What do you need to do before you get married?

When the man's family proposes marriage, he has to give a four-color gift, which must have a pound of meat, so as soon as I opened the door, his family came in with meat, and I felt like the second girl of the village head who married the butcher's son.

First set a marriage, and generally the celebrity and the man's parents have dinner, discuss matters, and convey some needs of the woman's side. The man generally has to give a deposit of one in ten thousand miles, which the celebrity brings back to the woman. Then there is the big gift, bringing six sixes or eight eights, as well as a digital auspicious bride price, and the man and the man's celebrity come to the door to give gifts, and the next wedding day.

Before the two decide to get married, the man wants to come to propose, and there is no need to bring very expensive gifts when proposing, but the parents of both parties meet to confirm the marriage. The man must be neatly dressed when he comes to the door to propose, and implore the woman's parents to agree to your marriage, and then confirm the marriage date after being affirmed.

Before getting married, the man must first prepare gold and silver jewelry, whether it is to choose gold or diamond rings, he must accompany the woman to choose, although the process will be more tiring, but the heart is sweet.

People have to go through the process of choosing a mate for their children"Matchmaker"Round trip between the two cities"Propose"The steps are, first by the matchmaker to ask the girl's zodiac sign and ask for it"Eight characters"and put the girl's"Eight characters"Send it to the man's house, and then ask for the boy's"Eight characters"Sent back to the woman's home, and the two sides invited each other"Fortune teller"Fortune telling, if there is no restraint between men and women, and there is a possibility of marriage, only to discuss marriage, otherwise though"The door is right"It's just a matter of doing it.

Before marriage in my hometown, the man must first come up with a bride price of at least 80,000 8, which is generally this auspicious number, after taking this money, the parents of the woman's parents also belong to the man, this is generally 8,000 8, and there is the girl's jewelry money, this is about 2 to 30,000 yuan, as for buying a house, those are the parents who make a down payment, and the couple will repay the mortgage after they get married.

Prepare a bamboo basket and put sugar, salt, tea and other things wrapped in red paper and a bundle of cash, and the groom will carry it to the woman's house, which is a ceremony. I don't know about this custom, my mother told my husband.

Preparing for the wedding, of course. Determine the specific date of the wedding, so that it is convenient to book the wedding venue, the easiest way to choose the specific date is to choose a suitable day for marriage from the yellow calendar, if you can be next to what anniversary date is the best, but you must pay attention to the parents of both parties before determining to avoid unnecessary problems. Decide where the wedding will take place, and nowadays there are many different types of weddings.

You can consider a regular hotel wedding, lawn wedding, seaside wedding, church wedding, or overseas wedding, but the premise is to hurry up and get one, a good hotel and wedding venue must be started early, and the general wedding venue is to book 8 months to 1 year in advance.

When both men and women think they can get married, the next step is to get married"Small set"Courtesy. "Small set"There is no certain standard for gifts, and ordinary people are almost four-box gifts. Various jewelry, such as gold bracelets, engagement rings, ruyi, and hairpins and diamonds, are divided into two boxes; Clothing and embroidered skirts were also packed into two boxes.

The jewelry is mainly pure gold, followed by gold-filled, and there are also silver bracelets, of course, depending on the social class and economic situation of both parties.

My hometown is in the countryside of Baoji Long County, Shaanxi Province, according to traditional customs, men and women basically have to go through five stages of marriage, that is, blind date, meeting, understanding, engagement, and marriage. The first is a "blind date", which is the first meeting between a man and a woman under the arrangement of a matchmaker or family member. "Meeting" means that after a blind date, both parties have feelings for each other, and they meet again on a date in order to deepen their impression.

To "understand" is to reinforce the impression, which is the same as what we usually call a relationship. Then, "engagement", there are two important contents, one is that the parents check their daughters and examine the economic and material foundation of the man's family. The woman's parents and important relatives such as the woman's seven aunts and eight aunts came to the man's house together, on the one hand, to find out the man's family background, and on the other hand, to pass on the experience and teach the man and woman how to better manage the marriage.

The second is to receive a bride price from the man's family. Finally, there is "marriage", which is the successful conclusion of all pre-wedding preparations.

Marriage is a major event in life, and some things must be considered clearly to be happy, so what factors should be considered before marriage? Take a look at these suggestions below.

Clause. First, how to distribute the property before marriage, many couples will have disputes because of property problems, if both husband and wife have a family business, then the prenuptial agreement must be signed before marriage, and the agreement details the distribution of property to avoid disputes in the later stage.

Clause. Second, how long to have children after marriage, who will take the children, this is a problem that many young couples are more confused, raising a child is very hard, so both husband and wife must have one person go out to earn money to support the family, and the other person to rent the world to take care of the children.

Clause. Third, there are many places that need to spend money after marriage, so before marriage, you need to determine the consumption concept of both parties.

4. Who is in charge of the affairs of the family, there will definitely be many big and small things after marriage, and it can be decided that the small things will be decided by the woman, and the big things will be decided by the man.

5. Before getting married, you must do a premarital examination to determine whether the other party has a physical disease, if the other party has a hereditary disease, it will definitely affect the next generation, so you must think about it before marriage.

Do I need financial support from both parents to buy a house? As a dowry or as a later repayment? How to sign the title deed? If the parents are sponsored, are they willing to live with the parent who has contributed more? What if parents interfere in married life?

If the couple can't buy a house on their own, and they urgently need a house, then the situation will be much more complicated, because it will involve both parents, or borrow money.

Don't be quick when you take money, even if it's your parents' money, if you don't think about these issues before you take the money, there will be a lot of conflicts later. How many couples have a lot of trouble because of buying a house and decorating a house, but the money is taken too quickly, and these things are not thought about in their minds at all.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future.

The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end. With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

Ask the opinions of both parents to ensure that the family is harmoniousMarriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to love each other, and marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors are also very important.

Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony. Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them. Eventually everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.

There are no common interests and hobbies, as well as topics.

Marriage is not 1+1=2, but unhappy people will say that it is the same for whoever they marry.

But anyone who knows marriage knows.

A good marriage is an energetic source field.

Two people encourage each other to create a better life.

I can understand your hard work, and you can also understand my difficulty, spiritually, there is communication and understanding.

In life, there is dependence and tolerance.

At home, there are fireworks and laughter.

Outside, there are concerns and greetings.

A woman can proudly say: worthy of the man I chose! Men can also proudly say: Look, that's my woman!

2 Marriage gives you someone to talk to.

When you reach the age of 30, you will find out:

Finding someone who can chat with you anytime and anywhere, and who can still be very happy and understand you for an hour or two a day is far more difficult than earning 1 million.

Looking through the address book, hundreds of friends, dozens of relatives may have so many people who can talk.

But in the past, people may have been busy with their work and life.

And the other half can listen to you.

Whether those words are sharing happiness or complaining about experiences, even if they will expose the dark side of human nature.

You can open up to him.

There is such a person, chatting with you, accompanying you in a daze, and accompanying you to engage in some bad tastes that only two people understand.

Just like the song says: I want to steal the light, the sun, the moon and the tide and talk to you slowly.

It's best to have a rocking chair that can be rocked slowly and grow old together in a slow time.

Marriage is a journey of two souls, and I once saw a sentence:

Marriage is the acquaintance and love of two lonely human beings based on the spiritual level. So that they are willing to rely on each other and dedicate each other to each other in the common secular life"

There is a personal discussion when encountering things.

Comfort and cheer each other up when you're tired.

Someone to eat with when I get home from work.

I was wronged outside, I can have a warm embrace, you drive the car, and I sit in the co-pilot.

In the car, we put our favorite ** and went home after buying groceries.

What must I do before I get married? "Before Marriage" must do these six things.

Just prepare money, in the end, getting married is burning money!

Banquet, bride price, house, three gold.

01 Determine the date of marriage.

The elders in the family are more concerned about auspicious days, and it is best to choose a good day a year in advance, after all, the best auspicious days of the zodiac throughout the year are just a few days, not only the hotel is expensive, but also a good wedding, photography and videography, makeup, and host ......All of them have to be robbed of by others! You don't have to think about the discount or anything, it's likely that you can't book what you like.

02 Decide on a wedding budget.

If the wedding is attended by both parents or paid for by the parents, a wedding planning group can be set up, consisting of both parents + experienced close relatives and friends.

03 Decide on the wedding form.

Before deciding on the wedding form, you can go to a few more weddings, talk to the planner, and make a more satisfactory decision based on the understanding of various wedding forms. Otherwise, it can only be regarded as a blind selection.

04 Booking a hotel.

It is recommended to think about the wedding style and form first, and then book the hotel, and choose the hotel that matches your preferences, so that the wedding decoration can get twice the result with half the effort. In addition, it is best to ask how to calculate the entrance fee, cleaning fee, equipment use fee, corkage fee, spare table fee, parking fee, wedding room decoration fee and other expenses when booking a hotel.

05 Select the best man and bridesmaid.

If you want to let your best friend for many years be a bridesmaid, remember to notify in advance, so that your friends can arrange the time, and after determining the number of people, you should start choosing bridesmaid dresses, morning robes, and souvenirs. Bridesmaid dresses are generally available in places where wedding dresses are rented, and they can also be purchased online.

06 Prepare the content of the ceremony speech.

Of course, there are also newcomers who play on the spot, in short, you need to prepare a rough idea.

07 Run the driving route on the wedding day.

Familiarize yourself with the road conditions and calculate the time. At this time, if there is a sudden road closure, road repair, etc., there is still time to adjust the route.

Count the number of people attending the wedding.

Determine the wedding budget (you can find out the approximate cost of the wedding through the online website of friends and family).

3.Book a hotel

After comparing the wedding venues according to the total number of people in the wedding (hotels, specialty restaurants, one-stop wedding halls, etc.), pay a deposit and select an auspicious date for the wedding.

Determine the type and portion of the wedding menu (whether it is enough to eat).

Confirm the availability of beverages at the wedding banquet.

Whether the wedding venue can provide sound equipment, champagne glasses, stage facilities, etc.

All terms and conditions provided by the hotel are written into the contract.

4.Find a wedding(The fee is about 20% of the total price of the wedding banquet).

Make an appointment with the wedding party to the hotel and communicate with the wedding company about your wedding decoration requirements.

Provide a planning plan for the wedding, determine the wedding emcee and makeup artist for photography and video follow-up (make an appointment with the emcee for an interview, makeup artist to try on).

Wedding car rental and wedding day process communication and confirmation.

Wedding day table map, give your guest name to the wedding, and entrust the wedding to help you get it done.

If the wedding company has an electronic invitation, please help you send the invitation to the wedding companyPeers,AllEldersHandwritten invitations must be delivered in person.

5.Make a wedding shopping checklist(Inquiries can be made with the wedding company).

At least that's all, if there is a deficiency of celebration, everyone adds.