I live under his aura

How to say, life will inevitably be boring, that's for sure, the key is to see how you treat the boring life, so that the boring life is not boring. Maybe you don't have the halo of shining stars, you don't have the glory of successful people being worshipped, and you don't have the feat of a generation of great people who sacrificed their lives for the country, but behind that halo, glory, and feats, do you know the tedium of their psychology (at least most of them), but their tedium is different from your tedium. Ain't there is a saying:

I can't change the environment, so I have to adapt to it. Look at your eyes, observe with your heart, and experience, and you will find that there is also an extraordinary life in the ordinary and boring life, and there are also beautiful expectations ......

First of all, you have to correct your mentality, maybe others are asking casually. You just take it to heart, and it's hard to get rid of something like that when something like this happens.

However, introverts are not very easy to pull, you have to get rid of this problem. Learn how to relate to people and how to speak. You don't live under his aura, but you live in your own shadow, and what you're getting rid of is your own shadow and not someone else.

What I'm saying may be a bit heavy, I was in the same situation as you, and I could feel that situation that was almost hopeless. But now I am living a beautiful life under my own halo, and I am constantly envious of him.

When I was very young, my father told me that there is only one enemy in life, and that is yourself, and there is only one person who understands you best, that is, your enemy, yourself. Everyone is multifaceted, and this is also born with different selves, and they will show different selves at different times.

I know you can change yourself, my friend.

Oh, I'll be in your situation too. It's more annoying, and when you see me, you ask, what about xx? Now what are you doing, what, I explain that they don't believe it, the inner way, whatever they think, but now most people are clear, but a few people still misunderstand us.

You just get out of yourself, don't live in his shadow, leave him, maybe you will be very happy, do you really like him, if you really like him, you can give these things for him, if you are just good friends, then you don't have to sacrifice so much!

Ditto. In fact, everyone has other people around you, such as parents, people who like you, etc. Don't pay too much attention to that, because you should think about the value that "He" brings to your life.

Isn't life just because of some very helpless things? Either. How boring the days are

Hehe, try to leave him for a while, and let him know that you are not his replacement, whether you are his agent or something.

Second, you have to be cheerful and learn his communicative skills

Third, be yourself!!

If someone asks you again, you will let him hit him directly. Your personality determines that you are different from him, there is no need to be envious, it is good to live your own life!

To tell you the truth, I'm like this, I have a very good friend, his interpersonal relationship is very good, I'm also very introverted, sometimes I envy him, but I also have my own life, no one is anyone's accessory, really, nothing, work hard to pursue the life you want, you can change your current situation. If others really ignore you, you must believe in yourself, as long as you don't ignore yourself, show yourself to your heart's content, and it won't be long before everyone will be amazed by your light!

Do you really care that you live under someone else's aura?

Do your friends bring you jealousy?

Since he has the ability to make the people around him laugh and laugh, why don't you learn from it with an open mind?

If you really don't want to!

Just try to be better than him! ~

Or maybe someone else doesn't think so?