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The previous ones are just comforting you mentally, but I want to say....Methods are the basis for success, just like if you go from Tianjin to Beijing and from Washington to Beijing, you have the same end point, which way do you think is more convenient. If you get it right, you can do more with less. If you do it wrong, you will get twice the result....It's not that success is far from us, it's just that our efforts are inefficient.
I've been thinking about this a lot, and that's my opinion, you think.
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Take a look at Steel.
If you work hard, you may not be successful, but maybe you get something more important than success.
Sparing a lap is not the same as returning to the starting point. Success is not the same as an end.
More frustrating than never being able to achieve a dream is realizing a dream but losing something more important.
The world is fair ......
Steelforge illustrates your problem well.
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Landlord: You have to understand what success is. There is a saying that I don't know if you have heard that there is no "successful person can predict his success", and success is that he first "plans and then acts", and then "a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step", and then "perseverance", and then "planning in people, success in the sky", if you do well in the first three steps, you can expect your success.
On reflection, you didn't do that detail well...
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Because you need a little effort to succeed before you succeed, and then you feel that you have given up if you didn't succeed, so you don't succeed. What our Chinese teacher said.
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Perhaps, if you fail, you will think that you have worked in vain.
But I personally believe that hard work is the process of success.
It can also be said to be a success.
Maybe it didn't end well, but I tried, I tried.
In all conscience.
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Hard work doesn't always lead to success, and it's harder to succeed if you don't work hard.
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No, never give up on your dreams, do you dare to have dreams for the rest of your life?
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Choice is more important than effort.
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1. Focusing only on personal will and lacking rational judgment on objective facts.
Almost everyone wants to succeed and get what they want, but the desire is endless, and the desire is like the water of the sea, and the more you drink, the thirstier you get. It is already great for a person to achieve one or two very important things in this life, just as a teacher said, "You want to play basketball better than others, and you want to be the first in the exam, how do you let those who have neither basketball skills nor exam ability live?" Of course, this sentence is just an example, and cannot be used as a completely correct theory, because there are many people who can master two or more skills.
People who work hard "only think about satisfying their own will, but rarely consider objective facts, rarely seriously compare objective facts with their own abilities, and rarely ask themselves: do they have the ability to gamble, and what are the chances of winning?" If you only act in the light of your own will, you seldom measure your virtue and strength, and seriously reflect on it.
Objective facts and subjective will can only succeed when they are in harmony and unity, and "hard-working people" only know that they work hard, do not ask about the world, do things like robots, and walk like ascetics.
Second, only talk about hard work, not about methods.
The motto of "hard worker" is "as long as I work hard, I will succeed", directly take hard work as a sufficient condition for success, which is obviously absurd, in fact, hard work is not necessarily successful, hard work is only a necessary condition for success but not a sufficient condition, therefore, if you don't work hard, you will definitely fail (don't believe that successful people say that they don't work hard, there is always effective effort behind it).
I have always believed that there is no power that can compare to the power of accumulation. "God rewards hard work", "water drops wear stones", "the last straw that crushes the camel" ......
But you see, the people around you didn't work hard to get it. "Hard-working people" are more willing to believe that success must be achieved after going through a thousand difficulties and dangers, and even regard "skills" and methods as opportunistic shortcuts. But in fact, method is also one of the necessary conditions for success.
If you want to succeed in a certain field, you should learn from the industry leaders (except for the talented), learn their learning methods, and learn their practices.
Because they understand that it is not the success to get what they want to be perfect, on the contrary, if they can learn from failure, then the next road will be better
Because this relationship was not based on reality at the beginning, how realistic people are now, no matter how well it is said on the Internet, it can't withstand a little storm in reality.
I've also seen it on the news, a girl in Chongqing is the one who married us from Huaxi online dating! Anything is possible!
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