Why boys are reluctant to make it public in their circle of friends

Now when we open a social platform casually, we will find that there are ** and texts everywhere that show affection and abuse single dogs. This is also a very normal phenomenon, when two couples are together, they will hope to witness each other's love in this way, and at the same time, they can also reap the blessings of friends on both sides, the best of both worlds. In fact, there are some boys who are unwilling to ** each other's love affair in the process of falling in love with girls.

This situation will occur because the boys themselves have less social interaction and don't care about these so-called shows of affection. It is also possible that the boy has some hidden secrets in his heart. 1.

A boyfriend is the kind of person who is more introverted and less social.

Some boys are more introverted and don't have many friends, so they usually have very little time to play on these social platforms. Over time, you will develop the habit of not posting moments and space. After having a girlfriend and falling in love, this habit will still be maintained.

Of course, it is also possible that the boys themselves are more busy with their own lives and careers and will not waste too much time on these social platforms. He thinks that the relationship between you can feel the sweetness in reality, and there is no need to share it with others. To some extent, the most important thing in love is the feelings of the two of you, and it has nothing to do with others.

2.The boy has a hidden secret in his heart.

The girl who encounters this situation is not so lucky, this guy is likely to be a complete scumbag, and he is afraid that other girls will find out after announcing your relationship to the circle of friends. He was afraid that he would not have the opportunity to mess around with flowers and grass everywhere. There is an even more terrible situation that is that it is deceiving your feelings, and if you are not treated very sincerely, it will naturally not make your feelings public.

When this happens, the best thing a girl can do is to pick out what you think to the guy and see how he does it. If it's the former, the guy will naturally consider your feelings, and even if he doesn't like it, he will post some updates, while the latter will naturally keep running away.

1. I don't feel familiar with you.

If you and a guy are new to each other, then he doesn't let you watch the circle of friends purely because you don't know each other. For example, if I have colleagues who I don't know much about adding me to WeChat, I won't give them permission to Moments. After all, we are not friends, so why did we give you permission to circle friends?

The circle of friends is actually a small world of life for boys themselves, and not everyone can snoop on it.

2. Maybe I'm a little angry with you in my heart, or I don't want to go down with you.

Meaning he may not want you to interfere too much in his life When a man suddenly blocks his circle of friends from you, it means that he may not want you to interfere or meddle in his life too much. When a man is no longer willing to have more intersections and collisions with you in life, it means that he begins to gradually alienate you. Only when a man is tired or disgusted with you in his heart will he do this to you.

3. It doesn't matter if you delete it or not, I don't want you to know him.

If a person blocks you but doesn't delete you, that person thinks it doesn't matter if you delete it or not, because the other party doesn't intend to have an intersection with you, even if you are among the other party's friends, the other party just treats you as a netizen and is just a stranger. And the other party doesn't mind not deleting you, the other party blocks you because he doesn't let you know him and follow him, and the other party won't chat with you at all, and he won't be interested in you.

Privacy and security considerations: Boyfriends may be concerned that disclosing personal information on social networks may bring security issues such as harassment, privacy breaches, and more.

Don't like your life: Boyfriends may not like to be socially open about their personal lives, including their relationship status. This may have something to do with his personality, lifestyle, or educational background.

If you are concerned about why your boyfriend is reluctant to disclose it in his circle of friends, you can have an open and honest conversation with him, try to understand his feelings and concerns, and find solutions together. At the same time, you can also express your thoughts and needs to talk about slag, and jointly ** how to better express your feelings and interactions under the premise of protecting privacy.

1.Privacy Protection. The boyfriend may feel that the relationship between two people is a private matter and does not want to make this information public, maintaining a certain amount of privacy.

2.Social pressure. The boyfriend may be worried that going public about the relationship will attract attention and ridicule from others, which will cause him a certain amount of social stress and unease.

3.Fear and anxiety. Morning friends may be afraid to make their relationship public, which can increase the responsibility and pressure between him and his girlfriend, making him feel uneasy and afraid.

1.Express your point of view gently. You can tell your boyfriend that you feel neglected or unvalued, and at the same time try to understand his point of view and communicate with him.

2.Share your own motivations and feelings. You can tell your boyfriend why you want to be in a relationship public, such as sharing your happiness and true feelings, and making the relationship public in your circle of friends will make you proud and happy.

3.Discuss possible solutions. Discuss with your boyfriend how you can make your relationship public in your circle of friends, such as posting some special ** or stories to make the relationship more meaningful and memorable.

4.Give your boyfriend some time. If your boyfriend is reluctant to open up about the relationship, you can give him some time to get used to the idea and open up about the relationship at a more natural time.

Most importantly, in communication and resolution, you can give your boyfriend enough respect and understanding, express your needs and ideas, and at the same time try to understand your boyfriend's smile point of view and get on the same page with him.

1.Protecting the psychology of privacy.

Male friends may feel that making their privacy public in the circle of friends may attract the attention or even ridicule of others, and even worry about being taken advantage of. As a result, they will be more inclined to protect their privacy.

2.Lack of self-confidence.

Boyfriends may be unconfident and unsure whether their words or actions will be recognized, approved or accepted. They are afraid of being ridiculed, criticized, and questioned because of this, so they choose to remain silent.

3.Not good at talking about psychology.

Boyfriends may not be good at expressing their thoughts and emotions in public. They may be afraid that their words will be distorted, misunderstood, or cause unnecessary controversy by others, so they choose to prefer to remain silent.

4.Uncertain relationship psychology.

Boyfriends may have an uncertain relationship mentality: they fear that an open relationship will cause unnecessary stress or responsibility on themselves or their partner. They may fear onlookers, evaluations, and interference from their suitors, or even fear losing their sovereignty.

In conclusion, it is common to have various psychological problems in romantic relationships. If you're looking to solve a problem, it's a good idea to be open and honest with your boyfriend to clear up misunderstandings and insecurities and find a way to solve the problem.

Your boyfriend never makes your relationship public in his friends, which means that he doesn't want to openly admit your girlfriend's identity in his friends, and he wants to have a chance with other girls. For such a boyfriend, it is recommended that you and your boyfriend have an angry conversation to see if the other party is willing to disclose your relationship in the circle of friends, and if the other party cannot give a proper reason for laughing, then it is recommended to break up.

1. It is reasonable not to disclose the relationship in the circle of friends.

There is a situation that is more reasonable, that is, your boyfriend does not use WeChat much, and he usually does not post moments on WeChat, or his social circle is not concentrated on WeChat, it may be concentrated on QQ or other social software, or he thinks that this matter will not affect your relationship, and he feels that it is unnecessary not to disclose your relationship in the circle of friends. In this case, it is completely possible to communicate with your boyfriend once, let him know that you mind this matter, and believe that your boyfriend, if he really loves you, will be happy to disclose your relationship in the circle of friends.

2. Reluctance to disclose the identity of his girlfriend.

It is more common that if your boyfriend does not disclose your relationship in the circle of friends, Kima is unwilling to admit that you are his girlfriend in his social circle. Because of this hunger, he feels that there is no need to introduce you to the people around him as his girlfriend, because in case of a different person in the future, he must not reintroduce you, and if the change time is very short, it will seem that he is very attentive, and he is completely leaving a way back for himself, so he is unwilling to disclose the identity of your girlfriend. The main reason is that because you are his girlfriend, it may not last long.

3. Have an affair with other girls.

There are also some scummy men who will date several girls at the same time, but he can't disclose your identity in the circle of friends, otherwise other women will know that he will destroy his image in the minds of other women, and also destroy the social network he has established. Such men are advised to stay away as soon as possible.

2.Don't like to show off: Some people don't like to boast too much about their love life, and they don't like to post too much intimacy on their circle of friends. Perhaps he thinks it's not only unnecessary, it's not low-key enough.

3.Fear of being occupied: Your boyfriend may be afraid that once you open up about your relationship, then you will occupy all of his time and space. He hopes to still be able to maintain his life circle, friends, and hobbies.

4.Uncertain relationship: Your boyfriend may not be completely sure of your relationship, and he may still be thinking about whether to make it public.

In this case, give him some time and space, let his own macro slowly think about clearing the void and breaking the faith, and maybe eventually he will choose to open up about your relationship with the chakras on the circle of friends.

It should be noted that the above are only some possible causes, and the specific situation needs to be further understood. It is recommended that you communicate well with your boyfriend, listen to his ideas, and also express your thoughts and feelings to find a solution together.

What kind of stuffy shouting Kai psychology is it that the boyfriend is always reluctant to make public in the infiltrated circle of friends, then he may think that you are not his most ideal girlfriend, only his most ideal He treats you as a treasure, and I see you still chasing him every day, pinching it in your hand for fear of falling off, so that you are a real girl, and it should be a great thing for a woman to get the love of a man.

Social phobia: Some people are afraid to present themselves or interact with others in public because of social phobia. Boyfriends may be reluctant to do so because they feel uncomfortable openly in their circle of friends or are stressed out by wheel-bumpers.

Conservative stereotypes: In some cultural and social contexts, openly romantic relationships are seen as inappropriate or inappropriate. Boyfriends may be subject to the shadow of these traditional beliefs and are reluctant to make it public in the circle of friends.

Conflicted relationship states: Boyfriends may have ambivalent relationship states, such as problems with their sense of identity and trust in the relationship. He may be reluctant to make the relationship public in his circle of friends because he believes that doing so will increase the instability of the relationship or expose his own uncertainty.

Generally, your boyfriend is reluctant to post on Moments publicly, there will only be two situations, one is that he doesn't love you, and the other is that he doesn't like to post Moments. Some people just don't like to post the circle of friends, it's not that they don't post about your circle of friends, but they usually don't like to post moments themselves, if she has introduced you to the friends around him, what does it matter if you don't post it to the circle of friends? Of course, if he doesn't post on Moments, and doesn't take you to meet his friends, then there is a problem, at this time, you can directly ask him the reason, don't think about it yourself.

may have something to do with his low-key and introverted personality, he doesn't like publicity, and he doesn't want others to know that he has a girlfriend, because he is not sure if this relationship will come to fruition.

It is understandable that the circle of friends is not public in the early stage of love, and the relationship is still uncertain and unstable, but if it has not been made public for a year, two years or even three years, it is really very problematic, and you will find it really boring later, as if you are doing something unseemly, and there will be a lot less sincerity if you don't make it public, he has reservations, he is leaving a way back for himself, you are not the best person in his heart, otherwise he will want everyone to know, no need to send a lot, one is enough, public is an attitude expressed to the other party, Take this relationship seriously and be willing to give you enough sincerity and security.

Love you will naturally be announced, announced love has a sense of security, undisclosed love is always a spare tire, unannounced love is always giving others a chance.

Some people feel that they don't need it, it's just a relationship, there is no need to advertise it, and it is equivalent to leaving a way back for themselves.

Friends around me often quarrel because of "whether to post a circle of friends or not", in fact, in the eyes of many girls, posting a circle of friends is the first step for boys to admit you!

In fact, the boy's refusal of a girl's request to post a circle of friends is actually nothing more than that: there are colleagues, customers and leaders at work in the circle of friends, and they are embarrassed to post such a message in the circle of friends, and they feel that it is not appropriate.

And I think that such a reason, he can't be an excuse for you not to post on Moments.

I have a friend around me who has been dating her boyfriend for more than a year. The boy has never revealed his love affair in the circle of friends. For more than a year, friends have always been knocking on the side, hoping that boys can announce their love in the circle of friends.

Even if you don't post a photo of the two, you just vaguely say that you are off the list. But the boy still didn't agree, the reason is: there are too many leaders and colleagues in the circle of friends, which is not suitable.

Over time, friends naturally don't talk about it, but there is always a gap.