Why is the world so realistic, and how realistic is the world

If I guessed correctly, you're a girl.

Possibility one, he really has low self-esteem. A man has the dignity of a man, and he thinks that he is not capable of taking up his responsibilities.

Possibility two, he is retreating as advancing, and the more she says this, the more guilty you will feel, so as to win sympathy.

Possibility three, he empathized and said goodbye, just looking for an excuse.

Possibility four, your parents want to obstruct you, and they can't put pressure on you secretly.

Possibility five, you may really unconsciously express your dissatisfaction with his family background on some occasions.

Possibility six, you gave him too much material aid, which made him feel uncomfortable, and he was afraid of being accused of being a little white face.

Possibility seven, you are too controlling, you unconsciously reveal too much control on some issues, and he can't be the master, thus hurting his dignity as a man.

There are many possibilities, in short, there is a cause and an effect, and there is no unprovoked thing.

It's not a matter of family background.

The real purpose of this is to find a high-sounding reason to leave you, saying that it is fake to say that it is not worthy of you, that it does not like you, and that it is true that it wants to leave you. In order to reject you tactfully, without hurting you, that's all.

If others don't like you, choose to leave. I don't know if love is a fairy tale, but love can't be forced is the truth.

Love is the pursuit of ideals.

When you are young, you may not see how realistic the world is, but you always hear your parents say that other people's children, even though they are now grown up, but with each age there will be different things that will tell you how realistic the world is.

Just like most teachers like children with good grades and obedientness, and those who are not well-behaved and rebellious are always stared at by teachers, but this is nothing, and there are many more realistic things.

I don't know if you have gained friendship in college, anyway, I don't, some people in the university are realistic, they can't wait to pull you together when they need you, and when they don't need you, she doesn't know who you are, and she won't even say hello when she meets while walking.

There are always people who go to great lengths to build a good relationship with the counselor, and many people have the psychology of comparison, no matter in that aspect.

When you enter the society, you will find that the salary and work are very realistic, those who have a good job and a high salary, there are always people who come to talk to him, even relatives and friends are very realistic, when you have money, everything is easy to say, when you are in trouble, no one cares, except for a few sincere, but very few.

No one will do anything for you without hesitation, even if you invite someone else, it seems that she is not happy, so you have to rely on yourself, except for your parents, probably no one in this world will help you unconditionally, maybe parents are sometimes realistic, but after all, they gave birth to us and raised us, we have to repay such a great favor, as for the rest, it doesn't matter.

If you don't have anything to do, you don't have any skills, it's probably a problem to start a family, there's no way, this is the reality, just like most college students can't look down on.