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MeI don't think there's any need to refuse a blind date, it's still a good way for many people to get rid of singleness.
When a person loses an age in a single state, blind date is a road that many people can't avoid. In this era of love, it should be a good thing for everyone to have one more way to get rid of singleness.
Blind dates are the last straw for older singles, and there is still hope if there is a choice. In my hometown, we generally get married at the age of twenty-four or five, but because I am working in other places, I have not been in love until I am twenty-six or seventeen years old. At that time, my parents were already very anxious, and my mother would call me every day, hoping that I could find a love and marriage partner soon.
I was very worried at the time, but it wasn't like going to the market to buy groceries, and I could just find the right person.
At that time, my parents insisted that I go back to my hometown for a blind date, because I couldn't solve my personal problems by myself, and I was also full of hope for the blind date, hoping to get rid of the single situation through the blind date.
In fact, when you embark on the road of blind date, the so-called free love will be discounted. But no one does not look forward to happiness, as long as there is hope, blind date can also be a Yangguan road.
There is no need to refuse a blind date in this day and age, because you simply can't say no. For everyone living in modern times, young people always carry a lot of pressure and responsibility on their shoulders. When a certain age is reached, marriage is no longer a matter for one person, but a source of worry for the family.
From the urging of parents, from the comparison of friends' lives, from the pressure of real life, from the loneliness and loneliness in the heart, all these want people to find a love partner as soon as possible.
On the premise that they can't solve the single state, blind date has become everyone's last resort. Maybe you don't want to, but this is an explanation to your parents, this is a hope for yourself, and this is also a little hope that life can be better.
In fact, no matter what era it is, blind dates will always exist. If you are not willing to embark on the road of blind date, then find a loved one by yourself at the right age to end your singleness.
No one does not look forward to happiness, and blind date may be the last way of love.
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I don't think you should refuse a blind date. Because blind dates can also find a suitable other half for us, and it is also a way to get rid of singles.
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Personally, I don't think there is any need to refuse a blind date, and there are many times when you can find a more suitable other half through a blind date.
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Personally, I think I should refuse to go on a blind date, and two strangers talk about this topic directly together, and there are many times when it will be particularly embarrassing.
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Blind date is just a way for two people to get to know each other, and after two people go on a blind date, it does not mean that they will get married immediately, but they must understand each other before they get married. So I'm not averse to blind dates.
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I think it depends on the personal choice, if you are very reluctant to go on a blind date, this thing is not so long, if you think it's okay, the end is not bad.
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There is no contradiction, as long as you find someone you like in life, I think everything is worth it, so whether it is Xiang or Hu Biqin or free love, it is most important to find the right person for you. Do it before.
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I don't think so, it's just that many people think that the square key of the blind date is more traditional, and it will inevitably be a little embarrassing in the process of the whole draft, and free love is relatively desirable for people. Sakura.
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I think there is a contradiction, because free love is what I like before I go back to pursue it, but the blind date is a bit like the feeling of an overlord on a bow.
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Whether the relationship between two people is long-term, and free love and blind date acquaintance, they have never had a relationship, no connection, whether the love of two people can last forever, whether it can last for a long time, mainly lies in the basic of love, the cornerstone of love, the key depends on the fate of the two, and the operation of two people on love, marriage and engaging in a company, the establishment of a company is a reason, family marriage must be operated, a business is not operated, there is no management method, no sincerity and no trust, there is no way to stand in the shopping mall, a family marriage must be operated by two people with heart, it's not that a woman marries her husband, and a boy marries a daughter-in-law and everything is fine, so he recognizes it and develops.
If two people are difficult to unify even the most basic three views together, there is no need for any external obstruction, and their own getting along can make the two people who have a good relationship at the beginning become hateful to the square and the same stranger. It is also very important to have similar personalities, if two people are all angry, they will not be able to get along together; Both of them are introverts, sitting together to eat, and after eating a meal, they haven't said a few words, how can this relationship be warm?
Free love, the main thing is affection, and the other elements are not well thought out. The dream is plump, but the reality is skinny. Many men and women in love are immersed in the wind and snow, as if nothing is important except feelings.
However, once married, you and I are mortal in life, and we usually tear the perfect love into pieces. Before dating a blind date, the matchmaker can highly recommend people who have similar standards for men and women, such as personality, height, diploma, appearance, family economic situation, where they work, and what hobbies they have.
The important factor of everything depends on the person. If the two three views are the same, they understand that they cherish each other, can cherish each other, and know how to empathize, whether it is free love or blind date, they can be long-term. Two people rely on attraction together, but for a long time or in life, there will be a lot of trivial things, and at this time, it depends on the wisdom of coexistence.
It is not necessary that free love lasts longer than blind date. If you want to live together lovingly for a long time, you also need the premise of affection. If the relationship is good, then they will naturally take care of each other, support each other, and love each other, so that the married life will be more long-term.
However, the premise of this kind of relationship has nothing to do with the way you touch it.
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Yes. Because the premise of two people being together is that they have a good feeling, and they are actively chosen, the process of getting to know and falling in love is not so embarrassing, and there are not so strong material requirements, so the relationship will last longer.
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In fact, whether it is free love or this kind of blind date, as long as there is fate, then the relationship will last forever, and the key is to have the opportunity to trust.
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Yes. Because blind dates always have a certain purpose, and free love is completely accumulated by the feelings of two people.
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I don't agree, the blind date is just to know and understand and then fall in love, and if it is not suitable, you can not get married.
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Disagree. Because the destination of free love is also marriage, there is no essential difference between the two, so I don't agree with this statement.
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I agree. Because when you are in love, you only think about two people together, and rarely think about marriage. And the purpose of the blind date is very clear, it is to go to marriage.
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Marriage is a very important thing for anyone, but because young people are busy with work now, they don't have time to find their right partner, many people will choose to believe in the way, but there are more and more young people who are resistant to this way, so is blind date an effective way for us to find the other half?
As a kind of blind date that has been passed down for thousands of years, the way to find your partner is undoubtedly very effective, and the effect is also more prominent, but this way and the current young people's thoughts can not be completely matched, and it is precisely because of this reason that it has been resisted by many young people, and they are more willing to find their other half through more in-depth emotional communication.
When going on a blind date, more and more people will face the theme, that is, directly put their own partner in front of everyone, so how to choose at this time is a thing that many people are particularly concerned about. But at this time, we only understand each other's economic situation and work situation, but we don't have any understanding of their specific character and whether there will be conflicts in the process of getting along, so there will be a lot of risk.
If we choose a better person in the process of blind date, then our life will be happier, but if we do not make the right choice and are deceived by the other party, it will eventually lead to frequent quarrels in the family, or divorce, I believe that this situation is also something that many people do not want to see, so even if we go on a blind date, we need to have enough emotional communication. The reason why many young people resist this method is that they are not willing to meet their partners through this way of being introduced by strangers, but hope to find a partner who can really bring them attractiveness, but if we are older and less competitive in the marriage market, then the blind date is also a more effective way.
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No, the current society is an open society, which encourages us to have free love, which can allow the other person to understand more deeply and thoroughly, and then find a suitable partner.
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I'm worried that it's arranged by my family, and I don't know much about each other, so I resist blind dates. Blind dates are not necessarily an effective way to find your significant other.
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It is definitely better to choose free love, free love is easier to be happy, because free love is your own choice, and you must choose what suits you and what you like.
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If you can, of course, choose to fall in love freely, but these two choices can't indicate which one is happier in the future, the most important thing depends on whether the person you meet is your rational other half.
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If you have a choice, you will choose to fall in love freely. As for which one will be happier in the future, it's really hard to say. It also depends on the run-in between the two of them, and whether they are happy or not is not directly related to how they are together.
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If I had to choose, I would choose to love freely, I think that after getting along this way, the relationship will be deeper, and the married life will be happier.
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I should choose free love, because I think free love will be happier and will have a basis for feelings.
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Blind dates are generally introduced by parents and friends, which will make people feel more reliable, but whether it is a blind date or free love, we must understand each other, see if the personalities of the two can get along, and whether the three views of the two are consistent, so that we can be happy.
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I can give the answer "no" very unambiguously. First of all, this is a conceptual problem, free love is another way to find a partner compared to arranged marriages, blind dates are also a form of free love. First of all, the blind date we are talking about now is not the same as the general number of Bi Nian that we said before, and it is not only that no one wants to go on the blind date, and now the blind date is not arranged by parents, we can have a choice.
We can choose who to go on a blind date with, when to go on a blind date, go on a blind date, or we can choose not to go on a blind date. Even if it's a blind date, no one forces you to be with someone you don't like, if you don't think it's suitable, it's okay, just change the next one, in essence, it's still free love.
Second, in fact, the more high-end people are now, the more they may need to go on a blind date. Due to the current social model, the life circle and social circle are too small, and even more so after work, there is no chance to meet the right person at two o'clock every day. The better the person, the higher the vision, and there are few excellent people, so they can only make friends with each other through blind dates, and when they go on a blind date, each other's information is very equal, you can directly rule out the type you don't like, and it saves a lot of trouble.
Third, blind dates are a very efficient way to find a suitable partner. Because there is no need to doubt that the goal of the people who come to the blind date is the same, and they all want to find a suitable partner, so that they will not encounter the embarrassing situation of liking to get along with one person and finding that the other party does not want to get married.
Blind date also saves time and effort, everyone makes an appointment to find a good place in the process of eating, you can have in-depth communication, you can directly understand what kind of person the other party is, what kind of person you like, save the time to guess, and it is beneficial to both parties. In general, blind date is not a blind date in the traditional sense of everyone, and everyone's concept must also change, and making friends through blind date is much more reliable than looking for a needle in a haystack.
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With the development of the economy, everyone is more and more advocating free love, even if it is a blind date, you can find your favorite object.
Of course, in the era of free love, no one wants to go on a blind date. I used to have a colleague who had been single for several years and had never been married, and every time I asked her where she had gone to play, she always said that she had gone on a blind date. My colleague is very distressed, obviously the conditions are very good!
How can you not find a partner?
Until one day her colleague got married, and she smiled so happily that day. Everyone knows that Yuan Dan can also find a partner with potatoes on a blind date. Because girls nowadays are more independent, like to fall in love freely, and don't want to be bound by marriage.
Besides, a lot of people are busy right now. I have to be busy at work during the day, and I just want to relax after the end of the day. There is simply no time to fall in love. And blind dates can solve this problem very well. There is no need to take the time to get to know someone.
Therefore, the blind date method is more popular. And now the era of free love is more free. People don't want to waste time on blind dates, after all, time is money!
However, sometimes there will still be some "trust" to help introduce the object, and this is the time to polish your eyes. After all, the blind date is too casual. Of course not!
I think: believe in love at all times! It won't stop coming to you just because you're older! But in the era of free love, don't go blind on a blind date!
Only when you have the ability to find a partner will you meet a better person! What do you think?
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