The girl asked me to be her brother, but I like her

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be shy, take your time.

    Confession is an acute gamble, either you win and be her boy friend, or you lose, and you will be embarrassed to see her later (although it seems unlikely in your situation).

    Tell her to do it for a while, then gradually be nice to her, and then get closer step by step.

    According to my experience, after a while, slowly make some small requests to tempt, such as hugging something like that (if it doesn't work, don't force it, I'll agree one day) but try not to be too excited, the cold male god is a good performance.

    Like some small things you can do for her, bring her a candy when you meet.

    Love does not rely on impulse (a high probability of impulse, even if it is delayed, it will be quickly divided).

    It is slowly cultivated and brewed, in fact, even if it is not said that everyone has understood this. Love isn't meant to be in words, so don't rush into a relationship – until one day, you'll find out that she's actually a boy friend to you, and you've made it.

    ps: If you don't look ugly, don't behave obscenely, and don't be too far behind her, then your success rate: 98% (and she doesn't have a bad impression of you, I don't think so) Also, those who come to know that finding answers are generally not very professional, it is recommended to consult a professional emotional mentor, their opinions will be more accurate and useful (although I have to admit that I did look for them).

    wish i can help you

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The landlord can recall whether others know when you like her (for example, your friend knows, may tell her, or your behavior and eyes have exposed your psychology), and your relationship with her is not bad. Normally, when she says this, it's a tactful refusal.

    I'm also a girl, and I generally feel that if a male friend who has a good relationship around me likes me (and I really didn't want to go further with him), I will also find some reason to refuse tactfully (being a brother, buddy is one of them, and for example, introducing female friends around him to him, hinting that if he wants, he can get along with my friend for a while, etc.), generally speaking, it is not easy to destroy the current relationship between the two, but also to achieve the purpose of rejection (not easy to hurt the other party's self-esteem, so that he can't get off the stage).

    Normally, if the other party's confession is rejected, most of the time it will destroy the relationship (such as it is embarrassing to meet again, etc.), and after a long time, it will naturally become estranged, and even friends have nothing to do.

    And, according to what you wrote, if you didn't agree, she said she was sleepy, and then she didn't reply. This is most likely the case (of course, each girl's idea is different, and it is not excluded that she is literal (although this is unlikely)).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Companionship is the most affectionate confession!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First promised, slowly closing the distance, he is a routine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This shows that she may be interesting to you as well.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First a friend, then a sister, and finally a baby.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I had a crush on a man older than me, and I never changed my name until I fell in love with him, I called him brother. When people talk to me about him, they say your brother and your brother. It doesn't matter what it's called, what matters is whether the person you love has you in their hearts. Come on!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You tell her directly that you like him.

    In fact, her call you brother already shows that she likes you and girls are like this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Can't have a crush, because it's time to act. He's got a crush on you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What a chance. Usually lovers develop like this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Start with friends and slowly develop relationships.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's hard to say, but it must have a good impression of you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Ambiguous at first, and then slowly in love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why should you be troubled....What do you say is the difference between being a boyfriend and now? Besides, before you became a brother, people were always sitting behind you, hehe. If a girl is obsessed with not being friends, you can't be reluctant, right?

    To be an elder brother is to be an elder brother, how many sparks of affection do not occur from older brothers and sisters? As long as you're good to her....Single-mindedly, she will be touched by you. Getting love is easy, as long as you don't give up!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That girl may not feel for you yet.

    There are two ways you can make a difference.

    On the one hand: comprehensively improve their own quality. Including appearance, mannerisms, and work achievements.

    There may be further developments in a while!

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