After breaking up with my boyfriend, he ignored me, what do you mean?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Knowing that the other party just doesn't want to contact you anymore and doesn't block you, this can explain at least two problems, 1. None of the messages you sent before caught his eye.

    2. He can still see the messages you send.

    a. From the first point of view, your previous behavior is useless, boring, worthless, and meaningless to him. Then I understand that replying to your messages is a waste of time. Neither can you get emotional value in you.

    can't get other substantive value, and if you are left after breaking up, it is all about your affection.

    You have to pay attention to each other's value needs. If you say that you are rejected by the other party, don't kneel and lick, but think calmly, what the other party needs now, and what you can take out to make him look at you again.

    You say you love him and want to redeem him, can you create any value for him? Can it make him happier? Neither, so it's useless to do this.

    So what is useful? It is to make him happy, to make him feel valued, to make him dignified, and even to make him rich and have a personal ...... to improveThere are many useful things, there is always one thing that he needs, and if you can provide him with what he wants, there is no reason for him to turn a blind eye.

    Many of the examples I have come into contact with before are the kind of boys who help girls write **, or introduce customers, introduce jobs, and get very rare idols for each other.

    Tickets for the meeting, and then the two of them slowly communicated more. Therefore, creating value for the other party is a stepping stone to recovery. It can make the other person feel a certain level of dependence on you.

    B, and then pay attention to the second point, don't think that the other party doesn't want to contact you, it's bad, it's completely useless, in fact, he will still read all the messages you send, so the emotional value you can provide to him, the realistic value, or continue to send messages to convey.

    But be careful, you're just messaging now, and you can't ask the other person to get back to you. Whether the other party wants to reply or not is his business, he may not want to, he may not have time, and he may deliberately hang your ......It doesn't matter, it's his business, and you should focus on your own messaging rather than letting the other person's reaction over-affect your emotions.

    When he doesn't have a need for you, he naturally won't reply to your message, but what about after he has a need for you? So the first step is to do useful things, and keep a good mentality, don't get angry when you see that the other party doesn't reply to the message, information bombardment, it's normal for him not to reply, you have to learn to accept that the other party has become indifferent to this change.

    Try to use your friend's identity and mentality to face your ex's hot and cold to you. You can rest assured, seeing what you say and send the message, the psychological changes that should be generated, he will produce, you just need to continue to water and fertilize now, and then wait for the value you create to produce harvest.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When a person is broken up, the emotions can be affected a lot, and there may be feelings of loss, sadness, anger, or other different emotions. Some people may choose to deal with these emotions alone, while others may want to distance themselves from their ex to help themselves handle their emotions better.

    If your boyfriend chooses to ignore you, it could be a way for him to deal with his emotions. It is normal for him to take some time and space to think and reflect on your relationship or to deal with his emotions. At this time, you better respect his decision, give him some time and space, and let him calm down on his own.

    On the other hand, he may also be hurt or angry, or disappointed or dissatisfied with the breakup. If you think this may be the case, you can try to communicate with him and show your understanding and respect, while also letting him know that your decision was deliberate and not rash.

    In conclusion, at this time, you need to respect his decision, give him time and space to process his emotions, and try to communicate with him in order to better understand his thoughts and feelings.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since both of you have broken up, it is too normal to ignore you It means that he has no feelings for you, so he resolutely gave up this relationship, in this case, there is no need to be sad, why should you be sad for a person who does not love you, feelings cannot be forced, so it is better to look away, be a girl with self-esteem, be a proud girl! Find someone who truly loves you, and finally wish you to find the person who loves you as soon as possible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After you break up with your boyfriend, he will definitely not want to deal with you, which proves that he is already angry. You should sit down with your boyfriend and have a good talk, and you should tell your inner reasons why the two of you broke up together. It's not easy, but it's not that simple to break up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you ignore your boyfriend after breaking up, it means that your boyfriend feels unreasonable about your proposal to break up, or she still doesn't believe that you can make the decision to break up, so he no longer wants to have any contact with you and no longer cares about you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If he ignores you after breaking up with your boyfriend, of course he is very angry with you for breaking up, so it's best not to talk nonsense about breaking up under normal circumstances.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After breaking up with your boyfriend, he ignored you, and it seemed that the other party had already had the intention of breaking up, so he made the final gesture of breaking up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If he ignores you, it means that he acquiesces to this way of breaking up, or he also wants to silently withdraw from your sight.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After breaking up with your boyfriend, he will ignore you, which is also a normal situation, because since the breakup has been broken, there is no need to date again, indicating that he is trying to get out of the relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because people don't want to break up with you, they want you to calm down first, and when you calm down, your boyfriend will naturally take care of you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you take the initiative to break up with him, he will feel that you have given up on the relationship in the future, so when you are looking for him, he will not want to continue to communicate with you too much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After breaking up with your boyfriend, he ignores you, which means that he doesn't want to break up with you, so he will deliberately remain silent, if he wants to break up with you, I believe he will promise you In fact, the man has dignity, and you can let him calm down for a while.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After you break up with your boyfriend, he ignores you, which means that he is very angry, that is, you don't bother to say anything about whoever you love, you want to leave and he doesn't stay, and you stay with him and he's very happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The first possibility is that he agrees with you to break up, and then there is no need to pay attention to you anymore, and the second possibility is that you mention the breakup, and then he is very angry and sad. So ignore you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If the other party doesn't care, you shouldn't agree to break up with you, or you want to calm down for a while and think carefully about your behavior, if you really want to break up, then you bring it up again, and your boyfriend will definitely agree.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it is a serious breakup, it means that he accepts the fact of this breakup and does not want to be tied to the past anymore. If you just say it casually when you are angry, it means that he is angry and doesn't like the two words of breakup that you casually uttered. If you want to continue, let's explain it clearly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because your boyfriend is reluctant to break up with you, he doesn't want to reply, thinking that your breakup hurts his heart, and he ignores you because he doesn't want to accept it. It can also be seen that he may have strong self-esteem, if he really doesn't want to break up, he can communicate with you well to save you, but he refuses to communicate, perhaps because his emotional intelligence is relatively low and he is not good at dealing with relationship problems.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You must want him to keep him, but some words are spoken, but the result may not necessarily go to the result you want. Maybe he didn't know what to say anymore, or maybe he hated the move, so he was silent.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you and your boyfriend have already broken up, but he doesn't reply to you or ignore you, then I think it's very likely that your boyfriend is now thinking about how to reply to you and how to deal with you? Because in the face of your sudden breakup, maybe he is not mentally prepared enough to reply to you like this. Sports: So, I think there's a good chance he's thinking about how to get there.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's because after you proposed to break up, he was very angry, thinking that you didn't love him anymore, so he ignored you because of love and hate, and he was angry when he just broke up, and after a while, he may still contact you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You have already broken your boyfriend's heart when he broke up, and he will definitely not think about you when he is broken, so he will ignore you now, he means that he is already angry with you, or has agreed to break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After breaking up with your boyfriend, he ignores you in the future, and you don't understand what he means, then you can ask him directly, and it is best to ask him in person what he means, if he continues to ignore you, then maybe he is breaking up with you by default.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because the two of you are already in a state of breaking up, it is normal for him to ignore you now, which means that she has accepted your proposal to break up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Whether it's because of some trivial matter or if two people don't have the right personality, so you first mention breaking up, he will definitely ignore you because he doesn't know why you're going to break up. No matter if you have a little problem, you will always talk about a breakup.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't bother with your boyfriend after breaking up, it means that your boyfriend doesn't want you to break up with him, and he should still like you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    have already broken up, why should people take care of you? In fact, people ignore you, that is, they want to tell you that he has nothing to do with you anymore, and I hope you don't bother him in the future, and the two of you can't have a chance to get back together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This shows that it is your business to mention the breakup, and he did not mention the breakup, so he ignores you and proves that he does not agree with it, so he will ignore you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It shows that he doesn't agree to break up with you, ignoring you is trying to let you calm down, think about this relationship, it is a manifestation of love for you, solve any contradictions, and don't mention breaking up at every turn.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Since the other party has such an attitude, it means that your boyfriend is very reluctant to break up with you now, because the relationship between the two of you is also very good, so the other party just doesn't want to deal with you, just wants you to think about it calmly.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello friend, according to your question, it is recommended to find your own reasons first, the story is not to be thought about, you must be confident, you must have self-confidence to give others confidence, you don't believe in yourself, who will believe you, good luck. Hope mine can help you and good luck. Hope mine helps.

    Quick questions, free consultation is still not a no. Why?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Summary. Hello, dear, I'm happy to answer for you, <>

    If you break up with your boyfriend, he doesn't reply to the following situations, 1It's not quite possible for him to do it, so that when he sees your news, say break up. He will use this way to delay as a way to ease the breakup.

    2. He knows that there is no possibility of continuing the relationship between them. So for the breakup you said, his non-reply is a kind of acquiescence to a certain extent. 3. Men will also have confusion in their hearts and don't know how to continue their feelings with each other.

    4. The man is cold and violent to you, and he ignores him, <>

    We're going to analyze it on a case-by-case basis, <>

    What does it mean to break up with your boyfriend, but he doesn't care about it.

    Hello, dear, I'm happy to answer for you, <>

    If you break up with your boyfriend, he doesn't reply to the following situations, 1It's not quite possible for him to do it, so when he sees your collapse, say break up. He will use this way to delay as a way to ease the breakup.

    2. He knows that there is no possibility of continuing the relationship between them. So for the breakup you said, his non-reply is a kind of acquiescence to a certain extent. 3. Men will also have confusion and confusion in their hearts, and they don't know how to continue their feelings with each other.

    4. The man is cold and violent to you, and he ignores him, <>

    We have to analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis, [Happy Group with Brother].

    Dear, how long have you been talking about it<>

    When you don't love, how can a girl mention that breaking up is more appropriate than filial piety? In fact, the most traditional way to break up is to make it clear face-to-face, that is, two people face to face, open and honest, and communicate directly. If you don't want to hurt the other party too much, you can also wait until the chat is further deepened, and Shi Zhaoji will use this to say that you are more suitable to be friends, so that the other party can understand what you mean<>

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Summary. This may be a default breakup, or it may be too pleasantly surprised, and the boyfriend doesn't know how to reply. What happened when I broke up with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend didn't reply?

    There are two reasons for this, the first reason may be that the breakup has been tacitly acquiesced, in which case the two people are not related. The second reason is that your boyfriend doesn't know how to reply, so he's thinking about how to reply. Your boyfriend has broken up with you.

    If you don't reply to your boyfriend after breaking up, it's likely that your boyfriend has broken up with you, but doesn't want to reply to you. In this case, my boyfriend thinks that since the other party has broken up with me, then we have broken up, so in this case, it may be sad and does not want to reply, or simply does not want to reply. No matter what kind of person you don't want to reply, in this case, you have really broken up with you and don't want to keep you.

    I broke up with my boyfriend, what does it mean that he doesn't reply?

    Break up with a message with your boyfriend and don't reply.

    This may be a default breakup, or it may be too pleasantly surprised, and the boyfriend doesn't know how to reply. What happened when I broke up with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend didn't reply? There are two reasons for this, the first reason may be that the breakup has been tacitly acquiesced, in which case the two people are not related.

    The second reason is that your boyfriend doesn't know how to reply, so he's thinking about how to reply. Your boyfriend has broken up with you. If you don't reply to your boyfriend after breaking up, it's likely that your boyfriend has broken up with you, but doesn't want to reply to you.

    In this case, my boyfriend thinks that since the other party has broken up with me, then we have broken up, so in this case, it may be sad and does not want to reply, or simply does not want to reply. No matter what kind of person you don't want to reply, in this case, you have really broken up with you and don't want to keep you.

    If you don't reply to a message to your boyfriend, does it indicate a breakup?

    Dear, it's not all, maybe the boyfriend is also thinking about how to choose next.

    It's also possible that your boyfriend wants to calm down with each other, think about it, and then give you an answer.

    Everyone has a different perception of themselves, and it is normal to have different thoughts, why do you have such thoughts, and do you remember the specific reasons?

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