If you have a real friendship or affection with a friend of the opposite sex, and others will gossip

Family affection is a kind of affection for relatives.,There will be the opposite sex in the relatives.,As long as the heart is right.,It's good to let others have a lot of mouths.。。。

It is normal for the opposite sex to preserve the feelings of super-friendship before. And it's not a big majority of love. If you say that your friends gossip about you all day long.

I don't think it's necessary to listen to it, after all, I have my own life. However, not to mention you, sometimes it is possible that the two of you are a little too prominent. If you're still young, you should keep a little distance before you are of the opposite sex.

However, gossiping people can also make you see more clearly what they are. In the future, you need to pay attention to whether you need to develop a friendship relationship. Thanks,

The whole world is turbid, I am alone! How long can someone gossip gossip? Longer than later? endure the calm for a while, saying that "explanation is a cover-up", what do you care about with that kind of person who doesn't understand the amorous feelings! Waste of tongue

I just think that since I think it's real family affection, I don't need to take care of those disturbances, just take it as a test of family affection, gossip, there will always be a day when it disappears, and when you let everyone know the real situation, everyone will look at you with envy!

Don't care what they say? They don't get it, of course, and they gossip a lot....Many people think differently and don't need to pay attention to them.

You don't have to care so much, as long as you and your friends of the opposite sex know it in your own heart. It's still the same old saying: go your own way, let others tell you to go. Besides, those who question it will understand after a long time.

Exist. I've experienced it myself, and I've seen other friends around me.

What I want to tell you is that nothing is absolute.

Anything, no matter how small the probability is, it may be that we have not seen or experienced it, or even we do not understand it, but the things in the world are strange, and our experience is very limited, how can we say categorically, it is impossible, it does not exist.

There are no absolutes.

And when I say exists because I have experienced it myself, it's not that I'm trying to contradict myself or deceive you, and that doesn't mean anything to me.

Some people, as long as they resonate emotionally and thought, can become confidants and friends, but their personalities, habits, and preferences are not necessarily the same. My friends and I are like that, we appreciate each other and bless each other. He had already found a partner, and they had been together for many years.

I'm taking my own experience as an example, and this kind of thing is not an isolated case, it's quite common. If what is discussed here is whether friends of the opposite sex will necessarily have love, and cannot exist for a long time, then for example, if your friend has a partner, you are of the same sex, the object must be the opposite sex, you often play together, ignore the moral restrictions first, you and the object of your friend will definitely love each other? This is an extreme assumption, which may not be appropriate, but I would say that just because we are of the opposite sex, we are not necessarily attracted to each other, and there is universal love between people of the opposite sex.

People's preferences, likes, personalities, and purposes are too different, and many times as long as someone can understand enough, and the other party meets some of your desires on the basis of understanding, in this case, love can breed.

Regarding family affection, if you have a family, then the "husband and wife" are actually both friends and family members, and sooner or later they will have family affection. Other friends of the opposite sex who are older but can still appreciate each other and keep in touch for a long time are no different from relatives and affection.

If you don't have a family, then there is the possibility that heterosexual friendship can be transformed into love, but it is not excluded that you really can't call each other but appreciate each other very much, and friendship is sublimated into family affection.

To sum up, there can be family affection between friends of the opposite sex.

I don't think it's family, it's friendship, but it's true that there can be no love.

Family, friendship, love are the nouns that people give it a title, the so-called family affection, in my opinion, is more or less related to blood relations, and there is no blood relationship, and there is no mutual like, it should be more appropriate to describe friendship, I do not deny that there is a pure friendship between men and women, because I have a similar experience, I and the other party do not like each other, but the relationship is very good, this kind of man is generally called "male girlfriend".

I met this opposite sex when I first worked, almost all of my colleagues in the company department are outsiders, but only I am local, such as some childhood anecdotes when I was a child, food culture, and living environment will be more similar, so there will be more places for the two of us to resonate, and there will be more topics to talk about, and now a few years have passed, she is also married and has children, and we also have our own lives, but we are still relatively good friends.

Having said that, whether there are feelings other than love between two people of the opposite sex, 80% has been laid from the beginning of the acquaintance of two people, and the real dislike from the beginning to the back of the like are rare, in a word, if you like a person, you have already liked it, if you don't like a person, it is destined to not spark, the above is my personal opinion, I hope to help more people!

First of all, what is affection?

Both parties know that no matter what happens, they will not leave the affection like a loved one.

I think there is.

Friends - good friends - close friends - friendship above lovers are not satisfied - unwilling but helpless - want to try but afraid of losing them all So you choose to stay by his side as a friend and a relative At this time, you have already experienced a lot of things You know what it means with a look on both sides You think it is enough to be at least able to stay with him all the time.

With purpose and unwilling to evolve into family affection.

Because I just had a friend of the opposite sex. I'm a freshman, a native of the south, and he's a northwestern. Two months ago, we both joined the college's track and field team, met during training before the sports meeting, and confirmed the relationship a month ago (hee-hee, don't be surprised, for me the relationship between the opposite sex must be confirmed, what if you treat him well and he misunderstands, besides, I don't want to play ambiguous, my goal is very clear, that is, I want to find a friend), because there are rumors that the two of us are tired, so I confessed to him, I just want to find a deep friend of the opposite sex, and I don't have a "non-dividing thought" about him.

He agreed. Now, the two of them get along very well, and they won't stick to anything. When the weather was fine, I told him to dry the quilt.

When it's cold, let him pay attention to the humidity in the south. When the exam is approaching, I review with him, and sometimes he takes the initiative to buy me snacks.

If you want to eat fruit, if he has it, ask him to bring it to me, if not, if he happens to be in the store, let me bring it to me. Wait a minute. This year, he is 18 years old, and I sent him a blessing when I reminded him on QQ of his birthday, and he said that he actually had a lunar birthday.

He also said that in previous years, birthdays were spent with his family, and then I said that my parents never remembered, even the eighteenth birthday, and he warmly comforted me. Later, sometimes running was a chance encounter, so we ran together, and sometimes we met by chance with a courier, so we chatted along the road. At first, I just thought that the two of us were very fateful, but later I learned that he also worked out every day, participated in the school's martial arts association (it will bleed in actual combat), and felt his strong manhood, so I didn't want to lose such a great friend.

After that, I paid a lot of attention to him, and later confessed to him that I wanted to be friends with him for life. Thinking that it was almost his adult birthday (among the people he knew in college, I guess I was the only one who remembered his real birthday so deeply), so I prepared a birthday present for him. On his birthday, it was very late in the evening, I called him down from the dormitory to celebrate his birthday, he looked confused and surprised, went to the back mountain (singles forbidden place), sang a birthday song to him, accompanied him to light candles, made a wish, we sat on the stone bench in the grove, he talked a lot about his hometown, until the dormitory was about to close.

He talked a lot about his hometown until the dorm was about to close. He said that it felt like I was his relative in a foreign land. I feel like he's like my old man from the north.

At the age of eighteen, I gave him a special birthday as a relative, which may be the kind of "family affection" that the subject said! It really exists!

There should be very little family affection, but I believe that there is such an existence, but ordinary people will not have it.

However, there is a pure friendship, a friendship like family affection.

You have a friend who has someone to give you advice when you have a problem, someone to relieve your stress and do your best to help you solve the problem.

The family affection I understand will never leave, and it really exists in your life and heart.

As for friends, if there is a big gap in economic strength, if you can't agree because of different life experiences, if you can't see each other for a long time because of practical reasons, it will eventually fade, and one day you will replace your circle of friends. Those who have been with you have also found new friends for themselves.

Fate decided that we couldn't get together.

We don't know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident, and we don't know when it will be over, but it's enough for me to have fun with you today.

Life is sad, such friends accompany me, even after work we will be scattered all over the world for a long time, but occasionally recall the time when friends and friends were by my side, my heart is full of warmth.

In the lonely years that followed, some memories of the night when no one was around were enough for me to get through those fragile and uneasy moments.

Under certain circumstances, there is pure friendship between men and women, and they have long regarded each other as a part of their lives, and there is even a certain amount of family affection in friendship.

Regarding such a result, although many people do not particularly believe in it, this is a real battle, and in life, I believe that many people have also seen cases like this, some people say that Yang Zi and Zhang Yishan are like this, but some people feel that there is love between them.

But no matter what, they are now getting along like relatives, the two of them have grown up together, experienced a lot of things together, and fell in love with each other, I believe that there is friendship and affection between them, after all, they are only children, so it is reasonable to treat each other as their own relatives.

In fact, there are many such feelings in the entertainment industry, such as the well-known Li Bingbing and Ren Quan, a long time ago, everyone hoped that they could be together, because everyone knew that the two of them were good friends, had cooperated many times, and interacted with each other.

It's just that now they are older, but they never thought of coming together, you just like Xiao Xianrou, and Ren Quan has always been single.

No matter what, it is impossible for them to become a family in this life, but the friendship between them is real, maybe after getting along for so many years, there is also family affection between them.

Summary. Hello dear, I personally think that the friendship between the opposite sex is a degree of advance and retreat.

Hello dear, I personally think that the friendship between the opposite sex is a degree of advance and retreat.

Not too intimate and not too distant.

For example, watching movies and playing games together, it's not that you can't do it, it just depends on the situation.

If two people don't have lovers, it's okay to do this kind of thing together, but if there are lovers, it's not okay to be so intimate together, which is considered a degree of advance and retreat.

And the two sides will not play ambiguous, even if they rub the edges, they will not play.

There are no secrets between each other, they will talk about everything and listen to each other, they all know each other's interests and hobbies, and they usually want to chat with each other when they go to work, which means that the friendship has deteriorated and transcends the relationship between ordinary friends.

Two people go out to play together, go out on a trip together, share the secrets of two people, if there are these behaviors, it means that the relationship between two people has deteriorated.

Two people will often go out to eat together, go out to movies together, and often have some intimate contact, will often stay alone together, and will spend the night at each other's homes.

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