Why, those who didn t make it still live so happily

Because they understand that it is not the success to get what they want to be perfect, on the contrary, if they can learn from failure, then the next road will be better

Live subjectively for yourself, objectively for others, some people live for love and concern, some people live for myself and not others, some people live for ourselves and not others, some people live for the sake of making others happy with our dedication, some people live for the sake of constantly experiencing setbacks, success or failure, we will enjoy the experience Some people live for the sake of living, life is objective and short, so we have to live, because there can be no second life, we must strive to achieve life, and we must learn to enjoy life, we are not living for anything We don't have the right to speak, because in the beginning, our lives were God-given, not created by ourselves, and all living things are like this, and we can only reproduce by genetics, and if we live, we will die, and our lives will only be a few decades, and it would be too wasteful and too long to think about the meaning of life

Maybe some people have a smooth life, and that is because these people are working hard in obscurity to get the life they want. Behind those people are sweat and tears. Ten minutes on stage and ten years off the stage, no one can succeed casually.

Good luck will not favor this person again and again, life is like a roller coaster, there are troughs and peaks, there are failures and successes, there are tears and laughter. It's just that we should get up from there and continue to work hard to open that window and enjoy the beauty of life.

You are miserable, but there will always be people in this world who are more miserable than you, and only optimism and hard work can solve your tragic fate.

Maybe others have relationships and backgrounds, but you have hard work, sweat and perseverance, and if you persist and persevere, you may open the window left by God. When you open that window, maybe you will see that the world is the most beautiful and the fairest.

Only through our own hard work, through our own hard work, through our own hard work and sweat can we truly exchange for what belongs to us. You can open that window, but that window is what you want and want the most in your heart. We may miss out on a lot at the wrong time, in the wrong place, in front of the wrong person, but we don't lose what we want most.

I'm also thinking about this problem, I think it's like playing games, some people are born with god clothes, like the kind of rich second generation, they don't lack anything, and they are destined to be either rich or expensive in the future, and some people are just very ordinary people, they don't have god clothes, they can only rely on their own hard work to make money, do the most tiring work, get a salary of thousands of yuan, and some people they are not even qualified to work hard, they are not destined to be poor, like those who are disabled and can't work, this society is cruel, and we are a part of this society, we can only accept this cruel reality, If we want to become stronger, if we want to become a person with god costumes, then we must work hard, once when we were young, we went to school when we didn't study well, just care about having fun with friends, this is the cause of your failure, thousands of high-rise buildings from the ground to get admitted to a good university is the foundation for success in the future, from when we don't have to learn to be attracted by other things, then we miss the first step to success, from then on most people may do nothing, If ordinary people want to succeed, they can only force themselves to death step by step, and if they miss it, they will have nothing.

Life is difficult, the mentality is relaxed, life, the most rare, is a good attitude, the most difficult to let go, is the true feelings, the most unforgettable, is into the heart, the most difficult to find, is to be understood, people's life, and love and hate entanglement, with gains and losses, and right and wrong. In life, everyone will have troubles, work, everyone will have problems, in life, everyone has difficulties, if, think simpler, pure vision, and have a normal mentality, there will be a lot less inexplicable troubles, don't be too embarrassed yourself, some people, not worth your heart, some things, do not need to be engraved in the memory, don't wait until you can't do anything, then choose to go with the flow.

The length of life, no longer than spring, summer, autumn and winter, the breadth of life, beyond the north, south, west and east, the impermanence of life, is nothing more than joys and sorrows, life is short, do not load too much pain, the world is cold, people are warm and cold, as long as it hurts, someone hurts, when someone understands, when there is a hug, when fragile there is a support, when lonely and helpless, there is someone to rely on, when you are down, when you are frustrated, you can never give up, the words in your heart, someone listens to it is a warm and depressed thing, someone understands that it is happiness, Life is not simple, try to live simply, life is not perfect, try to live happily, life is difficult, and the mind is relaxed.

There are no wonders in the world, some people live successfully, some people live in failure and misery, some people work hard and they will succeed, and some people do nothing all day long, and of course they live a failure.

Everyone's background, manager's history, and social status are different. This determines how much of each person's unfair share of wealth in society is. In a certain sense, it determines people's success and failure.

The success or failure of each person's life depends entirely on themselves and some opportunities.

Genetic inheritance, family education, acquired efforts, and so on will all influence.

In our culture, success is the ultimate goal of life, and it seems that as long as you succeed, all the troubles of life will be solved, but the facts tell us that this is not the case. People are envious of those who succeed by doing nothing. Those who do not achieve easy success through their own efforts will be psychologically burdened; Success achieved without goals and motivation makes successful people feel unconfident and always worry that they will not be able to maintain a successful state all the time.

Therefore, whether it is inaction or other ways to scandalize themselves, they try to avoid action and show their true level. A supervisor who does not act after being promoted is afraid that his actions will make people see that he is not qualified for the position, so he does not act. Those who are not active in their work and lack fighting spirit may not be because they are lazy, but because they are not confident in their hearts, and they are afraid that they will expose their true level and affect their image after doing something, so they simply do not do it.

As long as you don't do it, there will never be a failure. Whatever you do is risky, so don't risk it.

Because success does not mean happiness, although he is very rich or powerful, and may have power and money, but as long as he is a human being, he has the right to things that money can't buy, that is, he has troubles, so his success can be happy without a watch. Happiness is not necessarily successful to be happy, maybe unsuccessful people, but more happy, simple and happy.

Success: Nothing can be defined as success. The past is a past of success or failure, happiness or pain. Nothing is eternal, life is always like this, gains and losses are impermanent, no matter how beautiful things are, you can't have them forever.

No matter how painful it is, it will leave you. All the experiences are just self-cultivation. "There are no shackles in the world, and the heart is locked and traps people."

Unhappiness is thinking too much, wanting too much and being afraid of losing. The Diamond Sutra says; "The past is unattainable, the present is unattainable, and the future is unattainable. "Everything is empty, let go and be at ease.

For example, in the war, although a soldier finally achieved the position of a general through his achievements, his hands were stained with donated blood, some people were numb, maybe they would not be unhappy, but some people still knew that their promotion was exchanged for the lives of countless people, and they may not be happy.

The main reason is that a successful career and a happy family are not necessarily happy. Regardless of gender, everyone has shortcomings, and more importantly, from what point of view, people are greedy. If you keep your life simple, it will be fine.

There's an old saying. Those who are content are always happy. Whatever will be happy, and those who have no money will be happy.

I think that people's desires are unlimited, and when they succeed, they find that what they have is far from satisfying themselves. Especially when you see someone better than yourself, you will have no time to be happy. Therefore, when people's hearts are numb, they will not feel the joy of success.

Successful people are rich and rich, which has nothing to do with whether they are mentally healthy or unhappy. My mind is filled with a set of procedures and formulas for how to succeed. The burden in the heart is heavy, and the heart is not idle and uncomfortable.

There are many definitions of success, some people make a lot of money and are considered successful, and some people are successful when they gain family affection. Some people have made achievements in the professional field and made breakthroughs to be considered successful, and the key depends on how to define them. However, in Wilde's words, the saddest thing about people is that they don't get it when they don't get it, and the saddest thing is when they get it.