I m a senior in college and I don t have good interpersonal skills, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Theoretically! It's very difficult for you to expand your relationships right now. Truth.

    Most seniors are busy with their own business right now, and you don't have a platform to provide you with opportunities to network. But even then, you have to find a way to create opportunities yourself.

    If you are not good at language and have bad interpersonal relationships, then exercise your expression skills and use the virtual ** of the Internet to try to exercise yourself.

    If you're alienated from someone because of your personality, try to break into their social circle and try to fit in. Although this may make you feel uncomfortable, it is still the same when you enter society, so sooner or later you must cultivate this adaptability!

    In the senior year, there should be parties and other departments, after all, some people are leaving. You must actively participate in this kind of activity, take the initiative to talk to others, don't take yourself too seriously, and don't be afraid of anything!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Actually, it shouldn't be very difficult to solve this problem, just remember a little --- smile, I guess if you think your interpersonal communication is not good, you must always keep a straight face, believe me, as long as you smile, no matter when? Whoever you see? As long as you have a natural smile on your face, you will definitely be able to improve your relationships.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    See if there are people around you who are just like you, in fact, they are just like you, and they also crave friendship, reach out to them and warm each other

    Interpersonal things are like looking in the mirror, you are yourself, others are people in the mirror, how you treat others, how others will treat you, be happy yourself, contact others more, sometimes there is nothing wrong with taking the initiative, come on

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Believe in yourself and open the window of your heart. Don't deliberately pursue it, believe in fate. Wish.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm just like you I understand what you say I also regret not studying seriously I didn't learn anything in college I am so decadent every day I regret developing such a decadent and indulgent habit for so many years I can't change it now For interpersonal communication I believe that this is a talent I can't learn it I also feel like a lonely light in the city If I could do it all over again I would most like to go back to ten years ago

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Friends remember to be sincere and share what you think is happy with others, and others will like you. Don't keep it to yourself, just say it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    University, a place where everything is beautiful, there is no clear right or wrong, there is a lot of time to adapt, there are not too many constraints in interpersonal relationships, there is no assessment, no performance, no promotion, the most is just the number of friends, when you find this problem, you have already begun to look for your way to solve it.

    1. Interpersonal relationships rely on themselves, in the stress-free student days, living a wonderful life and exercising themselves will accumulate a lot of wealth in order to enter the society, but you must first know that your real problem is **, and answer yourself 5 whys in a row, and you can basically find it.

    2. The key to interpersonal harmony lies in how to get along, which is related to one's own cultivation, introverted learning and socializing, extroverted learning to talk, and trying to solve your problems.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Different people should be treated in different ways. Don't get too close to a fake person, don't offend him, and stay away. For good people, you can get along with your heart, but you should also have reservations.

    You can expand your social circle through sports, such as playing basketball, and you will meet a lot of friends. Like joining a club.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't be discouraged, find a way to get to know other people.

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