Why would migrant workers rather starve to death than work at relatives homes?

As the rural saying goes, "Rely on your parents at home, and rely on your friends when you go out"!Friends in rural areas go out to work, relying on mutual help and care between friends and relatives. In real life, some people have become bosses, and some relatives and friends have taken refuge, which is a good thing for each other.

And the final ending is always a little embarrassing! Why is this so?

Many peasants have worked for relatives and friends. All have a deep understanding of working for relatives, in one word, really "tired". Working for a relative, I feel that the Venerable Master has rewarded you with food and given you a lucrative job; You have to be grateful, you have to take the lead and work hard, and you can't have any complaints!

When busy, outsiders can do whatever they want without working overtime; I still have to work overtime for free and unconditionally, and I will give you a face anytime and anywhere, it is not okay to do less, and you should do more. You take it for granted that you do well, and even the slightest mistake will not work.

As the old saying goes: "Relatives don't share wealth, and wealth doesn't come together"! If there is a monetary exchange between relatives, they are destined to be not far from the enemy.

It's best not to have anything to do with relatives and friends, otherwise it's faster to turn your face than to turn a book, and it's a matter of time before you turn your face. The ancient precept has long been in the same sentence.

Working for relatives, both parties have some illusions in their subconscious; The part-time worker thinks that I am here for you, and it is not a big deal to do less and get more money; And the employer always thinks that when relatives come, they should do more than others, and say a few words about you, I treat you as my own family, it doesn't matter!

Both sides have these misplaced thoughts in their heads. The contradictions naturally become acute, the grievances slowly accumulate, and one day they will explode, and it is common for them to turn against each other! As the saying goes:

You can't learn real skills from your own people, and you have to learn art from outsiders; If outsiders scold you, you won't hold a grudge!

In fact, I personally believe that working for relatives should have a flat mentality, mutual understanding, and a clear distinction between public and private; Your dignity and bottom line should be clear. Nothing is absolute, there are all kinds of people, and there are relatives who get along well with each other, help each other, and support each other. There are countless examples!

First of all, you have to look at the character of your relatives. When you are the boss, relatives and friends help you work; Everyone should respect each other and work as one. If you are a boss, you should not be afraid of doing good things to your own people, be kind to your relatives, and pay more than outsiders.

Relatives will work very hard. Business will also get bigger and bigger. As the saying goes, fertilizer and water do not flow into the fields of outsiders, if one day, he deceives me and eats me, he is also his own person.

If you change someone else and deceive yourself, I'm afraid you won't even vomit bones!

Of course, people don't have the same ideas! No matter where farmers work, mentality is the most important. No matter what work you do, you feel satisfied, the salary is okay, and the boss is good, just do it; If you don't feel comfortable one day, you can leave. Don't always be psychologically burdened with a love debt!

You're all wrong, you'll be tired to death at a relative's house, thankless efforts, and there are too many white-eyed wolves.

There is no need to be honest and angry.

Because I work at a relative's house, even if I work more, my relatives will not like me, and it will also affect the feelings of my relatives.

Maybe it's because it's hard to talk about wages when you work at a relative's house, or it's hard to open your mouth when you ask for money.

How embarrassing, his relatives are his objects of comparison, he has not lived a good life, and he has to be reduced to going to work at his relatives' house. It's not good to live such a life at all, it's better to live your own life

The reason why I don't work for my relatives when I die poor is because of the difference in mentality.

One is a wage earner, and the other is a boss! The difference in identity creates a difference in mentality! The boss has the boss's ideas, and the workers have the ideas of the workers!

If the two can tolerate each other, then everything will be fine! If the two are slightly out of sync, the resentment between each other will accumulate over time, and one day there will be sparks and explode instantly; There is only one result, they have a falling out, and they don't get along with each other!

Most bosses will have a sense of superiority, thinking that if you come to work with me, it is to look down on you and give face to your parents or other relatives! I treat you as my own family, you should take the lead in doing the dirty work, you should rush to do it, don't have any complaints! As for the salary!

Well said, well said!

As a migrant worker working with relatives and friends, I work here, and I, like others, have also paid hard work; Wages and rest periods should also be treated the same as others. It doesn't matter if you have time to help with some extra things! However, it always takes up my rest time for a long time, and everything seems to be done as if it is the right thing to do!

If you don't do it once, you will be unhappy, which will increase the pressure in your heart, and it will be awkward and uncomfortable!

Working for relatives and friends, in the subconscious of both parties, there are some illusions that people have; Migrant workers think that I am here for you, and it is not difficult to take more money and take care of you with less effort; And the employer also thinks that we are relatives, right? Since you are here, you should take the lead in doing more than others, talk about you, scold you a few times, I treat you as my own family, it doesn't matter!

Why do most people have some unpleasant things happen when they work with relatives and friends? Mainly because part-time workers and bosses are always two opposing classes! Relatives are no exception!

Many migrant workers feel that it is better to work for outsiders than to work for relatives. The salary is negotiable, the rest time is easy to say, and a little contradiction can be argued for and reasonably resolved. It's different to work for relatives, you can't say anything, it's your thousand and ten thousand!

Working for relatives, it's nothing to be hard and tired! The most important thing is that in the eyes of your relatives, it is he who rewards you with a bowl of rice to eat, and it is he who gives you the opportunity to work! As for you, be grateful to Dade forever and ever!

Actually, whether you are a boss or a wage earner! Have a good attitude with each other and respect each other! Treat each other as friends and compare hearts to hearts! It's going to be fun! None of that is a problem!

Although the above views are not comprehensive, they are a little biased! But the wage earner and the boss have their own needs and needs! Some people just want to do less work, do easy things and go to relatives and friends; If this kind of person's demands are not met, they are naturally dissatisfied!

Some bosses are dedicated to their own people, and their hearts are black, and they wish everyone only worked, not money!

When we can't find a job, we always hope to be able to work with relatives so that we can earn some money, but in real life, most people recommend that we do not choose to work with relatives. First of all, the first point is the problem of psychological factors, some people may feel that they will be inferior if they work for relatives, and they can't hold their heads up, and they will feel very ashamed to say it in the future. And in the process of work, some people may get angry because their relatives don't take care of themselves, and feel that they are relatives anyway, which will lead to some gaps between them.

There may also be a problem with salary, when we work for relatives, we always feel that we are related by blood after all. They have a very close relationship, so at this time they should pay themselves more and should give themselves some less tiring positions. Sometimes, as a relative of the boss, we may be very strict in deducting everyone's salary, and as relatives, we will definitely feel that it is very difficult for others to give us a job, and we are not qualified to blame.

One of the most serious problems is that it is always easy to have some quarrels during the work process, because sometimes relatives may arrange a lot of work for us. And if everyone's work is busy, they will feel very irritable in their hearts, and feel that their relatives don't care about each other's special time relationship at all.

In fact, I think that if you are not forced to do it, don't choose to work for your relatives, save some problems and be very troublesome, if everyone, the two people are not awkward, then when we need each other, the other party may also choose to help us. And if you have a bad relationship with each other, then after the follow-up problems, we can't find this relative to help us. Therefore, don't choose to trouble your relatives for a little thing, so as to save the relationship between each other from being awkward.

is because there will be certain economic disputes when working for relatives, which will make the relationship between the two families worse; The relationship deteriorates, and the communication cannot be done well, which hurts the face of the two families, changes their thinking, impairs the efficiency of the other party, and makes their temper worse.

The main thing is that you will be taken care of by others, and there is no way to mention it in person in terms of salary increase, which will affect the relationship between relatives. It is not conducive to one's own growth, will take into account various factors, will also affect the individual's mentality, and will also cause certain contradictions, which is not conducive to the summary of professional experience.

If you work for your relatives, it will affect the relationship between two people, and it will also cause unnecessary conflicts, and you will be very uncomfortable at work, and you will be embarrassed when there is an economic dispute.

Migrant workers must act according to people's faces when they are working, especially the faces of their bosses. If migrant workers work for their relatives, it means that they will have to look at their relatives' faces in the future, and many migrant workers have no way to accept it. In fact, the migrant workers themselves also rely on their own ability to answer the source, so there is no need to be inferior to their relatives, and many migrant workers themselves are also very strong, and they will definitely not suffer from this anger.

Migrant workers work in order to earn more money to support their families, so before working for others, they must talk about it first, if they can talk, then they will naturally work for the other party, but if they can't talk, then give up. But if migrant workers are working for relatives, many people are embarrassed to talk about it because of this relationship, and they are even embarrassed to collect money after the work is done. If the other party does not take the initiative to give money after the work is done, most people will not be able to pull down the initiative to ask for money, which is actually the reason why many migrant workers are reluctant to work for their relatives.

In fact, there is no difference between migrant workers themselves and others, but if they work for relatives, they will inevitably be looked down upon by their relatives, and even relatives will feel that they are an employee under him, and they may not be able to raise their heads in front of their relatives at that time, which is also what many farmers do not want to see. <>

To sum up, it is actually reasonable for migrant workers to be reluctant to work for their relatives, and many migrant workers themselves are also very backbone, no matter whether they earn more or less money, they are unwilling to be angry, and they don't like others to talk nonsense behind their backs. In fact, as far as I am concerned, I don't recommend working for relatives, because once the interests are involved, the delicate relationship between relatives seems to change, and this change is also something that many people don't want to see.

Because if they work for their relatives, the relatives won't give them money, and they are embarrassed to speak. It will become free labor.

Helping relatives to work a lot will cause a lot of unnecessary trouble.

If you work for the other party, you will feel very uncomfortable, and the other party will bully you in life, and the relationship between the two people will become very bad and not good.

In fact, everyone is an independent individual, and they all have their own personality and style of doing things. If your relative is a responsible person, then he will also take it seriously at work. Because I have a strong family concept, I will also be willing to support you and help you.

But if he is a person with a strong personality and selfishness, you must be careful. Because such a person will put his own interests first, and will not pay attention to feelings at all.

Many people think that it is convenient to work in a relative's company. There is the care of relatives, but it will not be arranged too badly. But if you think about it another way, you actually have more things to worry about.

Not only do you meet at the company, but also at private family gatherings. In fact, this kind of relationship is very embarrassing, it may be a loss of face, and it will not tell the other party what you really think.

Precautions for part-time jobs

1. If a person does not have any friends and relatives to introduce, it is best to go to the formal labor market or human resources market to find a job. Try not to go to an employment agency to prevent being deceived and paying money for an unsatisfactory job.

2. Look for a job and keep your eyes open, ask for all kinds of deposits, deposits, and seize all kinds of documents, so as not to go back to the trouble of returning documents in the future.

3. Unfamiliar enterprises can check the company's law-abiding operation on the Internet, and the registration information and business status of the enterprise can be found on the Internet.

4. When you go out to work, it is important to ask more questions and think more, and to have a good relationship with the people around you.

5. Don't ask too much if you don't have experience when you just come out, find a job and work hard to do it well, and it's very important to learn a craft.