Is my heart really dead? Why do I always choose to run away from that?

Fundamentally, she doesn't like you, let alone love, she behaved so cold when she first met, engagement can only be a formality to keep her, she is also forced by family pressure to do so, she herself has no feelings for you at all, as she said, you are not suitable. After this period of time, she affirmed that the two of you are indeed impossible, and she made up her mind to break up with you, don't be sad, long pain is better than short pain, you will definitely meet a good partner suitable for each other in the future, bless you!

I feel that you have been together for a short time, and you shouldn't know each other very well, and getting engaged in such a hurry will make both parties feel pressure......

Although you like her, don't know what you like about her? Appearance or character?

Some people say that when you find a partner, you are generally either similar or the opposite person for a long time, and you feel that it should be the kind of person who is similar......If you don't want to break up, you should meet and talk about it when you have time, and you can't feel her true thoughts ......

If there is still no way to be together in the end, then you should wish her you like happiness......

I had to give up. Don't say anything else. You're not together.

The good news is that giving up is to not regret when you encounter your true happiness.

Love is barely coming, it is better to be optimistic.

The future is your own, happiness is your own, and you can continue to pursue it.

Give it up, don't accept it reluctantly, otherwise you won't be happy, you can be reluctant for a while, but you can't be reluctant for a lifetime, in fact, he is also for your good, otherwise, you will always be a one-way pay, isn't this more unfair?

It's just that I'm afraid of getting hurt again!

It's not that you choose to run away, it should be said that you habitually run away. It can be seen that you are afraid of change and the fear of the unknown that change brings, so you will reject change. Then, you must first think about what it will bring if you don't run away, and of course, don't push yourself too much, otherwise it will backfire and easily lead to low self-esteem.

Therefore, it is recommended that when you do things, you should first have a comprehensive consideration, see what the consequences of the choices you make, whether you can bear it, and then start from what you can bear, step by step.

Why do you have to face it, you are not a god, there will be problems that cannot be solved, and you will talk about it when there is no way back.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Many times, what we think is earth-shattering love is nothing more than a joke in the eyes of others.

Remember this and never love someone who doesn't love you. People who don't love you, no matter who you are

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At most, it will only move the heart of pity, maybe a little apologetic, but it will never be love, so it is unfair!!

Escape may bring you short-term happiness, but have you ever thought about what comes after that short-term happiness, which is more exhausting? If you choose to face it, it will hurt you, but there is a saying: "How can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain", after facing it bravely, you will become stronger. Escape or face, the decision is up to you.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

I think that true forgetting is not to avoid and cover up the pain of the past, let alone simply forget and force joy, but to look directly at the pain and transform the pain. In life, we can't avoid pain, only to face it correctly, treat it rationally, affirm that it should be affirmed in order to negate what should be denied, only in this way can you look at it calmly, let it become a kind of wealth in your life, an experience and memory, a kind of understanding, rather than simply forgetting and abandoning, although we will feel pain at the same time as the experience, but through the grinding of these pains, we have learned how to give up and cherish, know how to choose and bear, understand that we must not escape, indulge or even force joy, Our lives are painful and happy, and they are more fulfilled because of it. If we can solve the painful things well, then our life will be happy, in order to face the past and maintain a normal heart, instead of forcing ourselves to forget, when we learn to give up we know how to cherish, when we learn to choose to choose, when we choose to face us can calmly look at the past, by no means simple forgetting and forgetting.

Avoiding difficulties is not caused by anything, it is human nature, who wants to be troublesome if you think about it. But if you want to grow, mature or succeed, you don't have to face difficulties, of course, people can also choose to escape, and escaping does not affect people, that is, they lack a certain amount of tolerance in thought and action. Stress is just an excuse to escape.

I hope you are happy every day and brave to face joys and difficulties.

Nowadays, people have a lot of pressure to survive in society, so sometimes they feel very fragile and want to escape, but they have to face it and face it, and they still have to face it, so just face it, there is nothing that can't survive!! Come on!!

Because you don't want to think too much, people sometimes need time to rest and may be tired.

It's a state of mind, and I think that's good.