How do children growing up in single parent families feel about their parents divorce?

It is 100 million times stronger than parents in the same bed and different dreams killing each other, and the family can live well.

I think that children who grow up in single-parent families may have more understanding of their parents' divorce, because they also know that their parents at that time did not want to divorce, but they were forced to be helpless, and the two parties really couldn't get along, so they chose the worst result to divorce, so they can also appreciate how much this kind of divorce affects them, so they will take marriage more seriously.

They will feel very irresponsible, because in elementary and junior high school, everyone is almost in the rebellious period, and they will be irritable at school, and when they return home, they will think about the breakdown of the family, and they will be like rubbing salt on the wound, which is unfair to the child and puts too much pressure on the beautiful childhood.

Many people may think that children from single-parent families will lack love and insecurity, in fact, I don't think it's all, my cousin was very young when his parents divorced, on the contrary, he didn't feel unhappy, he said, when his parents were not divorced before, his parents often quarreled, even if he stayed in his room, he could hear clearly, which was quite troublesome for him, and after his parents divorced, he lived with his father, and his mother would often come to see him, and his parents got along more harmoniously. Being able to speak well, he thinks it's a good thing, sometimes, the wrong combination, being able to stop the loss in time, and give the child enough love, for the child, to be able to love him, that's enough.

Children who grow up in single-parent families will have different opinions on the divorce of their parents, and if the children are cared for enough after the divorce, they will not have too many negative emotions, and if the children are treated badly after the divorce, they will hate their parents and be pessimistic.

Children from single-parent families are more insecure and less loving, and they dare not easily try to enter the palace of marriage when they grow up, they are afraid that there will be contradictions in life, and they will go to the step of divorce like their parents, so they are extremely insecure.

I think children who grew up in single-parent families. There may be more unhappiness, more insecurity, so they may be more anxious about married life, they will be afraid of some quarrels and bumps in the marriage, so they will not dare to step into the palace of marriage.

My wife grew up in a single-parent family, she grew up with her grandmother since she was a child, I asked her what she thought about her parents' divorce, she told me that she didn't feel it at all, they each felt that divorce was better and they would leave, and they would just live their own lives, although so, but how would it affect single-parent children, lose confidence in marriage, and be independent or withdrawn.

I have a colleague whose parents are divorced, and his opinion about his parents is that since their parents often quarrel, it is better for them to divorce. Feeling that his parents are quarreling together, don't let a family be equally unhappy, if so, he would rather let his parents separate.

Legal analysis: The divorce of the parents is considered a single-parent family.

Characteristics of a single-parent family:

1. Refers to a family in which at least one child lives with a single parent. There is also a definition from the perspective of family economic evaluation, in which only biological or adoptive relatives have school or preschool children who need to be supported.

2. It refers to a family formed by the children and one of the spouses in the form of divorce, the death of one of the spouses, or the separation of the husband and wife.

3. A child raised by a mother or father is a child of a single-parent family due to widowhood, divorce, separation, unmarried pregnancy, etc., or incomplete members of the family.

4. Refers to a single-parent family that does not have a husband but may have children under the age of 18 living together.

5. Refers to a family consisting of only a mother and an unmarried child.

Legal basis: "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Prevention of Juvenile Delinquency" Article 21 Where a minor's parents are divorced, both parties to the divorce have an obligation to educate their children, and neither party may fail to perform their obligation to educate their children because of the divorce.

Legal Analysis: Yes. Single-parent families, a long-standing social problem, have long become a common phenomenon, and most people intuitively think that they are divorced families.

However, with the diversification of family and social structure, the family may be single parent due to various factors, such as divorce, death of spouse, spouse working and living in two places, and even pregnancy before marriage. Due to the different causes of single-parent families and the different internal and external resources possessed by individuals, the feelings and adjustments towards single parents are also different.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Legal Analysis: Yes. The so-called single-parent family refers to a family that is widowed, divorced, separated, unmarried and pregnant, etc., or the members who constitute the main body of the family are incomplete. A child raised by a single mother or father is considered a child of a single-parent family.

Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of parents. After the divorce of Sakura Jian, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are directly raised by their father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children. In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. Where the parents of a child who has reached the age of two years and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.

Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Children may have low self-esteem and cowardice, and children may also be very timid, do not like to talk to others, do not like to communicate with others, and only know what to do in the bottom of their hearts, and children will not have a good social interaction.

The child will become very inferior, the child's personality is very timid, the child is afraid to communicate with strangers, does not have good interpersonal skills, has poor logical skills, and has no sense of security.

Children will have low self-esteem, and children will also be particularly insecure, they will feel that they are inferior to others, and they will be submissive when getting along with others, and always feel that their family is not good. The child's communication skills will be very poor, and the child will not know how to express himself. Children will also be very distrustful of feelings.