I had a conflict with my boyfriend, and he ignored me for three days, what should I do, I made it cl

Updated on psychology 2024-03-21
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After being together for a long time, friction and conflict will inevitably occur, and it is understandable that there will be conflicts. How can there be smooth sailing. Neither is love.

    It can be smooth sailing and go to the end. They have to go through the run-in period, even if they enter the palace of marriage, they still have to run in. So.

    If there is a conflict over a trivial matter. Then you can take the initiative to admit your mistakes to him, if you still love him. You have to take the initiative to explain things clearly and ask for his forgiveness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's normal for boyfriends and girlfriends to quarrel with each other, you should talk to your boyfriend about it, be considerate of each other, tolerate each other, and don't give in to each other. Otherwise, sooner or later they will break up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, you have to figure out what is the reason for your conflict with your boyfriend. If it is not a matter of violating principles. Then it can still be recovered.

    You can also contact your boyfriend first. Explain to him what you didn't do well. Mutual understanding and tolerance.

    Such a relationship is the most enviable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If there is one thing that is most painful in a relationship, it must be love.

    If you haven't loved each other, then there will be no pain, and the most afraid thing is that you are in love, but you are not together, no matter what the reason, it is also a very regrettable thing, and it will eventually make people unable to let go.

    Everyone understands that two people can't be together, and letting go is the best choice, but it's not something that everyone can do easily.

    If you don't love it, let it go; If you don't love it, you leave.

    When two people are separated, how painful you are, you can't bear it, you can't forget, you can't let go, you may even contact him, you will want an explanation, and you want to start all over again.

    Even if the two of them are not together, they will still miss him and want to see him, even if every time you look for him, all you get is a cold reply, you are still the same as always.

    Some people always feel that they can still be friends after a breakup, so why do they have to be so ruthless and have to turn two people into "strangers"?

    But have you noticed that many times you overestimate yourself, you think that you will not think about him anymore, you think that you will not contact him again, but you still can't control your heart.

    At this time, it is better to be ruthless after separation, so that the two people can return to the state of strangers, even if they meet occasionally, they can pass by.

    Since you are separated, don't expect love that doesn't belong to you, don't give yourself another chance, some feelings are lost and won't do it again, although sad, although regretful, but there is nothing you can do.

    It's better to be brave, don't bother him again, just think it's just a dream, and now that you wake up, you are still two parallel lines that won't intersect, just live your own life.

    In the future, don't contact, don't bother, lock him in memories; From now on, don't contact, don't bother, just be a "stranger"!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It doesn't matter how you manifest after the quarrel, what matters is what you are fighting for. That's the crux of the matter. So if you break his heart, don't say ignore you for three days, even if it's three months, three years or even a lifetime, it's possible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you reply to him, you will realize and indulge him, and if you don't reply to him, he won't take the initiative and you will worry, haha, this is an interesting mentality, you can find your friends, let your friends remind him, men have to take the initiative, learn to be rational and measured to accommodate girls.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ignore it, change it, learn to pay attention to yourself, and turn around yourself instead of others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then he is stingy enough, he has ignored you for three more days, and he is still angry. I'll go to him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you want to be with him, you still have to take the initiative to approach him, ask him, the main thing is that there is communication, you just say that you have not communicated well, if you communicate well and make it completely clear, he will definitely forgive you, all conflicts need to be communicated.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    At this time, both sides are angry at this stage, as long as one party speaks first, this contradiction will be easily resolved. If you really care about the other person, you can take the initiative to contact him by asking him if he is busy now. As long as you say the first sentence, there will be a topic of conversation naturally.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, it is normal for two people to fall in love and have conflicts, but as the saying goes, couples should not have overnight feuds, and they should be more tolerant of each other, considerate and understanding of each other, rather than not contacting each other for a week, which can easily make your relationship fragile.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Girl, there are two situations that can not go home for one night, the first is to work overtime in the company, you should know the nature of his work; The second is to surf the Internet in an Internet café and play games all night. You don't have to worry, you can just find a chance to reconcile with him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, since there is a contradiction, we must first find out where the cause of this contradiction is. If you are also at fault, it is best to apologize to him and admit your mistake. Explain this clearly. Put the scruples between two people. Just make it clear.

    In this way, there is no pressure or burden for both of them. It's also very good for relationships. You need to be proactive.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, at this time, he felt that he was very sad, and he went out at night to find a place to be bored or to find friends, such a state is not the best, the two people have a conflict, they should find a way to break the deadlock, negotiate and discuss, ask what is wrong, because of what is noisy, and reconcile early.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It could be that your boyfriend is dealing with depression in this way. If you don't come home all night, it's probably because you're out playing games. It is recommended that you go directly to him, take the initiative to apologize to him, resolve the conflict, and avoid causing more harm.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    We can take the initiative to find a boyfriend to resolve the conflict, see what the boyfriend thinks, and if it is possible for the two to continue to get along, then continue to get along. If your boyfriend doesn't like you anymore, let's not waste our love on him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you care so much, then you should be more tolerant in your life and not quarrel all the time. Because quarrels hurt feelings, they accumulate and come together, and they will break out one day.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have a conflict with him, he must be in a very bad mood. His whereabouts are very worrying. You can try to talk to him. You're worried about him. He'll communicate with you. Just try to resolve this contradiction.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, you need to figure out whose cause of the conflict is, if you do something wrong, then you should take the initiative to apologize, don't ask the boy to take the initiative to come to him, because if the man is angry, he is also very ruthless.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he ignores you, you can ignore him. Because you have a conflict, he thinks it's because of you, so he must have a special opinion about you. At this time, you want me to take the initiative to find him. Say a few nice words to him. He will change his attitude towards you now.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then maybe you're thinking about changing your boyfriend, the indifference period can't exceed three days, and if it's more than three days, your boyfriend may be like that to you, why are you conflicting, are you unfaithful to your relationship or something else.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He doesn't love you enough, or that it's dispensable to you at all, and if you really like each other, the girl will immediately coax her when she gets angry.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Falling into conflict with her boyfriend. Ignore you for a week. It shows that your boyfriend still doesn't really love you and understand you enough. You know, a man really loves you. He will tolerate all your shortcomings instead of ignoring you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think all your worries are superfluous, don't restrain yourself, the more you are afraid of it, then you will not get it, you can go directly to him to explain the contradiction.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it is a conflict caused by your fault, you can sincerely apologize to him and reconcile with him, if it is a conflict caused by his fault, if he does not admit his mistake, it means that he is an unreasonable person and is not worthy of your love for him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It is normal for two people to have conflicts together, ignore you for a week, you can take the initiative to find him, it is good to solve the contradiction if there is a contradiction, two people communicate well, communicate well, and it is very easy to solve the contradiction.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You need to understand each other, you can ask for forgiveness, and if that's okay, you can try to give each other a step.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you have a conflict with your boyfriend, and your boyfriend ignores you for a week, if you don't feel that there is much friction with this man, it is just a small conflict, you can take the initiative to find this man. If you're the one waiting to be loved, then you ignore him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your boyfriend definitely doesn't love you enough. If he loves you and you quarrel, he will immediately coax you, instead of ignoring you for so long, you can wait and see, if he still has this attitude, then give up this relationship, and they will not be happy together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is normal for male and female lovers to have conflicts, but the man ignores you for a week, unless you hurt her deeply, otherwise, this boy is too stingy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In this case, you should have a good communication with him, you can't just ignore you in the cold war, you can choose some ways to get close to him, and then have a good chat with him, after all, the relationship between two people, the most taboo is cold violence.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think your boyfriend has a conflict with you and ignores you for a week, which means that your boyfriend is very immature, and your boyfriend doesn't know how to take the initiative to communicate with you, so there is no need for this kind of boy to be nostalgic.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Your boyfriend doesn't pay much attention to you, and even if there is a conflict, you can't not communicate or contact for a week. Maybe he's just taking advantage of the conflict with you, going out to party with others, and going out to play with others. This just doesn't take you to heart, maybe he just wants to break up with you, because he doesn't care about you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you have a conflict with your boyfriend and ignore you for a week, it may be that he is still angry, or you can try to change the way you get along with each other, if he doesn't care about you properly to learn to stop loss.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It may be that the two of you are in the Cold War, and it is recommended to communicate in time if there is something, which is more conducive to your relationship, after all, the Cold War cannot solve anything, it will only deepen the conflict.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It seems that your boyfriend is a very face-sensitive person, so he has a conflict with you, and ignores you for a week, you can communicate with him, explaining that you will dilute the relationship between you in this way, and I believe she will definitely change her approach.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Generally, when the contradiction ignores you for a week, you basically have to say goodbye, which proves that the relationship between the two of you is weak. You may think that you still love him, but he may not still love you, if he still cares about you, he will take the initiative to find you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The sweetness and sweetness between lovers, bitter and sour, can be said to be the taste of life, and all kinds of tastes. Sweet times always make people nostalgic, but the sadness and bitterness of quarrels are also headaches. We are human beings, not machines, and it is impossible to estimate every sentence, and there will always be times when we will make the other party unhappy because of some inappropriate words.

    And if the other party has ignored you for three days because you said the wrong thing, you can start from the following aspects.

    First, you have to be clear about whether you have to have a boyfriend to coax you, or if you can do something that you can do. The reason why she said such things is because some girls are affected by their own living environment, so they think that if there is a quarrel between a boy and a girl, it must be the boy who bows his head first. But if you don't care about this kind of thing and can accept that you bow to your boyfriend, then we can move on to the second step.

    Second, we need to understand what we are saying wrong. Because even if we win back our boyfriend's heart this time, we may not pay attention next time, and we will make our boyfriend unhappy because of the same words. So at this time, we need to remember our own lessons this time.

    Third, if you add the WeChat of this boy's brother, you can first find out what the boy is doing in the past three days. Only after understanding what this boy is doing can he better deal with it. If the boy is also thinking about how to reconcile with you, then at this time we will take the initiative and tell the other party that we have realized our mistakes, and then the two of us can also reconcile.

    On the contrary, if your boyfriend is happy every day and every night, I personally think that such a boyfriend may need to be changed. After all, it should be more painful to quarrel with you, since he is not painful, but more happy, then you need to consider whether he doesn't care about you so much. If he doesn't care about you, it doesn't mean much to you to redeem or not.

    Of course, we can't just rely on his brother's eyes, but listen to his explanation.

    The above is what I personally think should be done when my boyfriend quarrels with me, and the mistake is on me.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Give him a gift, apologize to him sincerely, and then ask him out, invite him to dinner, and say more nice things, but be very sincere, very sincere, so that he doesn't get angry anymore.

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