My heart is too good, it s always easy to get hurt, what am I going to do

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do you always give yourself for others, and you have to make others good if you suffer a small loss? I used to be like this, giving more, but not necessarily getting more, and I was prone to a sense of loss.

    I feel that we should think about problems and analyze problems more independently, and not take others too seriously. People often say that you should help others, but thinking too much about others will affect yourself, don't you say! Learn to be optimistic, take things lightly, your mood will be much better, don't pay too much attention to the details, I hope you can get better!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes! But don't be sad because you're always thinking about others and not getting their approval. You have to think about it from another angle, I don't do things in a way that others evaluate and understand, but the principle of how I do things. Just have a clear conscience.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I have a foreign teacher who told me that if he lends money to others, he never minds whether he pays it back or not, it is like giving money to someone.

    If you can be called "kind and good-hearted", you should not be rewarded for your efforts, and sometimes it doesn't matter if you don't even get people's understanding. The mind is visible to itself. The nature is good, and it is good to have a clear conscience.

    I think that helping others is what you can, and you can consider others when you can consider others. But one thing, don't have the mentality of giving back.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Eating the Buddha can make you feel iron, and then your heart will become hard again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Learn to be tolerant of others.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find a psychology professor to look it up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. It's good that you ignore them, because there are always people who are ignorant, and you can't deal with the ignorant people, or you will be ignorant.

    Let's be clear.

    I am injured and disabled, my heart is not bad, I am a kind person, in order to treat the disease and now owe a few Yun 100,000 yuan, try my best to get a doctor, enter a big hospital, with some methods of the people, such as burning some paper, there are always a few people who say that I have a bad heart, after listening to it I really feel bad, how to treat it, thank you!

    Hello. This situation is because there are always some people who are not qualified.

    You don't have to care.

    But I always feel very depressed inside.

    Lu Xun said: Go your own way and let others say it.

    You just have to have a clear conscience for yourself.

    I originally had a good feeling in my heart, but now it is difficult, and I heard that I am under more pressure in my heart, how to treat it with my heart, thank you.

    It's good that you ignore them, because there are always people who are ignorant, and you can't deal with the ignorant people, or you will be ignorant.

    Okay thank you. It's fine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

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