What do you do when you feel that fate is unfair? How to deal with it?

Tell yourself: it's okay, a lot of people grow up like this. A peaceful life is the pursuit after middle age. When you are still young, the suffering, the losses you have suffered, the responsibilities you have beared, the sins you have carried, and the pain you have endured will eventually become light and illuminate your way.

Take care of yourself. Only by caring more for yourself can we have more energy to care for others. If I am capable enough, I should try to help the people I can, so that I can get a few happiness. Helping others and being kind to yourself is also a way to reduce stress.

Stay sincere, be kind, have a heart of great love, and be informal, I believe that fate will favor me, and it will be good naturally.

Pluck up the courage and courage to fight for a while, and then fight with God If you are really discouraged, then say "everything is the best arrangement".

When it's unfair, it's when you're not qualified. It's good to work hard, and what you get is your own. Instead of complaining.

I first look for my own reasons, if I can't find it, I can talk to my friends, if I am sure that there is no problem, then I don't have to care about those things, and finding the next goal is more important than complaining.

When do I think fate is fair? However, many things are chosen by oneself, and many things cannot be the best of both worlds, but there will be a reward for what you pay. So it's still necessary to try to do things well.

Fate is fair for everyone.

Don't deliberately care about these, fate is unfair, this is a fact, but it depends on what kind of mentality you use to treat it.

The irritability of parents may also be forced by the environment, or they may have their unspeakable secrets, which may be understood by you, and don't blindly complain. Some parents just don't know how to express love, when you have an accident, the first thing to worry about you is your parents, maybe they won't shed tears, but they will care about you in different ways, and you need to experience it with your heart.

You're not alone.

You are just one of the poor, try to change your fate, even if you try hard and fail, don't be discouraged, because you have worked hard.

The more you care, the more you complain, and you have to learn to adjust your mentality.

What is happiness, others don't have food to eat, you have. That's happiness.

Heaven will never be fair, if I want to say that it is better to rely on people and heaven, it is better to rely on yourself,26 it should be time to struggle, either stand up, or be looked down upon for the rest of your life.

Be the bad guy ... Just kidding... Labor on your own... Earn your own money...

This society is inherently unfair. Since you have come to this world, you can only accept it. Seeing that there are many people who are better off than themselves, but they don't pay much for themselves, don't feel that God is unfair, don't complain, think that there are many people who are inferior to yourself, and go to see the people who work the streets, maybe your heart will be calmer.

But don't give up on the pursuit of a better life, no matter what it is in this world. As long as it exists, it has a reason. Think more about your own shortcomings, why do you still fail despite your efforts?

Only by constantly enriching yourself and not stopping the pace of progress, one day it will come naturally, and there will be no more thoughts of unfair fate.

There was a young man who had not been reused, and he was very depressed.

For this reason, he made a special trip to a far away place to ask the wise man. At last he saw the wise man, and the young man asked him, "Why is fate so unfair to me?" ”

The wise man did not directly deal with him, but picked up a pebble from the ground, threw it into a pile of rubbles in the distance, and said to the young man, "Go and get back the pebble I just threw out." The young man searched through the rocks for a long time, but he did not find them, and he did not know which one had been thrown by the old man, because every stone looked similar.

In vain, the wise man took the ring from his hand and threw it into the pile of stones for the young man to retrieve. This time, the young man found it without much difficulty—the ring that shimmered with gold.

The wise man said nothing, but the young man woke up: if you are just a pebble and not gold, do not complain that fate is unfair to you.

A small story, a big truth: everyone's fate is in his own hands. When you're done complaining about the world, should you reflect on it? Abandon distractions, improve yourself, and make yourself shine like gold.

It's gold, and it always shines.

How to deal with the unfairness of fate, have you learned?