Conflicted feelings, I hope to get everyone s opinion.

Updated on society 2024-04-13
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're doing the right thing! I'm sticking with you!

    Actually, I understand your contradictions, which are inevitable! But you just have to think that you did the right thing and that you did your duty.

    As for you saying that you have a personal relationship with him, I don't think you have made him a good friend, and such a friend is not worth your inner conflict. You asked him many times to ask for it. He has been given the opportunity to correct his mistakes, but he didn't grasp it himself!

    If he doesn't understand your approach of reporting to the leader, I think you can do without it; If he really understands what you're doing, then you should be friends with him regardless of your past suspicions!

    In addition, you can tell others what you are doing, and they will understand you and approve of you. But at the same time, you should also tell them not to publicize it (referring to the fact that the man stole something), it doesn't matter, you have a relationship, and you should protect his self-esteem.

    You tell me?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You've done your duty, and that's good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you said he was "stealing", there's nothing wrong with reporting him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I support you, you did the right thing If you are real friends, I think he should thank you very much after he figures it out, because you helped him once, if he goes on like this, maybe something bad will happen, so, if he is a positive person, he will thank you one day!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you're doing the right thing!!

    Why should you care what this man thinks, this is the retribution he deserves!!

    It's no pity to lose such a morally corrupt personal relationship, I know that you care about other people's eyes, and you're afraid that others will think you're an untrustworthy person, but I'll come up with a bad idea and tell some "trumpet" that you're doing it because he's wrong, so someone will help you promote it!

    I'm sticking with you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, it's good to live in the moment and cherish what should be cherished.

    Nothing is unpassable.

    Everything will be fine.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let the past pass; From now on, treat each other sincerely. I don't think she will show her dissatisfaction with you after she has been to your house, because you are good friends and she will forgive you. If she is surprised, tell her the truth.

    If she can't understand, show her your plea for help, which shows that you care about your friendship with her. If she still does not give up, let no longer be sad, for she does not have the tolerance that a good friend should have; Maybe she cares about your family's material things. This kind of friendship is not worth cherishing too much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Just show sincerity and tell her directly, I think she can forgive you because she is a big-hearted person If you really care about the friendship between you, then I think you should tell her that it's not a big deal, and if she cares about your family's situation, then it means that your friendship is mixed with material things, and such friendship is not worth cherishing. Since she can tolerate you so much, I think this should be nothing. Do you care about her as much as you said, since you treat her as a friend, don't lie to her, you should be sincere, she may care a little, you have to be considerate of her, after all, she treats you as a friend, you lie to her, and it is not easy for anyone to change their hearts.

    Finally, I hope you all have a good time.

    Tell her, be sure to tell her, or you might lose such a good friend

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Actually, I don't think it's a particularly big deal.,You're a happy and cheerful girl.,I think the other girl should also know your character.,I think a person with such a character occasionally makes some mistakes like this.,As a good friend, you shouldn't mind, right? Friends are honest with each other, I think the girl who can make friends with you will not be a stingy person, don't mind, think about everything, don't think so terrible, don't just have a meal and visit the home? It's okay.

    Even if you really feel awkward, then find a reason to refuse.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I feel like you're thinking too much, and it's too bad not to think about anything.

    The meaning of friends is to tolerate each other, trust each other, care for each other, your little mistake, as a friend will not care, unless she and you become friends for another purpose.

    Perhaps you will learn more about whether your friend and your relationship are genuine.

    In fact, you can think of yourself as your friend: when your friend does what you just did, how do you think about it? Do you hate your friends because of it?

    Think about it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Sincerely confess everything to her and apologize to her (for you lied). She's so nice to you, I don't think she cares about that, just likes you more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't feel pressured, if she only likes your family's money and therefore no longer likes you, then it's not worth your love for her!

    I think men, a little self-esteem, bragging, it's nothing! You don't have any burden and pressure on this matter, when you go home with her, tell her in advance, just say, in fact, if the home environment is not as good as you seem, what should you do? Look at how she answers, believe me as a person who has come over, this is really not a problem!

    I can see that you are still a very responsible person, and I sincerely wish you happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You're a girl, I'm a boy, I'm just like you, always bragging about myself in front of others, in fact, my family is above average, but I always say how good my family is, I used to be young, I didn't feel anything, but now it's different, whenever I finish speaking, I always say to myself, why do you say that, good is good, bad is bad, what's there, what's there to brag about in front of others, you should tell the truth to that friend, I don't think she minds, because she's your best friend, Then you will feel much more relaxed, people live, don't always say something untrue like this, if you want others to envy you, you have to fight for yourself, to create, only in this way, you will be at ease.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Actually, I don't think there is such a problem. Presumably it's been so long now, and he may not remember what you said at the beginning. Just take her to play with confidence.

    Let the family be ready, and make her feel good. Then tell her about your family's situation on the way back, and then take your family's big ** by the way. If she asks questions, she can easily explain, saying that you were just joking and bragging when you were a freshman, and your tone must be relaxed and natural.

    Then ask her tentatively about her attitude. It's just a matter of improvisation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Everyone has vanity, a real good friend will not pay attention to the conditions of your family, not to mention that your family conditions are good and treat you as a good friend, a good friend is not handed over with money but with her heart, she cares about your family conditions means that she has no intention to make you a friend, if she is not associated with you on the basis of you deceiving her, it means that she has treated you as a heart friend, sorry I have something to talk about next time

    It's best if you explain to her first, don't cheat on her, if she doesn't care that you cheat on her:

    1 She didn't make you your best friend.

    2 She understands you.

    If she's angry:

    1 She has built you on the basis of a good friend.

    2 She still doesn't really understand you, I'm sorry, I'll talk about it when I have time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Actually, you shouldn't joke, although it's a small thing, I'm afraid you won't even be able to make friends. You are honest with her and say sorry to her. She should forgive you.

    Because of your confession, she will know that you know that you can change your mistakes. Tell her before she goes to your house, and I'm sure she'll forgive you. I will like you more because of your honesty.

    Believe me!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As you said, you have to be very tolerant of your friends. A lot of times they treat you like a child. So, I don't think she'll care.

    However, I would also like to remind you that you should still be sincere with your friends. Don't lie to a friend for a little vanity. If you talk too much, your friends will stay away from you

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since you're all wrong, don't add mistakes to mistakes, just tell her honestly, since she has tolerated you so much, she probably won't care about this! And remember: don't lie to people anymore. Bad for others is also irresponsible for yourself!

    The big brother above!! Is it good that she is a woman! Since it's all about the dormitory, can it be that both men and women are in the same room???

    Dizzy!! Don't always think about it in that direction!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello Lord, the situation you have encountered is exactly what I am eager to solve, and this kind of thing has happened to me, and I don't know what to do, but I have some solutions to your affairs, and I hope it can help you to a certain extent.

    I work at the National Center for Economic Intelligence and Information, but I haven't told my girlfriend, I've been lying to her, I can't tell her, I'm telling white lies, I'm freelancing.

    You can also say to your friend that you just see your home as a big villa, as the saying goes, ** is not as good as your own home, and when he arrives at your home, you will tell her, look at how beautiful my home is, how magnificent, whoever speaks will say their home very well, you don't have to explain to her, when you get to your home, you will say how good your home is, you will say that in your heart your home is the most perfect, then there will be nothing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't think so much, don't care so much, contented people are always happy!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't be obsessed with one thing to see his whole person, always sue.

    Zhi complains to himself, blocking the air with the other party, what can you win if you win, and what do you lose if you lose? He is a human being, not a remote control tool, not what you want, he will be what you want, on the contrary, what he wants you to be, you will be what you are? If so, it's just your own problem, and you accept it, but it doesn't mean that he accepts it as well as you.

    Besides, judging from what you said, his behavior is indeed very annoying, but as a wife, did you communicate with him well before you blocked his breath, which is not good? And you, as a wife, can't you pay for your husband? Why should we be obsessed with the distinction between you, me and him?

    Is it as good to live together as strangers?

    Divorce is very easy, go through the formalities in two or three times, 10 yuan is OK, are you willing to give up for such a trivial matter?

    Also, I really don't understand, why do you women watch marriage so child's play, and you can't solve it, and you can divorce and divorce without saying two sentences.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Divorce, you can't leave if you have children.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What about you except for others?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Nothing to contradict. Everyone has their own standards of understanding this. In my opinion, the criterion for a good job is the survival (life) needs that each person is pursuing.

    If you have a worry-free life, then a job that suits you and that you like and is interested in is a good job. (i.e., when you reach a certain level of material life, you go after your spiritual needs).

    If you are not satisfied with your living conditions (survival) and you want to live a good life, then although you don't like it, you should consider it a good job with a high salary (good salary). (In layman's terms, even food and clothing can't be satisfied, how to talk about liking, or temporarily take "milk is a mother" as the standard!) )

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I feel that a good job is beyond my ability for various reasons such as my academic qualifications, and the salary is in my own estimate, and I already feel that this job is worth my own efforts and development, and at the same time, it is a good job in the eyes of others.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The ideal is that you like to have a high salary, but it is not realistic, as long as you like and are interested in doing this job, it is the best.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Composition will not forgive you....Because....Because....I don't know how to say it.

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