It s been four days of blind dates, why hasn t he contacted me?

There are too many reasons for this, let alone four days, I don't think it's much in a week, blind date is not a love deal. Doesn't it mean that people will have to contact you in a hurry immediately after you go on a blind date, maybe they will objectively investigate you? Not necessarily!

Sometimes, in fact, it doesn't hurt for girls to take the initiative, after all, everyone can know the root of the blind date, be patient!

It's not his problem, it's yours.

Do you have a crush on the person for the first time, and do you want to give him ideas to further develop the relationship? Do you have any special expectations for him?

If you also think that it is average, you can talk about it or not, and the other party is tepid, give up decisively.

**Someone won't even have time to fight**, so is he still alive? Eighty percent of this kind of man has never chased a girl before, and one percent is ready to play and indulge. Alas, big men are more shy than women.

In this case, if you are really interested in him, take the initiative. Wishing you happiness ...

There is nothing active and passive in this, what era is it now, men must chase women? Whoever has an idea should act first, and it's better to give it a try than to miss it. If he doesn't contact you, you can contact me. Hahaha.

He may be embarrassed and don't know how to start their lives.

Maybe he's busy with work these days.

I'll contact you when he has time.

He should think so, whoever hits first dies first.

Whoever hits ** first will be passive...

Test it, let someone else test it for you, and remind you by the way.

That's the question... You go on a blind date with me, I'm more active.

Nowadays, there are more women than men in society, and more and more older young women are left, and they will choose to go on a blind date to find a partner. Some female friends will encounter blind date men with little contact when they go on blind dates, and some women will encounter the situation that they have not been able to meet with blind date men. So why does the blind date man contact once every two or three days, and why does the blind date man drag on and don't meet?

Here is a detailed answer to this question.

The blind date man contacts once every two or three days may be for these reasons:

1. The blind date man doesn't like the woman too much, and he is trying to get in touch, so the contact is not too frequent, unlike if he has a good feeling, he will contact every day.

2. Blind date men are more shy, more introverted, and not very active, so they will heat up slowly and feel that it is more reasonable to contact them once in two or three days.

3. The blind date man is chatting with a girl for the first time, and he doesn't know how to grasp the frequency of chatting with a girl.

There are these reasons why the blind date man dragged on and didn't meet:

1. It may be that the blind date man is really busy at work, or has encountered some things that need to be dealt with, and he will meet when he has time.

2. It may be that the blind date man is very reluctant to go on a blind date, so he doesn't want to meet and keeps dragging it out.

3. It may be a boy in his heart, embarrassed to meet, not ready yet, and he feels that he doesn't know what to say when he meets, and it will not be embarrassing to chat directly online without meeting, and it is more relaxed.

If you have a good impression of the other person, you can take the initiative yourself, but if you don't feel anything, you can also chat as a friend, and it's okay.

There are several scenarios:

1. On the first day after the blind date, they no longer contact each other. It shows that the two sides are not optimistic about each other.

2. It may feel okay. We also need to get to know each other in more detail. Waiting for the right opportunity.

3. When you go back, you have to digest the feelings of the meeting, and react with your family, and you may have a reaction the next day.

The two of you are not suitable, so you don't contact, this is a very normal phenomenon, don't care too much, if you think it's not suitable, you can directly refuse, there is no need to procrastinate, this is not good.

It's not a big problem, you can refuse directly, if you don't think it's appropriate, then there is no need for you to continue dating, so it's also a better choice for you, don't procrastinate, it's not particularly good for both of you.