What can t be changed is fate, will you hand over happiness to time?

Many of us will say that everything is fate, but in fact, we all know very well that happiness actually needs to be actively fought for by yourself. If you really leave everything to time, you really don't have a chance, when will we make such a decision! It's when there's no hope.

I remember talking to a friend about this earlier, and I said, "Forget it, just leave it to time!" It will work out naturally.

I've really always thought so, and that's what I do, and my friend replied to me, "If you think it's beautiful, time won't help you solve these things!" It's just going to save it for you, and you'll have to do it yourself when the time comes.

I really had an epiphany in an instant, maybe on the surface, this can really help me solve a lot of problems, but in fact, you know that the symptoms are not the root cause, don't try to fool around, and there are many consequences that you need to bear yourself. If we can, we still have to hold the decision of everything in our own hands, only then will you not let the trajectory of your life deviate without limit. <>

We can change the current state with our own efforts, please don't doubt this, okay? This practice of giving happiness to time is extremely irresponsible. It's our own business, so why not do it ourselves!

Whatever the outcome, I want you to know that it's not wise. Calculate that through our own efforts, in the end, there is still no way to deal with all the problems we have to face, at least you don't regret it, do you? <>

If you really leave it to time, maybe you will think that if you were taking the initiative at that time, you would not be like this now. This kind of thought will always linger in your mind, lingering, in short, think carefully and take responsibility for your own life.

Emotional things can not be forced, after all, the twisted melon will not be sweet, if there is no fate, it is good to get together and disperse, if it cannot be changed, I will give happiness to time, and it will always come that belongs to me.

I will do this, because it is useless to force it, and it is best to test it through time.

No. I usually control my own happiness, and I work harder on top of it.

I will hand over happiness to time, I think the world of feelings really depends on fate, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

Leave everything to time and fate I think the meaning of this sentence is that every woman wants to meet a beloved and hold hands with her for a lifetime.

Relatively speaking, women "hate to marry," when they reach a certain age, they will always hope to meet someone they like and be with him forever, while men are not necessarily, their character is destined to want to be free, whenever the topic of marriage is discussed, they may also escape, and at this time you should understand his mind.

In fact, it's not that a man doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you, and what he says "not ready" or "wait a little longer" is just a perfect excuse to drag it out.

But if you really want to marry your man, his performance will be different, maybe the two will only get along for a while, and he will start to introduce you to relatives and friends in a hurry.

Whether a man wants to marry you or not, just look at the details of your relationship, really!

1. See if he is willing to make your relationship public.

If a man is not even willing to make your relationship public, then he must not love you enough, he may just treat you as a spare tire in his heart, maybe one day he meets a more suitable one, and he no longer needs you, and such a man will not want to marry you and will not give you the future you want.

If you understand this, it's better to stop the loss in time, don't fall deeper and deeper and make yourself sad.

2. See if he will take you to see your relatives and friends.

Actually, this is quite similar to an open relationship, but it is different, if he opens up about your relationship in front of other people, but hides it in front of his relatives and friends, then there is still a problem.

In love, don't listen to what he says, but see what he does, don't want to marry your man, the attitude is obvious.

3. See if he is willing to pay for you.

A man who loves you and is willing to change himself for you, a man who loves you and is willing to pay for you.

Those men who always only think about themselves and never think about each other's feelings, they don't really want to be with you, all he wants is an obedient and sensible girlfriend who is completely obedient to him, and as for giving, let alone paying.

Maybe you have paid for him ten times, but he has not paid for you once, and he will feel that your contribution is taken for granted, and such a man does not really want to marry you.

You have to understand that if his heart is all about you, and he wants to be with you all the time, he must be willing to pay for you, whether it is money or other aspects, as long as you say it, he is willing to do it for you.

If you want to know if a man really wants to marry you, just look at these details.

Instead of listening to him say "I love you," it is better to look at his actual actions, if he really wants to be with you, he will naturally be eager to take you to meet your parents, meet his friends, he will tell others about your relationship early in the morning, and he is willing to change himself for you and work hard.

And if he just talks about it but never does anything, then you should also think carefully about whether this person is suitable for you at this time.

That is to say, it is useless to think too much, maybe you sometimes think differently than you do, so just leave everything to time and fate, and let it happen naturally.

It's just about letting things be.