations, but last night she went to attend a friend's birthday party, and as soon as she opened the door of the private room, she saw a girl she also knew in her arms singing love songs.
My friend said: "We didn't delete friends from each other, he often sent me messages, and I always thought that we could get back together with just one sentence of weakness between each other." Last night I said I wasn't feeling well, so I said hello to my friends and left.
But he didn't see me, he smiled at me, how can you say, so casually in front of me and other girls tender and sweet? "Seriously, it's not for nothing that people say that they don't miss each other after a breakup. Because it is very likely that when you meet again, you can sadly find that the other party has already left the relationship to live a better life, and you are the only one who stays where you are.
Naturally, it's not just feelings, there are always some people's hearts that are destined to be a chimney mountain that can't be hot, no matter how good you are to him, he takes it for granted.
You can't change others, but you can't delay your own life because of this. There is a saying that who you are with is very important, and when you are with people with low levels, your own level will also be lower.
I saw such a letter on the Internet, which was written by a mother to her daughter, and it made sense:"If I'm not mistaken, this is the 5th time you've sobbed in front of me like this, and I still remember the day when you complained hoarsely: She is the boy you have loved for 5 years, you have paid so much for him, and you are unwilling to give it up like this, and you can't forget this love that you have worked hard to remember before.
I know you still love him, but he doesn't love you anymore, silly girl. Love is mutual, and love dies quickly. It's not just that he's violating the principle, it's also your relationship"。
This mother's words are very reasonable, even if the boy has hurt you again and again, it means that he no longer loves you.
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Don't always kneel and lick men, don't fall in love, don't look at men's mobile phones, don't let yourself become raunchy, and don't always ask Huansheng to reach out and ask men for money, don't lose your job.
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Don't do laundry, cook, and care for men too often, it will make them feel very bad and not cherish you.
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A man who often doubts himself, often has intimate contact with other members of the opposite sex, often comes home late, betrays his man, and complains about his man.
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Don't be very humble, don't always keep your voice down, don't have your own principles, don't have your own bottom line, and don't always get used to his little temper.
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The woman who never spends his money, and is complacent about it. Some women, when men get orange traces, they often don't bother to fall in love.
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A particularly fierce woman, a woman who worships money very much, a selfish woman, a woman who is unreasonable, and a woman who relies on men.
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A woman who has a bad temper and yells when something happens, or a woman who is messing around and unreasonable.
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Human beings are animals with feelings, and feelings are invisible, so they are very fickle. A guess woman who doesn't cherish you will have these four manifestations. Everyone hopes that they can meet the love of their lives, true love, and want to spend their lives with the person who loves them and the person they love, but love ambition and marriage are two people's affairs, and only one person's contribution is not enough to maintain the relationship.
Honesty, not only between friends and family, but also between lovers, no matter what should not be hidden from each other, even if there are some things she conceals that you are good for you, it is not okay.
When a woman often lies to you, and even does not have a word of truth in her mouth, and chatting with you is very perfunctory, such a woman must not pay sincerity to this relationship.
Companionship is the most affectionate confession, the most beautiful look of love is that no matter when and where, the one you love the most is always by your side, and a woman who is willing to be by her side must love you.
Companionship can be said to be the most basic condition for maintaining a relationship, a woman who is not willing to accompany you must no longer cherish you, a lifetime is long but short, a woman who loves you will cherish every opportunity to accompany you.
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I still do what I should do, don't take a man seriously, don't take him to heart.
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Will use the excuse of buying bags and lipstick.
I think that a really smart woman will not disrespect each other's feelings in a relationship, and she will not quarrel with each other often, and she will not often complain and dislike each other, and she will not often distrust each other, be suspicious of each other, feel that the other party does not love her, and she will not be too possessive and controlling of the other party.
If you don't pay attention when you're in love, it's a complete mistake to marry someone, and after getting married, your husband runs away with someone else, and you have a child who likes a woman older than your mother, and there are many, many more.
Women behave very frivolously, often play right and wrong in front of others, dress very revealingly, treat feelings inattentively, and do not love themselves are all indecent manifestations.