I ve been pestered by my classmates recently, what should I do?

Updated on educate 2024-04-27
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Try to socialize with other classmates and find friends who share your interests.

    On the surface, you should not be too stiff with her, after all, they are classmates, otherwise it will not be good for you.

    Usually I don't want to be with her because I find an excuse to go to someone else, and if she still asks you to leave when you play with someone, you invite her to play with her, so that she has nothing to say.

    Remember to take it one step at a time, and remember not to be impulsive because of disgust.

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can try to broaden your circle of friends and get in touch with other students.

    The girl who is pestering you now, even if you don't like him very much, you don't show it too obviously.

    It still depends on the situation, and the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Die-hard type! The way to get rid of her is not to be in the same city as her!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think people have any ill intentions. It's just a matter of character. Don't be impulsive.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't pay attention to it, this kind of person is very annoying, you can tell the teacher, this is also called school bullying. Spiritual. There are two kinds of school bullying, the first is spiritual, and the second is to harass you with bad words or bad words, which can be reported.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Give you a trick, let your classmates block her, if you can't stop it, you have to be resolute, you are tired of her, you don't have to show it, she is coming, don't feel uncomfortable when you see her, frown directly at her, and say What are you doing, I don't have time to go yourself, don't touch me, I won't go. Just like this kind of refusal, you have to say it, and you have to pretend to be very impatient, she understands what you mean, don't pester you, some people are bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, and they want to follow you when they see you bullying, regardless of other people's feelings, but if you mean something, say it as soon as possible, otherwise no one can help you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You don't care about her, you love it, if she wants to take care of you, you can get rid of her, she has no right to control your freedom. If you really can't do it, you will scold her, saying that she is like a relieving dog, a fly that can't be driven away.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can do whatever you want.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Doesn't this classmate have any merit at all? So much so that your whole class hates her? I just think this classmate is very pitiful, she needs friendship, but all of you in the class are so cold-blooded, no one is willing to give it to her, and then she finds that you two seem to be quite good, so she wants to get close to you, but your serious prejudice against her makes you annoyed when you see her, and she is not pleasing to the eye from head to toe.

    Let go of prejudice! Anyone and everything when we were students is the most precious memory of our lives.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Are you a boy or a girl.

    If you're a boy and you have more strength than him, let him go once and see what to do with him.

    If not, tell the homeroom teacher or call 110

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Ignore him, it will be fine soon, why is the skin of the boy so thick now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is easy to do, let a guy do a favor, pretend to be your boyfriend, and then you might as well let the fake boyfriend let him go to your house when he is at your house, a few times it should be no problem...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Ask him why he has to go to your house? Why can't you think about it from your point of view? Ask him what he thinks!

    If it's a prank, forget it, tell him you don't like it. But it doesn't seem to be a prank! If it is said that it likes you, then love is mutual respect.

    He's selfish!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he wants to come again, ask him to borrow money, a larger amount, and I don't believe he will still haunt you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You're so violent, find a fake one among your male friends, and you're all over the place.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's easy, you find a boy who is more handsome than him to "talk" to him, and promise that there will be no next time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What's the situation?,,He's no problem with his brain?,Ignore him.。。

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can tell him that all your energy is now focused on studying and you don't want to think about these things for the time being Please don't disturb your study If he is still stubbornly pestering You can threaten him and say that if you can't get into a good university, you will hate him for the rest of your life Of course, you can't say cruel words easily You have to be a killer weapon to know it with reason, move it with emotion, and use both soft and hard to achieve the ultimate goal If it doesn't work, you can find a girl who has a good relationship with you and count him down in public Let him stop pestering you Boys love face If he doesn't even want face, you tell him to wait for you, wait for you to succeed in your studies, and you will be together again If a man really likes a woman, I believe he will wait for that woman Time is the best litmus test Of course, high school is still focused on studying, after all, platonic love is not reliable I wish you success

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Well, like the second floor said, talk to him first, don't say you hate him as soon as you meet, tell him well, if he is willing to give up, it's best; If you don't want to give up, if you can hide, you can hide if you can't hide, just tell your parents and let them come forward But you don't have to worry very much, because he doesn't go to school in other places, and it's okay to avoid the winter vacation, but if you don't meet him in person, you have to show momentum and don't let him think that you are afraid of him, so that he will get tighter and tighter

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First, reasoning doesn't make sense for middle-aged people. So don't expect to "speak" clearly with him.

    Second, don't do anything radical, lest you provoke him to do something irrational.

    Coping methods:1Don't pay attention to him in the future, don't deliberately avoid him, just treat him normally, if he confesses again, tell him that you have someone you like, love him very much, and he is also very good to you. (If he asks you who you are, you say: I don't need to tell people I don't know this).

    2.Tell your parents and ask your parents to negotiate directly with his parents.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then find a guy who has an iron relationship with you, and let him pretend to be your boyfriend, he should stop when he sees that you have a boyfriend!! If he is really a scoundrel ... Then find someone to beat him up, and the person who beat him warns him to stop pestering you as your boyfriend!!

    Don't tell your parents, parents are more sensitive to this kind of thing, but it will be bad for you!!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I've had this problem before, in fact, you don't have to run away, just tell him head-on that you don't like him and tell him to give up, you are now focused on your studies and don't want to talk about this, please don't pester yourself.

    If that doesn't work, you can bring your classmate to appear with you and tell him that the more you do, the less likely you will accept him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In this case, you can choose to tell the teacher or ask him to make changes for you, if he really likes you, he will definitely change for you, and when the time comes, he will change for the better and become excellent, maybe you will have a good impression of him!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    People are like this, the more they can't get it, the more they have desires, and the more they feel bored when they get it.

    He doesn't know how to love at all at this age, and he chases you just because he can't get it. Be careful yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Ignore him, or have a good talk with him, and say how he will happen after he goes to college (the ghost will only ignore him after college), such as blocking his mobile phone number, dragging his QQ number black, and if it is serious, make it clear to his parents, or call 110 ......

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Motivate him to be strong.

    Wait until you all come out of the campus.

    If he is still so persistent.

    You're sitting down and talking about feelings.

    Let the boy understand that you just want to learn now.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Find a way to make him hate you, for example, by deliberately doing something to discredit your image and show him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You should talk to him first, and if you still can't talk to him, you can sue your parents.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I've also met in elementary school, you can ignore such a boy, you can be very calm, let him be bored, even if he says it's disgusting, you don't care about it, so he still thinks it's fun, it's funny, it's best to reject him one-sidedly, if it really doesn't work, avoid contact with him, this kind of boy is generally just playing, it's best to ignore them.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

    If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you adopt out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

    Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you simply rejected him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's okay ..Just make it clear to him...

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You don't copy the troubles, don't feel that there is a feeling of disturbing you, as long as you turn the person you feel is disturbing you like a classmate, it is natural to smile at him and say: "We are classmates" and take out your opinion on him, that is, if he is a hooligan, just say to him: "You are a hooligan, how do you say" talk to him like a classmate, don't feel like you are talking to an object with feelings, just talk to him like a classmate or a friend, Then you won't be bothered, trust me!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't be afraid, first of all, you should pay attention to your studies and put them first.

    For him, you must insist on ignoring and ignoring him, if you are soft-hearted, he will be more energetic.

    If he's still like that, you'll have to ask the teacher for help! This is important.

    For your reference)

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think you're sad enough.

    1。Maintain respect for him and keep him from getting angry. (Because you said he seemed to be a hooligan.) )2。Remain indifferent to him. 88

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You should have a good talk with him, and you tell him du: life is the most important.

    Zhi key is often that dao how many steps within the college entrance examination.

    Maybe it's just one of the steps. We may not feel anything, but when we go to college and then have a high school reunion, our classmates will undoubtedly compare with our own schools, which is not the most important thing, and when we get to work, we will find that a diploma is so important! We must grasp the little study life left!

    You have to know it with affection, understand it with reason, and you have to grasp the specific proportions yourself) This kind of thing is always not a way!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Fighting a cold war clearly indicates the distance, as long as the other side does not do anything excessive. Just don't try to provoke the other person.

    According to the words "I am a good person 3355", it is dragging. Drag it until he feels bored and helpless.

    If you act excessively, you may wish to call the police, or find some elders with a relatively calm temper to deal with it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Find a guy with a better relationship, pretend to be your boyfriend (stronger), keep it like this for a long time, if he threatens your fake boyfriend, don't worry, this kind of person doesn't have the courage to do anything to you!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    That's a question! It's simple! You're doing the right thing!

    Because aren't you already in your third year of high school! I'm going to take the college entrance examination soon! If you're feeling overwhelmed!

    You can tell him! If he really wants to, you'll see you at the university! As long as he doesn't change his mind, he won't get it!

    over!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think the best thing to do is to talk to the teacher and let the teacher take care of it! ~

    You can tell your teacher that you want to take care of this matter in secret and quietly. I don't want to punish him, I just hope he won't interfere with my normal study and life anymore!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Say to him very directly: I don't like you, don't waste your time, okay? I beg you! You're so annoying.

    Don't say anything with any expression on your face.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Don't stiffen the relationship with him, but also make your thoughts clear to him, and then you can be friends with him, if he is a scoundrel, try to contact him as little as possible, it will be fine after a long time, I believe that time can dilute everything.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Hello friends:

    Don't be afraid, tell him what you think, it's time for the exam and study hard.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You can transfer schools or transfer classes. Ask the teacher's parents for help and reason with the person's parents.

    You should also have a good talk with him and explain the reasons to him.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Just ignore him. Or find your brother to pretend to be your boyfriend.

    That's how I am.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Directly said that my parents don't agree with early love, and it's still not okay to be 18 years old

    The important thing is that the college entrance examination is coming soon.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You tell him directly that he already has a boyfriend.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Find a boyfriend who is as handsome as I am

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You might as well use the tactic of delaying the army, and talk about it for a while. Wouldn't it be okay to drag it until I went to college?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's good to ignore him, but after a long time, he will give up, you study hard, and you won't be able to meet him after the university entrance examination.

    I don't think people like foreign hooligans can get into a good university, right?

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Tell you a good way, tell your classmates to bring a police officer when they go, and arrest them directly. Afraid of what. It's definitely a good idea to call the police first, and then let the police follow and protect your classmates.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Afraid of something.

    Don't give it to her yet. Don't contact her either.

    Wait a while to see if there's any movement from her, if there is no movement, don't contact you again, and call the police if you feel that the situation is more critical!! For example, she called someone to wait for him at the school gate, or near his house (nowadays hooligans are pretending to be a large group of people in broad daylight, either waiting at the school gate or near someone's house).

    If you call the police in advance, when the time comes, people will pay the bills, and if it is not easy to do, I will advise you, and you can't afford to be a gangster.

    Don't pester their number.

    Let's not cause trouble, if people mess with us, they won't be killed.

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