If you don t know how to be humble, how will his life be unsatisfactory?

Humility is a traditional virtue of the Chinese, so it is important to understand humility in the domestic environment. But foreign countries don't like to be modest, they like to show off themselves and like confident people. So if you are too modest abroad, you may be misunderstood as hypocritical.

Among all the countries in Asia, China, Japan, and South Korea are very modest countries. But I've always felt that Japan and South Korea are a bit overly modest, and whether they've met before or not, they're going to greet each other when they meet. The first sentence of the meeting is to ask for a lot of care, no matter what the other party says is right or wrong, I will reply yes.

So in Korea and Japan, humility has slowly been transformed into a form of etiquette, a form of hospitality for them. In China, modesty is mainly reflected in dealing with people and work. If you meet a humble person at work, it will make a good impression on everyone.

If you work on a project with your teammates, when the leader praises you, you should also bring your teammates with you, and don't take all the credit on yourself.

If you take all the credit to yourself, it will attract criticism from your teammates. They will squeeze you out in future projects and will create a lot of difficulties for you. And you will tell others that your character is not good, and when everyone thinks that you have a problem with your character, no one will stand up to help you.

They think you're going to take credit for them, which is very bad for personal image. So in this case, you must be humble, one is to show that you are approachable, and the second is to unite your teammates. <>

And in dealing with people, if you are modest, you will also make a good impression. For example, when you meet someone, if they speak politely and modestly, then you will be very willing to talk to them. If he behaves in a state of arrogance, self-righteousness, and no modesty, I am sure that by then I will hate him without talking to him.

Maybe he's really talented, but his attitude doesn't give others a chance to get to know himself.

If you don't know how to be humble, you will be excluded by many people, you will lack friends in your life, and there will be all kinds of difficulties.

If a man does not know how to be humble, then he will be ostracized by others because of his pride and arrogance.

If you don't know how to be humble and are particularly proud in life, you will be very unharmonious when you get along with others, and you won't be able to make any friends.

People who don't know how to be modest will be very arrogant in life, stirring up right and wrong everywhere, making enemies everywhere, and after a long time, many people will stay away from this kind of person, and slowly this kind of person will lose some opportunities that originally belonged to him.

If he is not modest, he may suffer a lot of setbacks in his life, because there will be many people who will not like him.

If you don't know how to be humble, then the people around him will definitely slowly dislike him and have no friends.

Second, people do not know how to be modest, and their mentality is selfish.

A person who doesn't know how to be humble, in fact, his mentality is very selfish. Always self-centered and feel like you're amazing. In fact, such a person's life will become narrower and narrower, and no one wants to approach him, nor will he be able to integrate into anyone's life circle.

3. If you don't know how to be humble, everyone will reject itIf you don't know how to be humble, everyone will reject it。Such a person, his life circle is not only very narrow, but also makes people feel that it is difficult to get along with such a person. Because after a long time, everyone will have a certain rejection of him, and he will not want to have more communication with this kind of person, and will always feel that after getting along with such a person for a long time, her heart will also make people feel unhealthy.

People who don't know how to be humble, in fact, they always don't care about the feelings of others, they can say whatever they want, and do whatever they want. When what he does hurts others, he will not wake up. For such people.

There are almost no friends, and after a long time, you will feel that you are living in your own world and cannot get out.

If a person really doesn't know what modesty is, then he will be disgusted everywhere in life, and people will not like to associate with him.

Immodest people are easy to boast and like to boast about Haikou, so it is easy for the people around him to feel that he is unreliable, and there will be fewer and fewer people who naturally trust him, and there will be more and more people who dislike him, and there will be fewer and fewer natural opportunities, and they will be very failures.

This kind of life will be very unsuccessful, it will be difficult to make real friends, and even if there are friends, they will go for profit, and once there is a difficulty, these friends will disappear.

It may be difficult to succeed in life, because if you are too blind and arrogant, many people will be disgusted.

If he doesn't know how to be humble, then he may be excluded by the people around him, and the people around him will not be good friends with him.

If you don't know how to be humble, you will be arrogant in life. No one likes to be friends with such a person, and will keep their distance from him and avoid contact.

No one likes such a person, no one wants to be friends with him, and even less willing to contact him.

I can't be recognized by others, because I'm too proud and arrogant, too much in my eyes, and I can only play with myself, which is a special failure.

Learn to be modest, it seems that it is easy to complete, otherwise, even humility does not know what it is, modesty is not only to pretend to be low-key, pretend to be something others can see through at a glance, modesty contains a high philosophy of life, for example, a person does not have such a high ability, but in front of others to show their ability, and when he really needs to show his strength, he shows his feet, so that his first impression in the eyes of others is greatly discounted, in turn, you showed a little modesty, In fact, the strength you show is higher than the impression that others have of you, and others will look up to you, which is the importance of humility.

Modesty is not how timid you show in front of people, but you show stability in front of people's fingers, hidden deeply, and then do not show the edge, and domineering, this is the realm, is the embodiment of life with cultivation and connotation, others have too high expectations of you, the greater the contrast, the wine reflects the character, a few glasses of wine will reflect a person's quality, don't let others have too high an impression of you, then you have successfully interpreted a modesty, not a performance or pretend, don't pretend to understand, don't express as much as possible, Profound does not mean that you are ignorant, learning to observe words and colors is a science, not to let you be the same as before, after people talk nonsense, the so-called Tao is not in harmony and not for the sake of conspiracy, words are not speculative more than half a sentence, learn to do what it likes, when the modesty can not be publicized, modesty is not scheming, modesty is not scheming, a clear-eyed person can taste your every move from your every move to taste your pounds and a few taels, modesty is from your eyes to see your heart is the same as the inside and the outside, in fact, the forty-year-old can learn to be humble people can have geometry? As the so-called life learns from old age, the quality is accumulated layer by layer, I wish you success!

In life, we often hear some words to describe a person as powerful: the bureau brother is "deeply hidden".

said that this person is very talented, but he is usually very low-key. Usually like an ordinary, ordinary person, but when he encounters a problem, he can solve it easily.

When you meet mountains and build bridges when you meet water, there is no problem that he can't solve. In the process of continuous problem-solving, people learned about his various skills, and they knew that he was such a low-key and "hidden" person.

The opposite of "hiding deeply" is "complacent" and "poor donkey skills".

When the donkey first entered the forest, he thought he was very capable. With his own screams and the ability to kick the hind legs of the Tong stall, he scared away a lot of small animals that were not good at observation.

Later, when he met the king of the forest, Tiger, he didn't know how to keep a low profile and hide his skills. Under the temptation of the tiger once or twice, he easily showed his stunts and brought himself the disaster of killing.

The story of "Poor Donkey Skills" tells us: "In the face of unfamiliar people or environments, we must learn to observe carefully, not be complacent, and easily show our skills, so as to attract the disaster of killing." ”

To be a man, you must be modest and cautious, be cautious, and then shoot when you should shoot, and strive to kill with one blow, in a word!!

Today, as soon as I saw the eye-catching name of "Su Dongpo and Couplets", I became interested and read it hungrily. The main content of the article is this.

Su Dongpo was brilliant when he was a young man, and he was often praised by others, so he gradually became arrogant, and wrote a couplet in front of his house:

Knowing all the words in the world.

Read all the books on earth.

One day, an old man came to visit, gave Su Dongpo a book, and asked him for a few words. Su Dongpo took a look, who knew that he couldn't read the first line, the more he looked down, the more words he wrote, and he couldn't help blushing. The old man walked away with a smile.

So, Su Dongpo rewrote a couplet:

Be angry and know all over the world.

Determined to read all the books in the world.

After reading this article, my heart is full of generosity and my thoughts are fluttering. Yes, you must be humble. Isn't there an adage that says, "Humility makes a man progress, but pride makes a man backward"?

This sentence is to warn us that we must be humble, not proud and complacent, and arrogant, otherwise it will be a big mistake and people will regret it.

In fact, in real life, there will be such people and things. We shouldn't think we're the best. "There is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the people.

We should not despise or despise others because they are inferior to ourselves. We should humbly ask others for advice, learn from others' strengths, make up for our own shortcomings, and accept the opinions of others. Be strict with yourself at all times, make greater progress, and strive to do everything well.

Thinking, thinking, I blushed. I remember when I was in the fourth grade, I was so happy that I got first in the midterm exam, and I seemed a little carried away. At the end of class, a classmate asked me a question, and when I saw that it was such a simple question, I didn't bother to move my mouth, and excused myself that I was going to the toilet, so I got up and walked out the door.

I've been lazy all day. Later, during the final exam, I lost my name and ranked eighth in the auction. Alas!

Who can be blamed for this? I hate the word "pride" in the world. I gradually realized the danger of "pride", and I studied with my classmates, helped each other, and learned from each other's strengths and weaknesses to make progress together.

In this way, I have made significant progress.

Humility makes people progress, and pride makes people lag behind. We should always keep this in our hearts!

Be humble and keep a low profile. It doesn't matter how high you fly, you have to remember to land safely! Writer Yang Daxia believes that the more modest you are, the happier you are.

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