Those who just want to win can t win, and those who don t want to lose win win What does this mean?

It should be understood in this way:

The person who just wants to win, that is, he wants to get everything and does not fix everything else at all, which also means that this person is carried away by interests and completely controlled by impulses!

People who don't want to lose, unlike the former, he doesn't just want to win, he just doesn't want to lose, because this kind of person often wants to prove that he can through his own efforts after trying the painful experience of failure! So he would not want to lose such a thing from the bottom of his heart!

In general, if you want to get something, don't try to achieve what you want by all means, it should be like that, even if you get it, it is not what you want, and you will never get what you really want! (Can't win!) So, if you want to win, then use your own efforts to prove your name to others!

I'm sure you don't want to lose!!

Maybe I've said so much, but you still can't fully understand it, but this thing should be slowly appreciated

And finally: if you want to win! Just experience it with your heart!

The more you try to understand the meaning of this sentence, the more you don't understand. But if you don't look at the surface and experience this sentence with your heart, you will understand one day! ）

Good luck!!

Even if you are still far from the goal, only continuous efforts may lead to the final victory!

Intentionally planting flowers and flowers do not live, and unintentionally planting willows and willows into the shade.

In fact, it means that when we look at things, we should not be too utilitarian, and sometimes we pay too much attention to the results, which will make us become anxious, and we will have bad judgments when doing things.

It is also an attitude that tells us to do things with a normal heart, not to be happy with things, and not to be sad about ourselves.

But if we have to say that when we do something, we can push ourselves into a corner, and we will lose anyway, so we can let go of something and do our best, which is what it means.

I don't know if it's right, I see it this way, I hope it can help you!

It is recommended to read Buddhism when you are fine, which is good for self-cultivation.

Those who want to win lose, and those who don't want to win lose.

Those who can't afford to lose can never win, and this statement is actually quite true. This is what we often call affordability! Affordability is really important.

Of course, many things are not about losing, but also about experiencing them. It is what we often say that it is better to read thousands of books than to travel thousands of miles, it is better to read countless people than to read thousands of people, and it is better to have a famous teacher to guide the way. This sentence seems to have come full circle and returned to square one.

In fact, the famous teachers in the guidance of the famous teachers here refer to people with more experience and more experience.

In life, we often find those children who study well, they can't withstand the blows. Since childhood, they have studied well, whether teachers or parents hold them in the palm of their hands, teachers spoil them, and they are used to it at home, and everything is smooth.

But as long as something happens, they can't afford to withstand the setback, they will drill the horns, and even change their temperament. And what about those children who don't study well? Scolding by teachers, beating by parents, and even ridicule from others make these children accustomed to it, and they have a good attitude in the face of blows and setbacks later in life.

Just like we say that the children of the poor are in charge of their families early, they have experienced difficulties and setbacks, and they have failed, but these experiences have forced them to stand up because of life.

And what about the kids who are having a good day? They have never experienced these things, which makes their hearts fragile, and as long as they fall, they will never be able to stand up again.

Of course, it is said that those who can't afford to lose will never win, and it also talks about age. Many children from rural areas, or children from poor families, have no backing, and the only backing is themselves.

They started from part-time work, accumulated a little savings, began to do some small business on their own, these transactions will have losses and wins, because he can afford to lose, after experiencing these failures, their failures have grown, and gradually embarked on success, and when they are forty or fifty years old, they will reach the age of not being able to lose, the old and the young, they dare not fight easily. This is often said to be young and not failing.

And some people with good family background, his starting point is relatively high, and the business he started to do is bigger than others, once he experiences setbacks and failures, the economic loss is relatively large, and at the same time, because of the bad mentality, it also leads to a slump.

But in general, whether you can afford to lose or can't win, it really depends on the living conditions. The poor cannot afford to lose and have to fight because they have something to rely on. Some rich people may not fight because they have something to rely on!

People who can't afford to lose can never win, in fact, I personally think this sentence must make sense Because everyone's pattern determines your success or failure, that is, you haven't found it in life? Those who have a larger pattern of morality tend to succeed because they are not informal, they have a broader mind, and they are not afraid of failure, so they can bravely take responsibility and mission, while those who are narrow-minded and can't afford to lose, their pattern is smaller, so they can't win.

Because this kind of person has a very narrow mentality and can't listen to other people's opinions at all, he will never win.

Those who can't afford to lose are often very narrow-minded, and especially self-righteous people, maybe people like them will never really recognize their own shortcomings, know why they lose to others, so it is difficult for them to really improve.

Because it is difficult for this kind of person to accept failure, this kind of person is often narrow-minded, and cannot allow others to succeed or surpass themselves, but this kind of person is also bored by most people, and this kind of person often does not get the help of friends, so it is difficult to achieve great things.

Losing itself is unavoidable, and you can only succeed if you lose and are not willing to fail. If you don't sum up your experience in losing, how can you win if you practice again? Therefore, if you lose, you will be slumped, and those who cannot afford to lose will never win.

Because he can't bear the result of failure, as long as he loses once, he will be hit hard, this kind of person just has experienced too little, it would be good to experience more.

Because this type of person does not dare to take the steps of life bravely, and will always live in the shackles of his own creation.

Summary. Unable to win means that oneself is not virtuous enough to bear the material or favor received. If you lose, you are not capable enough or your fate is not good, and winning is not necessarily lucky, and it may bring disaster to yourself.

Unable to win means that one's virtue is not enough, and he cannot afford to get material or favors. If you lose, you are stupid or your fate is not good, and winning is not necessarily lucky, and it may bring disaster to yourself.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

For example, if you win a lot of money in a gambling fight, the people involved in the gambling will definitely be jealous and jealous, which is not good for you. For example, if you have the help of nobles and make a lot of money in a certain business, you are not organized in your heart when you face so much money for the first time, and you spend it indiscriminately, which may make you fall into bad habits and ruin your future.

Do you feel tired of life right now?

I think a lot of people will probably say tired. So why are you so tired? Maybe you will say that for life, for learning, for getting what you want.

But if you think about it, if we're tired, we can stop and rest, so why work so hard?

In fact, sometimes, we will not be willing to accept the status quo, and we will continue to work hard for those who can make our lives better, become better, and live a meaningful life.

But not everyone works hard for anything, and they may choose to give up because they are tired.

If someone asks them why they want to give up? And they feel like it's just because they're too tired. But when you are tired, you have to choose to give up, isn't it a pity, obviously what you want is right in front of you. And as long as you work hard, everything will be easy to get.

Therefore, as long as you dare to think, you must dare to act. Just like we always want to get first, because you desperately want to get it, so you will do everything you can to win it. Isn't that if you want to win, these are nothing?

Summary. Hello, I won people who shouldn't have won and lost people who shouldn't have lost. - The meaning of this sentence is: I may have won and succeeded in something, but I also lost and lost an important person.

I won people I shouldn't have won, and I lost people I shouldn't have lost. What do you mean.

Hello, I won people who shouldn't have won and lost people who shouldn't have lost. - The meaning of this sentence is: I may have won and succeeded in something, but I also lost and lost an important person.

Life is like this, there are gains and losses, and there are losses and gains. If you don't regret it when you get off the bus, you don't regret it when you start the story, and you have no regrets in life.

That's right. Let go when it's time to put it down, the future is still very long, you can't lose the present, and you lose the future.

Summary. What does it mean not to win a little?

I'm sorry I don't understand, but can you elaborate on that?

"Can't win a little" generally refers to the fact that in a certain situation, the other party's attitude or performance is not as positive, proactive or optimistic as they expected. This term is often used to describe an individual's emotional state, such as feeling lost, frustrated, helpless, or to describe a lack of motivation and surprise in a certain work, activity, plan, etc. In addition, on some occasions, "not winning a little" can also mean a humble, low-key, and unoverly ostentatious attitude, so as to avoid the disappointment of excessively high expectations, and to ensure the destruction of a normal mind, so as to better safeguard self-worth and human dignity.