First love is a compulsory course in life, what do you learn in your first love?

I learned how to love someone in my first love, and I also learned not to make promises in love.

First love is the first step towards maturity, and everyone will gain a lot in the process. Although most first loves end in a breakup, this emotional experience has made everyone understand love better than before.

I've learned how to love someone, but that understanding comes at the cost of loss. At the time of first love, in fact, everything was a little ignorant, and most of the various behaviors in getting along with two people were instinctive. Maybe it's because I don't have enough theoretical knowledge, or maybe it's because I haven't had such a life experience, which makes me seem a little clumsy.

In the process of getting along with each other, I finally understood how to please someone, and finally understood how to love and care for someone. But when I understood this, love was on the verge of loss.

I tried to redeem it, but in the end, I still didn't hold on to the love that fell off the cliff. I feel like I've learned a lot, but I've also lost a lot.

Don't make promises in a relationship unless you can do it, and I think that's what I learned in my first love. Perhaps for a man, making promises in love is an instinctive thing. Of course, when a promise is made, it is sincere, but there are not too many people who can actually fulfill it.

When promises are not fulfilled again and again, lies are ruthless harm to love. A heart may be slowly cooled down in such a relationship, until there is no longer the slightest expectation of a person.

I used to make too many promises, but I couldn't really do much. I thought a lot of things were not difficult, but there was so little we could do in life.

First love is an important test for everyone, you will experience joys and sorrows, you will experience the entanglement of beauty and sorrow. After all this, you will grow, but this growth is often accompanied by heartache.

Cherish your first love, this may be the person you love most in your life.

In my first love, I learned to cherish. Because when I was with my first love, I didn't know how to cherish each other. caused the two to break up.

First love is very beautiful for everyone, and it also makes me feel in my first love that only feelings without any interest will be more sincere, and it will also make you more memorable.

In my first love, I learned that people have to live realistically, and they can't rush to the end by relying on feelings alone, and two people must also have material satisfaction together, so that they can live a lifetime.

I learned the difference between love and marriage in my first love, when you fall in love, you can find the person you like, but you must find the right one when you get married.

What I learned in my first love was to be good to my lover and to pamper her.

I think everyone generally learns how to fall in love in their first love, and maybe in their first love, many people may learn a lot of experience.

Look at a person's character, what attracts him in the end, and he will make himself excellent.

Love is a very important part of life, whether it is a first love or a long-term relationship, it will make people grow and learn more things. In the process of falling in love, there will be many things that you have not experienced before, and today I will share some of the things I learned in love.

First, I learned to be inclusive. In love, it is impossible to completely match each other's ideas, and differences between each other are inevitable. And tolerance is a virtue, we need to respect each other's ideas, understand each other's positions, and make appropriate concessions, so that the relationship can be long-lasting and boring.

Second, I learned to caring. Two people in love need to pay attention to each other's feelings and help each other solve problems. In a relationship, we will encounter a lot of challenges and need to have someone by our side.

Caring is a kind of responsibility and obligation, which requires us to care for each other with our hearts and make each other feel happy and warm.

Again, I learned to communicate. In a relationship, we need to learn to listen to each other's voices and understand each other's needs. Communication is a very important part, if both parties cannot understand each other, it is easy to have misunderstandings and conflicts.

Therefore, we need to learn to communicate in the right way in order to build a good relationship.

In the end, I learned to cherish. Love is a beautiful relationship, we need to cherish this relationship, and manage this lover with our hearts. In love, we need to know how to be grateful and have real feelings for each other in order to make the relationship last for a long time.

In short, falling in love is a very precious experience, and through falling in love, we learn many useful things. Tolerance, caring, communication, and cherishing are some of the qualities we need to learn in a relationship.

I learned what love is, and I also know how to cherish feelings, and the memory of first love is the most beautiful.

I learned from my first love that you must have a bottom line in being a man, and you can't make unconditional concessions for a person, which will only make him look down on himself and put himself in a passive position.

I learned how to love someone, and I also learned a truth, that is, no matter how much the other party loves you, you can't be too willful, otherwise the other party will be unbearable one day.

I've learned not to love too much, to overwhelm the other person, and to ruin my relationship in the end.

I learned from my first love that two people's efforts should be almost equal, and it is not good for one person to give too much unilaterally.

Learn to give, two people together must pay together, only pay will there be gains, can not just enjoy without paying.

I learned from my first love that no matter what, you should not be rash or too willful.

I learned that not all feelings can have a beginning and an end, and that in addition to feelings, there are many factors such as family background, educational background, father and daughter, etc.

1. After breaking up, I always feel that the person I fell in love with for the first time is the most perfect.

Perhaps in response to the saying: "What you can't get, is always the best." "I don't know how to cherish it when I'm together, and I regret it when I break up, how many people are like this?

My colleague Xiaofu has a first love in a long-distance relationship, but she is always heard questioning her boyfriend's splitting legs, and always verifying her boyfriend's loyalty through various ways. Finally, a year ago, a long-distance relationship of 2 years broke up.

Under the arrangement of the family, a blind date was arranged during the New Year. But after nearly 10 blind dates, they still couldn't make eye contact. Only after chatting privately did she know that she always compared her first boyfriend with her blind date, and in contrast, she still felt that her first love was the best.

But since you think the person you fell in love with for the first time is good, why do you choose to let go? Xiaofu said that long-distance relationships are not easy. Well, yes, long-distance relationships are not easy, but some people are successful in long-distance relationships and get married.

When you get along, it is important to cherish the time you spend together and trust each other. Don't wait until you break up to regret it.

2. First love will tell you what needs to be improved.

Breaking up with your first love can be painful and angry. Why is he so good, but his first love still has to break up with him?

First love will tell you, for example, that you don't know how to get along with the opposite sex, and that you don't say it when you're angry. Your boyfriend is not a worm in your heart, what you think, you won't guess if you don't say it.

So when you're angry, you must say it, don't be sulking alone, and you're still angry that your boyfriend doesn't understand you?

3. Respect the one who can tolerate your shortcomings.

Love is like a scale, both parties are equal, and neither party needs to compromise. But we often see some girls who are very pretentious, and they die of love when they write.

My colleague Xiaoshan is a very beautiful girl, and her boyfriend is her first love and her classmate. Her boyfriend is really a twenty-four filial boyfriend to her, and she has a date with Xiaoshan at 2 o'clock, and she can wait downstairs at Xiaodan's house until 4 o'clock. Just because Xiaodan wanted to put on makeup, it took two hours to match the whole makeup and clothes, but Xiaodan's boyfriend still had no complaints about this.

But the thing that killed Xiaodan's first love was that when Xiaoshan was having dinner with her boyfriend's friends, Xiaoshan suddenly lost her temper with her boyfriend's friends because of a trivial matter, and left her boyfriend behind. After that, Xiaodan's boyfriend told Xiaoshan that he couldn't stand Xiaodan's temper anymore and broke up resolutely.

My first love made me know that a man must not be dead set on a woman, and any mountain alliance and sea oath are just self-inflicted.

What my first love taught me is to be sincere to others, and not to always say cruel things, which will hurt others and hurt myself. If there is any problem, everyone sits down and talks about it, as long as you are calm and don't sulk, both of you have a chance to be together.

I learned not to put all my energy on each other, to have my own space, not to lose my life.

Learned to be tolerant. There are no perfect people in the world, and the relationship can last only if you accept each other's shortcomings and understand each other's imperfections.

My first love taught me not to break up easily. Even if he loves me again, he won't allow me to mess around every time, and he won't tolerate me saying that I want to give up my feelings for a little thing.

My first love taught me that when you are not as good at learning as another person, you will be abandoned, and I learned that as long as you are a good person, you will be a bright spot everywhere.

When I first fell in love, I always felt that I was not worthy of him, but he made me understand that if I love someone, I will accept all of him.

My first love taught me how to love someone, and how to tolerate someone, less willful, and more tolerant.

Before starting a relationship, you should treat your emotions rationally and follow your heart, so that you are responsible for yourself and others.

Let me learn how to know if a person really loves you, and it also made me understand that the twisted melon is really not sweet, and happiness still needs to be fought for by yourself.

I've learned to be calm, because whatever happens will eventually pass, just like I'm doing well.

So nothing worth having comes too easily. If you can't get it, don't want it. There is the pain of losing and the regret of gaining.

He told me that I broke up, I cried and dropped out of school, learned Japanese, went to a university in Japan, learned to take care of myself alone, learned to ride a bicycle, and learned to hold back my anger.

I learned to be strong, I used to cry when I encountered anything, but he made me learn to be strong, and I had to calm down and solve it slowly after encountering things.

In my first love, I learned how to love someone, and if I have promised the other person, I must do my best to fulfill this promise, because commitment is not only a vow, but also a responsibility.

"Learn to do more of your own things" is what my ex said to me, and then I slowly became a person who can do a lot of things on my own, and I suddenly felt that I was very different from myself when I was busy living in my studies and work every day.

Taught me not to love too much, taught me that people are not irreplaceable, taught me not to believe too much in the sweet words of other people's mouths, and taught me how to see the scumbag clearly, because he is.

Because of the remote location, it taught me to be independent, to eat, to shop, and to go to the supermarket. It's all one person. I thought we would be independent of each other and get together after a long time, but in the end, I broke up.

Love yourself more, don't devote yourself to the other person, give him more space, and trust.

I learned how to love someone and be loved, saw that someone who loves you will really have light in their eyes, and I also learned to force myself to let go for the sake of her happiness.

Nothing is more important than self-esteem and one's own life, to forgive, but not to reconcile again.

During high school, I fell in love with a classmate who didn't know if it was a straight man, and inadvertently discovered my orientation, and was entangled and painful between reality and liking him, and he would occasionally jokingly ask me if I liked him, and I kept avoiding it with reason, and for 2 years after that, I didn't say those three words; During college, confessed to him in an embarrassing scene ......Then, there is no then experience:1Don't like a friend who looks down and doesn't look up2

Orientation to this kind of thing, it's really scary, it's okay when you don't know, after you know, you can only stand alone on the balcony at night and blow the cold wind 3If you really fall in love with someone, you will know that love is not only hormonal secretion, but you also have to be mentally prepared to fight the whole world4Realistic love is full of rationality, sometimes you have to learn to let go, love is not the whole of life.

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