What should I do when my dad is abused by my mom and my mom kicks my dad away?

Since mom is so strong and dad is so weak, then you can forget it. You're still a kid, and you can't change what happens between them. You better study hard, try to get into a university well, and when you grow up in the future, you can interfere between them.

If your words are heard by them, then you say them. If they don't listen, I think you'd better be your own business. Try to make yourself better. You really don't know about this? What happened directly to Mom and Dad?

You can only persuade your mother to give you a complete home, often cry for your father, and then contact your father, and persuade your father to be kind to your mother, take the initiative to admit mistakes, so that you can go back to this home, you can only be a peacemaker!

If you can accept the separation of your parents, then you should persuade your father to divorce for the sake of his happiness and his dignity.

Your mother is so strong, is it that most of your family's income is earned by your mother. If a man has a little money, he won't be ridden on the head by a woman and insulted like this, if others also resist. Or is your mom rich or something?

Summary. You say that you insulted your mother and father in a very emotional situation? First of all, it must be a very sincere apology. Regardless of the reason for the matter, it is not right to scold. So you have to apologize first.

You say that you insulted your mother and father in a very emotional situation? First of all, it must be a very sincere apology. Regardless of the reason for the matter, it is not right to scold. So you have to apologize first.

When you ask questions, you show that you are aware of the inappropriateness of your actions. Next, let's see how to make up for it, can we?

But the mother did not accept it and was very angry.

And said things like regretting giving birth to me.

Can you tell the teacher why you were so emotional that day? My mother may have been frightened as well, so she said <> such things

Don't worry, let the teacher come with you and think of a way again.

My dear, I believe that you must be very remorseful at this moment. The teacher also believes in you, and I will never be so excited as I was this time. Your parents may have been frightened by your words at the time, so they also spoke hard.

The teacher advises you that if you apologize once, then two or three times. Buy some more gifts for the two elders. Let them see that you sincerely apologize.

At the same time, the teacher also suggested that you can learn better communication methods in the future. Have a great day!

Advise your dad to quit bars, if your dad has domestic violence and it is particularly serious, then you have to protect your mom, you don't know the severity of hitting someone after drinking. Can you separate or separate, don't let your mom innocently be hurt because of your dad's threat of not eating or drinking.

Child, I guess you must be young, but I don't know if you're a boy or a girl, if your dad is beating and scolding your mom, you cry loudly, and that gets your mom and dad to get their attention, and your dad will stop scolding your mom. This way you won't have your dad hitting your mom.

No matter what happens to family members, they should not start beating others, because this not only hurts family affection, but also has no way to fundamentally solve the problem; moreover, if family members are frequently beaten and scolded, it not only violates the provisions of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law, but once it becomes domestic violence, it may also constitute a crime.

You can communicate with your dad regularly and try to change his overdrinking. If this is not possible, relevant measures can be taken through legal means.

In this case, only you are the best intermediary, communicate more, and use your sincerity as a daughter to impress your father.

Hide. Run! Mommy, Mommy, Mommy, come back, okay, and then my Mom, Run, Zhao Duoduo.

There's a show to settle feelings.

This problem can be turned to the police.

You should ask them why they hit me.

I myself do not approve of comforting the child afterwards while criticizing the father's behavior, which only psychologically deepens the child's resentment against the father's rough behavior and the mother's failure to stop it in time. In front of their children, parents must maintain consistency in their education, so that they can make clear the boundaries between acceptable and unacceptable behaviors in their children's hearts. When the child is punished, I recommend:

On the one hand, sympathize with the child's feelings, and comfort the child by saying: "It must be very painful, it seems that Dad is angry!" When a child is recognized, he thinks about his or her own misbehavior, rather than adding to the painful memory.

On the other hand, there are many ways to communicate with the child's father in private, and the child is not used to fight. Despite the bad reputation of spanking children, some parents still do it. Spanking usually occurs when educating children, and traditional methods such as threats and reasoning have failed at the end of the resort.

It is not planned, but after the parents' patience reaches the limit, it will release the tension accumulated in the parents' hearts, and let the children be obedient for a while. Hitting a child should be as unacceptable as a traffic accident. Spanking should not be a prescribed method of admonishing a child, even if it is always unavoidable once in a while.

In the process of teaching children, it is almost impossible to never hit children. But we can't plan for that. We should use corporal punishment as a response to a child's provocation, or to our own anger.

Because it teaches us no, it teaches children to deal with setbacks in bad ways. It vividly tells the child: "When you are angry or frustrated, don't look for a solution, hit."

That's what your parents did. "We didn't show our child our ingenuity, we didn't find a more civilized outlet for our anger, we gave our child more than just a savage feeling, and at the same time gave him a license to hit someone. The biggest thing about corporal punishment is that it can hinder the development of a child's moral conscience.

Hitting a child can very easily remove the child's guilt, the child has already paid the price for the misbehavior, so he will redo it very casually. Children will develop a method of doing bad things that can be called 'bookkeeping': they will allow themselves to do something wrong, write it down, and pay the bill in installments with a weekly or monthly beating.

Every once in a while, they provoke their parents, invite a beating, and sometimes, they just ask for punishment, or punish themselves. Therefore, when children have better ways to express guilt and anger, and when parents learn better ways to make and enforce restrictions, the need for such corporal punishment decreases. By showing empathy and understanding for the child's various emotions, we help the child become emotionally intelligent.

We show respect in setting limits on their unacceptable behavior and enforcing them, so that children are prepared to respect the rules of society. Best wishes!

It seems that you mother is not mature enough! Ay! It's definitely not right to hit someone.

The way of education needs to be changed. Afterwards, analyze with the child why the child was beaten, how to correct the child's mistakes, and tell the child that parents love their children before they hit them.

You have a lot of ideas, and educating couples should be carried out at the same time, and they must maintain consistent opinions before they let go.

Only when a child knows that he is really wrong will he correct his own approach. But after the child is beaten, you have to talk to the child, you have to do it from the front, you can't deny the child's father's point of view, don't give up all your efforts, you have to let you understand the reason for the beating, and hope that the child will work hard to correct his shortcomings and study hard, so that the father will not be angry again. In fact, dad wants to see his child the best, so that he will give dad the capital to be proud of, make him happy, and let the child understand what is:

If you don't teach, it's your father's fault. That's Daddy's principle!

You should explain to the child that the father's actions are inappropriate, but the father is for the good of the child, he hates iron and steel, and the knowledge and methods are rough, and sometimes the child does something that makes the father angry, so you must understand the father, he himself is tempered. It would be nice to be appeased in this way.