My boyfriend and I have been breaking up for a month, and he brought it up

You can see that you love your boyfriend very much and can change yourself for him. But you can also see between the lines that your boyfriend is the kind of person who is very ambitious, and it is difficult for this kind of person to change the decisions he has made.

If you want to redeem it, you can talk to him, if he doesn't reply to the text message, you will call him to ask him, and if you don't answer, you will go to his house to find him in person, and he should not have a bad attitude.

Of course, you also have to pay attention to your words, talk to him about your changes and the plans you want to fight with him in the future, don't say useless words, and don't be too low-voiced, so that others can't look down on you.

If he listens to what you say and is still indifferent, or has no interest in listening to what you say at all. Then, this relationship has really come to an end, and you shouldn't let it go too much.

Now that you know the reason, tell him that you have changed, and that you are willing to fight with him, and I believe that you will get better.

And be honest.

Frankly. Generally, if a man wants to find a marriage partner, he will be industrious and thrifty. A simple girl.,It's not the kind of girl who will spend money.,It's going to be overdraft.。。。

You should also look at your own reasons ... Can you really change your life, can you really work with him to create a future that belongs to you? If you can, please show a little sincerity.

You can text and say that I used to be too good at spending money. It won't be in the future.,Can you forgive me or something.。。 However, you have to make sure that others are because you are too good at spending money, not because you have a crush on other women.

If you like another woman, it's useless to try hard. But from what you said above: "He said to his brother that he wouldn't talk about feelings for two years, I don't know if it's true" shouldn't be fancy to other women.

I've hurt women too. So I want to talk about who I got married in 2 years... Now the career is done first.

Hope it helps the landlord. Thank you!

It's you wrong. You can't live like this. Because he is a real person, he thinks you are not suitable to leave.

If you are still in love, tell him your true appearance, and tell him that there is still no change of mind. You'd better leave. Barely there is no happiness.

Actually, I've been in a situation like yours before.

My boyfriend was separated from me like that.

I have a bad temper, I spend a lot of money, and he goes out every day.

He said that both the economic and mental pressure was very great.

Finally he said he couldn't love me anymore.

In fact, many friends at the time said that he might have a better choice.

Why was he able to tolerate you before?

When I first met you, you were the same.

Why can't we be inclusive now.

He said that putting your mind on your career is to make you die and not to have hope for him.

Feelings are such a thing, if he still has a heart, you can try to keep it, if not, then let go completely.

If he doesn't look for you, forget it, live a normal life, just do what you want, save money if you want to, don't save if you don't want to, you see which rich person's money is saved little by little. Maybe you're just not the right fit.

If you break up for that small reason, I believe he will definitely accept your change. If he decides, then it's divided.

In fact, it's better to struggle alone than two, and I don't recommend that you get back together with him, because like a career-minded person, it's really not suitable for life, and when he has money, what he needs is not a woman who can get by, just a person who can socialize, and there are some things that you and him will have a completely different opinion, anyway, you don't care about money from the bottom of your heart, so if you want to live well, don't be with this kind of person.

If a man decides to break up, it's hard to go back, do you think he still loves you? I don't think I will not talk about feelings for two years like you said, how can there be an absolute thing, you say yes.

A good brother talks about spirit, and if you love him, you have to believe in him.

He says that you don't feel it anymore, you can change it to "he has feelings for others".

After a breakup, it takes some time to travel and heal each other's wounds and adjust to a new state of life. A month can give both of you some space to process your emotions.

If you want to reconnect with him, start by thinking about your feelings and motivations. Is it because you still want to continue the relationship, or because you want to know how he is doing or because you are lonely and want to keep in touch with him?

If you really want to reconnect, think about what you're trying to accomplish and then think about how best to connect with him. You can send him a short message to tell him how you feel, or offer a simple greeting.

Whatever you decide to do, be respectful and understanding. If he has no interest in reconnecting, respect his decision as well.

Maybe I want to get back together.

I understand your feelings and it's normal to keep your distance for a while after a breakup. You can give yourself some time to process your emotions and thoughts and adjust to your new life. If you feel the need for it, talk to a friend or family member for support and advice.

Most importantly, don't rush into starting a new relationship and give yourself plenty of time to recover and grow.