I like her, but my family says she s not good looking, and the condition is not good, what should I

Hello. I recently went through a romance that included a plot like yours hehe. Not much to say.

You have to examine if people walk. What are the conditions? Sooner or later, the family will approve.

If people can't do it, you don't need your family to say it, do you need anyone to say anything? You will naturally give up and learn to observe. I'll learn it later.

When human nature is good, material things are rare. When there are piles of materials, character has become rare again, people, what do you want? Best wishes.

As long as you like it, you don't care what others say.

Go your own way, and don't care what others say.

It's good to like it.

Give yourself some confidence and let yourself understand that she is the only person you love the most, and no one can stop her.

After that, it is you and your loved ones who live your whole life, not your parents.

Don't make the wrong choices to accommodate your parents, but also take responsibility for the choices you make now.

ps: If you love him, she will keep her, dare to love and hate, she is a man!

It's you and her who live all your life, living together all the time.

Since I like it, of course I want to be together again.

Then let the family slowly accept her

Go your own way, and don't care what others say.

Love is your own, and your future life is also your own, and you have to follow your heart.

In a word: if you like it, stick to it!

Marriage is to live a life, find a show, and it will be troublesome in the future, so as long as it works, it's good, and it's good-looking, but it's also hehe, you cherish it, don't give up easily.

You just think she's good.

Good-looking girls nowadays are usually very headstrong, can't cook, and aren't safe. It's not even good for your own parents, let alone your parents.

I look mediocre and even ugly, I have low self-esteem, I long for love but fear love, I only dare to hide in the corner and watch others in pairs. I don't dare to find a boyfriend, and no one will like me because I'm not good-looking. "If you're too ugly to find a boyfriend? The answer is no!

Build confidence and don't feel inferior and self-pitying, the appearance is just the appearance. Look in the mirror and tell yourself, I'm confident! I have an aura! I'm charismatic! Find the shortcomings of the women you envy around you, and psychologically suggest to yourself, I'm better than her!

Well-dressed, there are no ugly women, only lazy women! Clothes make the man! Be sure to learn to dress up, learn how to match makeup with clothing, and wear your own style. Believe that you are beautiful!

Read more books, it's okay to read more books, most mediocre-looking women are introverted, and reading books can improve their eloquence and connotation. I believe that proper conversation and eloquent conversation skills will add points to you!

Have the courage to pursueIf you have someone you like, you must try to pursue it. It is difficult for men to chase women to climb mountains, and women to chase men across the veil, and if you take the first step, it is possible to open the sky behind.

To deal with people, you should participate in more interpersonal communication, learn more about others, and make more friends. It is conducive to meeting more handsome guys and friends. Proper handling of things will make people refresh and get to know you more deeply.

Don't worry if you don't have a boyfriend, believe that your love must be waiting for you somewhere. You won't be alone, your male god is coming to you in the unknown.

Love still has to rely on your own efforts to fight, no matter what your external conditions are, there will be people who like you. Of course, you don't have to care about what your mother says about you, she should also say such things in a momentary atmosphere, and there is a mother who doesn't love her children.

Your mother is also a blow to your self-confidence, I'm afraid your mate selection conditions are relatively high, and you have not succeeded in talking several times. Your mother's purpose in doing this is also to make you lower your conditions and find your partner as soon as possible.

Your mother may be angry, don't be entangled, seize the opportunity when you meet the right object, of course, don't set the conditions too high, I wish you all the best!

To be honest, I think people are like this, not satisfied, and always unable to see the status quo. You said that your family's financial conditions are okay. As for the blind date, I think your requirements are a bit too high.

You just have to listen to the wind, marriage is a lifelong thing, and you must be good to the other party, not compromised.

You have to firmly believe that there is always a person in this world who will find you at the right time, and cultivate yourself well before love comes.

This is my mother's prejudice, he may not understand your true connotation, a person's ability is not only reflected in appearance, but also in his character and actions.

If you don't go on a blind date, how can you know if other people like you or not, and you need to love yourself first, so that others can love you. Women should remember to love themselves no matter what time of year they arrive.

After going on a blind date. I knew.

Is there anyone like you.

Before the blind date. Don't assume so much.

The main thing is the third point. Nothing else is a problem. If you can't change others, you can change yourself. Otherwise, continue to single.

Don't think too highly. Find someone you have eyes on.

There will definitely be people who like you, as long as you are excellent in other aspects.

How does your mother judge you? Hit you so hard, do you feel reluctant to let you go on a blind date? That's why you say that?

Maybe mom was just joking with you. So you don't have to take it too seriously, just prepare with your heart.

Then be competitive and accommodating.

That's 6 didn't meet the right person.

I told my mom that it was so hard to wash the dishes, but in fact, I went home after washing it for less than a long time and pretended to have a job. When I first started to work and had money, I would spend it and decorate myself with a bunch of famous brands. In this way, my dad still wants to invest in a company, give hundreds of thousands, and ask his eldest son and grandson to go to work in the company, and my dad will take the shares.

Many people are saying that "if you have low self-esteem, you should be confident, and you must believe in yourself", in fact, as a person with low self-esteem for many years, I want to tell you: low self-esteem is not that you can't do it, but that you are overestimating yourself and being slapped in the face by reality. So what you have to do is not to believe in yourself, but to accept yourself.

This requires you to dare to face yourself and face your inner self. A few tips for you: If you are not confident in your appearance, you can try to look in the mirror more, uninstall the beauty camera in your phone in a short period of time, and turn on the original camera if necessary.

In this way, you can not only know your original appearance, but after a long time, you will find that you can find the angle of your original camera.

If you're not confident in your abilities, try to let go of yourself and go with the flow. I understand that for you in the current position, it is still too difficult for you to dare to try something, and all you have to do is just go with the flow. If the opportunity is in front of you, don't shirk it, just try to accept it, and you will know how great you are when you do it well.

But what you're afraid of is not doing well, and that's actually quite understandable. There will be a lot of things in your life that you don't do well, and one day if you are asked to sort it out, you will find that you will lose face, make a fool of yourself, and embarrass yourself and count the countless things that you don't even remember. Will anyone else remember?

You think that you can completely avoid these embarrassing things by hiding yourself away, but in fact, on the contrary, it is impossible to be alone in various environments. There will be a lot of things that will give you a sense of powerlessness little by little, ravage your self-esteem, and crush you. By then you will realize that it will be too late.

What you can do is to start from now on, go with the flow, if you don't do well, you will learn a lesson, sum up experience, and always be better than others next time. It doesn't matter if you really can't do it, at least you know your shortcomings, and other times you can prevent problems before they happen and do better than others in more important situations.

So, did you find out? Nothing is bothering you, only yourself and you are constantly struggling with yourself. The more you do, the more you get.

The sooner you know, the sooner you can deal with it, and it's definitely not a bad thing to go through it at an age when everything is still possible for you.

Of course, I think the best way is to enrich yourself, and one day you will understand that the things that you think are extremely important now are all right, but they are just a scene on your long road in life. There's always something that really deserves to be looked back on.

Hello, I suggest you test the meaning of the other party. The other party is good-looking, maybe it's an artificial beauty!