Should I hold on to this relationship? Should I continue to hold on to this relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You! Give her time! When I started with my friend, it was also very strange!

    I won't let him touch me! He's depressed! But he talked to me!

    This is the time to communicate! Actually, there are some things that are nothing! Your communication must be in place!

    Don't guess at each other! Generally speaking, girls don't take the initiative! It could be that she is disgusted with such a thing!

    You can take the initiative to talk to her! Hehe, in fact, there is nothing, maybe you can't communicate properly!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe she used her mind to fall off the list, and she felt a little inferior, and now she doesn't have the heart to think about love. The current love can't stand the test, and you are still separated, so just let it be, this is the best choice! Don't expect anything from it, don't think too much, I'm sure everyone will eventually find the love that suits him best!

    Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I experienced this in high school.

    Now I feel like I was really naïve at the time.

    After all, we weren't mature at the time.

    A lot of things we look at very superficially.

    But that memory is really good.

    Will remember it for a lifetime. Fine.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you go to college, your outlook on love will change a lot.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There was a good memory that was once also worth it, at least when I think about it, there is an inexplicable feeling that I have enjoyed it and felt it.

    Sometimes the world is like this, including our lives, and we don't have to choose ourselves, we just have to be our own.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not worth it. She doesn't take you seriously at all. There is a cruel old saying. But I think it works. "Long pain is better than short pain"!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Want netizens to give you ideas? I don't think you dare to make your own choice, you don't want to take your own responsibility, and you're afraid that the result of your choice will not be good.

    There's nothing worth it! It's also an adult, measure it yourself, don't be afraid before you choose, and don't regret it after you choose! Be responsible for yourself and be responsible for others!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Who would have known that such a dishonest person.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is this love, I don't think it's love

    If it's me, I think I'll let go, you two need to talk about it, I think if you really don't love, then, let go of each other, it's best.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Isn't there a lot of beautiful women in college......?

    Why did you die on a tree?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe she is very wandering in her heart, I don't know if you care about her, so I don't dare to put too many feelings, I feel that I will lose my balance in the end, sometimes ask her what she thinks, maybe there will be a harvest, after all, it is not very simple to meet a person who wants to cherish him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Forget it, this kind of relationship is not mature enough, even if it is good now, it will definitely be divided in the future, because I have experienced such feelings before. I was in the position of your girlfriend, because I didn't do well in the exam, and you were admitted to a good university, this is a very complicated feeling, I ignored my boyfriend at that time, and it was my first love, I gave up.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Friend, love is a thing, some people are selfish, people are willing to pay, as long as one party is selfish, the other party will definitely pay, if everyone is selfish and does not pay, then this feeling will be vulnerable... Have you ever wondered why she broke up with you? Have you ever thought that you two are a couple, you did well in the exam, and she didn't do well, and you are going to college, and she has to repeat, if you want to repeat, will you not want to burden her? ?

    Friend, no one in this world knows anyone, maybe you can't understand yourself, just think about yourself from the perspective of others, I'm a bystander, and even the best people can't see what happens between the two of you, but I can tell you that I don't want to do things in my life that I'll regret after doing them, because we can't turn back time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's really an immature feeling.

    Maybe you haven't really given your feelings yet.

    I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing to break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A woman's heart is deep at the bottom of the sea, and dust returns to dust.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you're in a relationship that doesn't look favorable, the first thing you need to think about is how you really feel about the relationship. If you genuinely like the other person's wanton behavior and believe that the relationship has a future, then not being favored does not mean that it will fail.

    After all, love is tested and tribulated to be stronger.

    However, if you are feeling uneasy, uncertain, or unhappy in your relationship, then you should be cautious and consider whether or not to continue the relationship.

    Sometimes people choose a person who is not suitable for them for some reason (such as external pressure or their own fears), such a relationship has no future, and it will only make themselves and the other party more painful.

    Most importantly, you need to communicate openly and fully with your partner to understand each other's thoughts and feelings. Only then will the two of you be able to make further plans together and work towards future happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's not easy to generalize about this question, should you stick to this relationship? Only you know how heavy it is because of you. It's not easy to generalize about this question, should you stick to this relationship?

    Only you know what happened between you, Sun Jian, because of what happened between you, only you know what happened before, so you have to find the reason for what happened to you before, and then solve it, to judge Huisun.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Time is shallow, the years are safe and the time flows slowly forward like a clear stream, the years are understood because of experience, and life is wonderful because of knowing how to live.

    Classic quotes from the light time:

    1. If you just like it, why exaggerate it into love.

    2. Missing is a kind of mistake, if I am not careful, I will miss you, and a mistake is a lifetime.

    3. If he decides to leave, don't try to keep it. Will what is lost and found be restored to its original state? Don't be stupid, not at all.

    4. When two people are together, please bury the past together, because without each other's participation during that time, there is no value of nostalgia and nostalgia. The happiest memories should start from the day we were together.

    5. Life is the process of finding love, and everyone must find four people in their life: the first is themselves, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person who spends your life with you.

    6. What you can't forget is memories, what continues is life, and what you miss is as passing by.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Many people will have a heart-pounding love, this is love at first sight, when you meet someone you like, you have to be brave to pursue it, let him become your lover, but in the process of falling in love, many people often don't know how to do it, in order to make this love enter the palace of marriage for a long time, how to stick to this relationship?

    1. Don't maintain an ambiguous relationship with your friends of the opposite sex, so that your partner can rest assured.

    Many people have their own boyfriends or girlfriends, but they still can't change the way they used to be, some people have friends of the opposite sex, and they get closer to friends of the opposite sex when they don't have an object, everyone laughs and laughs, making others look like a couple, but they know that it is impossible for them to be with him, he is not the type he likes, but after having an object, it should be clear that your object may be more concerned about these, and may be jealous, which will affect the relationship between two people, In order to keep the relationship going, then maintain a certain sense of boundaries with your friends of the opposite sex, so that your partner feels that you are at ease and that you have to be measured.

    2. Maintain a certain sense of romance and keep the love of two people fresh.

    It is said that love needs to be kept fresh, and it is said that love needs to have a sense of ceremony, but many people are not clear about how to do it, some people usually never say I love you to each other, and want to confess when it comes to important days, but often when it is not yet that day, the other party can not feel your love, and has run far away, at this time it is too late for you to regret it, and it is too late to express love at any moment you want to express, do not hide your love, so that the other party can experience your true feelings.

    3. Take your other half to see your relatives and friends, so that he can find a sense of belonging.

    Some people have been in love for months, or even years, and they don't let each other see their relatives and friends, and the other party has no bottom in their hearts, I don't know what you think, don't you think of yourself as a real lover? Don't you want to marry yourself? If you recognize the other person, then take him to meet the parents.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In life, you should know how to tolerate each other, help each other, believe in each other, trust each other, and you should stick to a relationship when the other party needs you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When two people get along together, the most important thing is to maintain trust and mutual understanding of each other, don't always worry about the trivial things in life, especially don't mention the other party's ex and past life, these will make two people quarrel, and the more quarrels will affect the emotions of two people.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When two people fall in love, if they want to stick to a relationship, they must face their feelings fairly, think more about each other, and manage this relationship carefully, especially when there is a problem in the relationship, they must communicate with each other more, communicate more, and communicate more.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you are in love, you want to stick to a relationship, and I think the most important thing is to get along with two people. In ordinary times, we must care more about each other, strengthen ideological communication, and encounter problems. Don't be in a hurry, deal with it well, and try to think about the problem from each other's point of view.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When you are in love, you must choose the right person, and this kind of perseverance is meaningful, if so, then work together to pay. Trust the other person and do something that is good for the relationship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, two people should respect each other and understand each other, and then they also need to find common topics, common hobbies, and should communicate frequently, and then they should also travel more to create some good memories, and they should also go to play together, or go to eat food together, and they must solve problems as soon as they occur.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When two people are in love, they should tolerate each other, and be kind to each other, they can create some small surprises for each other, and two people do more things that each other likes to do, which can make the relationship better and better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello, love is originally a beautiful feeling shared by two people, but love always needs the joint efforts of two people to get better and better, and no one can continue to be in love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When you are in love, you can manage this relationship well, you can understand each other more and communicate more, solve any problems in time, and be more tolerant when you get along.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Two people should be loyal to each other, should trust each other, don't be ambiguous with others, trust each other, give each other privacy, and don't be too strong.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Believe me, no one is completely independent, everyone has their own weak side.

    If you really love her, and she loves you too, don't care too much, love a person to love her all, if you can't do it, let go as soon as possible, two people come together is a lifelong responsibility, you have to live with her for a lifetime, not your parents. You can listen to your parents for everything, but you must stick to your own path in your feelings. If you give up now, when your marriage is not happy in the future, you will still wonder if it would be better if you didn't listen to your parents in the first place.

    Trust your instincts and don't complain even if the end result is unsatisfactory.

    You said that everything you have been given by your parents since you were a child, and I think you also hope to exchange your own efforts for the life and happiness you want, try to fight for it. You will find that she is especially dear to you. She will also stay for you because of the effort you make.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Stick to what you choose, stick to what you love, and believe that you can change her! The premise is that she also loves you very much!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you like it, you have to look at it yourself!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Marriage and love are indeed two different things.

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.

    Balance it yourself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hello: Love is a personal thing, I want to ask, have you ever loved, have you really loved a girl? If your description is true Then this girl is really good, people's lives are actually very short Why don't you choose your own life, your parents will support you if they really love you, if this girl will give you happiness Then why not fight for it, although the current job is not very easy to find, but the general job is still not difficult to find, and if she loves you With her character I don't think it will put too much pressure on you Not everything in a person's life can be as good as possible But try to strive for love from the bottom of your heart Not all the time you missed and probably won't be there again.

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