College students are realistic when it comes to love, what are your thoughts on this?

Personally, I think that when you fall in love in college, there is no absolute should or shouldn't, everyone's emotional experience is different, you shouldn't deliberately pursue it or avoid it, when love comes to you, sometimes you can't refuse, but you must not look at others who have boyfriends and girlfriends, out of vanity, just find one at random and solve the face problem. As for the practicality of college students falling in love, in fact, the feelings of the student era are relatively innocent, some people will say that it is too unrealistic, it depends on how you choose, the key is whether you want emotional love or rational love, and if you want emotional love, you don't have to think too much about realistic things, because love may be your powerful motivation, and you can work hard to get everything without it (material aspects); If you want rational love, then you should start to be rational in college, you should consider all factors, including spiritual and material aspects you have to think clearly, so there is nothing to say, nothing to do, everyone has their own way of living, the key is to recognize what kind of love you want?

College love actually doesn't have such strong requirements for material aspects, because each other hasn't worked hard in society, so two people are more likely to be together after weighing the pros and cons, but like each other.

How do you understand "reality"? If it means that you know what you want and will put in the effort to get what you want, it is not a big problem, and it is good to know that you create the future as soon as possible

The love of college students is indeed very realistic, and the university is already half of society, and love is also very realistic.

Now a lot of girls are indeed a reality, many times looking for a boyfriend just to solve economic problems, and not to deliver the sincerity to the past, sometimes it is also a kind of play mentality, change one after another and do not cherish themselves too much, this kind of mentality is not very good, mainly consumerism caused by people's desire is getting stronger and stronger, consumerism caused by human nature is more and more alienated, the personization, so there will be various phenomena in the era of entertainment to death, some things have become exaggerated and exaggerated, That's why there is a realistic phenomenon of female students in love.

But on the other hand, society is developing, many women are becoming more and more independent, many times the kind of open-minded, independent girls, female college students are very open, they will not say very realistic, they have their own pursuits and ideas, they can dare to say that they are more and more women and better and better, so some female college students are very realistic in love, which is understandable, but the overall ** is getting better and better.

In fact, it's not just female college students who are "realistic" in terms of love, but many girls nowadays who are very realistic in love.

Many "realistic" problems have gathered together, resulting in a lot of "leftover men and women".

This is not a personal problem, it is a social reality.

In ancient times, our predecessors hoped that "the right person", but it was criticized by modern people for a while, in fact, on the other hand, this "right door" is not useless, it is so disrespectful. This also shows a problem, both men and women need to face their own objective conditions objectively and correctly, otherwise they will really see flowers in the fog and fail to understand the essentials.

The current "leftover men and women" generally show disdain when they say that they are "leftover fighters", basically thinking that they are very good, those men and women are not worthy of themselves, and the work is very, very ......Very busy, not so much free time to make friends. This seems like a fair reason, but it doesn't hold water.

Many leftover women think that they don't have a boyfriend because the man is not good enough to be worthy of him, which is the "sour grapes" mentality. Now that you make friends, isn't it just that you are picking on others, but also on men? So which one doesn't look at the other, and it doesn't have to be.

Nowadays, women have a strange theory: if you want to find it, you have to find a rich one, otherwise you don't look for it, and rich men are not "sitting in a row" for you to choose. One day fantasize that one day there is a golden man riding a white horse to propose, and he wants you to be his bride, this kind of thinking is not impossible, it is understandable to dream, I am afraid it is difficult to get reality, the key also depends on what you have that makes these golden men value.

Now there are statistics, the age of becoming a rich man is about 30 years old, due to the increasing pressure of social competition, it has been postponed to about 35 to 40 years old, it is conceivable that men are 40 years old, and they may have children in primary school, so if you want to be a rich man, a woman must at least be prepared to be a stepmother, a lover and a "few milks".

In the past, most of people's first loves happened in college, but now many people's first loves happen in high school, when we fall in love with someone for the first time, not because of how much financial ability he has, but because this person is what we like, but then we broke up.

People who have experienced a love actually know better what they want, and the university is really a place that changes people's three views, when those girls around you are beautiful and the quality of life is obviously better than your own, you will actually envy and want to have such a life.

Girls are beauty lovers, when the most popular clothes, there are girls in your dormitory or class who can learn it immediately, and the lipsticks she uses are all big brands, and the skin care products she uses are all big brands, and the lipsticks you use may be stained in a big cup when you drink saliva, and the skin care products you use may not be able to make your ** better.

At this time, you will also want to use that kind of big brand, good-looking lipstick, you also want big brand skin care products, you also want the best cosmetics, and the most fashionable clothes, but these all need money, when they understand the gap between rich and poor life, they will no longer be so simple to love the boy who makes their hearts move, she will fall in love with the boy who can live this way.

Now people themselves are more realistic, and female college students are very realistic in love, thinking that this is also very normal, after all, they all live in society, and they can also feel that all aspects of love need to be realistic in school, because if you are not realistic, you can't last long, and you can't add love, and it will go on, this is a real idea and love concept of modern people has changed a lot, and it is very realistic and normal, and it can be understood.

This is also quite normal.

Many female college students after watching love stories.

Let's look at what's happening in reality.

Of course, the mind cleared.

You can only be realistic about your love.

Or think that it is better to live materially.

At the same time, look at the contradictions after marriage in the play, and even divorce.

Realist love is also correct.

No way, because female college students are too old, female college students are generally 19 or 18 years old, 20 years old in college, at this time people have passed the beginning of the love and the beginning of the bean years, so at this time, the feelings are not pure, this purity is the cardamom years, sixteen or seventeen years old high school and high school, at that time, the feelings are more innocent, more romantic, college students are already very limited.

It shows that such people are not all, and with more and more modern material enjoyment, spiritual and moral cultivation has not kept up, there will be many such girls. And no matter what, we shouldn't be influenced by such girls, we should look for girls who are suitable for us, and are willing to work hard together.

Now some female college students are very realistic in love, in fact, it has a lot to do with the pressure of social life, I think this more realistic relationship often has a certain material basis, in support.

Now people in this society have become very realistic, and female college students are no exception, such a performance is simple and pure, not a bad thing, but it shouldn't be too realistic, and it still needs to be based on love.

It's right to be realistic when it comes to love. Because most people are blind in love. There is only the beauty of love. But after marriage, in the face of reality, there may be constant friction, contradictions, and even divorce. It's better to be realistic before marriage and analyze all the problems clearly.

The phenomenon of college students who are very "realistic" is still a minority, these female college students are educated, educated, and qualified, and they will not do things that they should not do in love, they are those girls with poor quality and who pursue a very luxurious life are princesses at home, so she is very "realistic" in love This is also a very individual college student.

Love is romantic, but it will always be conditioned by reality. And female college students, who are both eager for romance and have to pay attention to reality, such as geography, family, wealth, etc., are normal, but it has to be said that love is as important as bread.

Nowadays, it is very common for some female college students to be very realistic in love, which also shows that female college students are very pragmatic now, because they all know that things in reality are much more realistic than things in fantasy and verbal promises, so it is more conducive to their future life after marriage.

What is reality?

Do you think it's realistic to talk about money? No, another way of saying reality is called the exchange of interests.

And you say that she wants material conditions, which is reality; Do you have any pictures of her?

You must also want something from her, whether it is appearance, personality, figure, or even sex, you must have something to ask for.

This is not a shame, people who have no desires and no desires have long been empty, and they have long seen through the red dust and become monks.

Why is it that when you ask people to be with you because of these demands, they are actually pulled out to discuss the actual conditions and material conditions?

Do you think it's vulgar to talk about money in a relationship? No, if you want a good character, if you want to be good-looking, if you want to have a good character, if you want to be rich, or even if you want to live a good life, these are all conditions that each of us prescribes, and there is no distinction between noble and inferior in nature.

The law of the jungle, sometimes people are realistic, and it may be good for themselves.

On this topic is actually very controversial, some people think that love is free, what do you want to talk about, some people think that college students fall in love, it's just play, in my opinion, college students can be free to fall in love but don't be abusive, after all, four years of college, is the youth of two people, a person is not a few years of youth, if you want to talk about it, don't talk about it, don't think that Aquaman has more NB, and talking about multiple objects at the same time will only make yourself cheaper, there is a heart word in the middle of the word love, Love is to talk about it with the heart, in college without money and not in the house of love is the purest, not polluted by the world, this is not the most primitive look of love, we college students, in addition to studying, more is early contact with society, for love we also know since childhood, now fast-paced love, like to talk about the novelty of the dislike of the split, such a love experience is no longer in love, to be an ordinary friend is also like this, to talk about the object, just talk about it, don't hold the object's hand and think about other brothers and sisters, What is not as good as the ex is not romantic, it is already nothing to do with others and compared with others, if people are good, why don't you know how to cherish, how can you become an ex, what I want to say is, don't remember the expectations of the ex on the current one, don't let the current bear the scars of the ex, I am also a college student, love is simple, from time to time both parties create a little surprise for each other, two people go both ways, is the best look of love.

From my point of view, it's normal for college students to fall in love. Let's talk about my view of love, I hope to find the kind that can be talked about for a long, long time, if we can get married in the end, it would be better, to be honest, we are all human beings, and sex is also sexual, which is normal. I like a sentence very much - liking a person starts with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character.

In love, I think it's important for both people to respect each other and understand each other. If it is particularly handsome, since ancient times, the concept of the family has also had a certain influence on the present. Like some time ago, isn't there the second princess of Xtep who married the son of seven wolves.

So you don't have to be handsome to find a partner, just be on the same frequency as yourself.

Then, if you're going to really start a relationship, sincerity is always nirvana. During this period, if there is any conflict, the two of them must sit down and talk and discuss.

Finally, when college students fall in love, understand that it is to think about what benefits the two of you can bring to both of you, rather than thinking about eating, drinking, and having fun all day long, preferably both can promote mutual growth.

1. Now college students fall in love is a personal freedom, but many people do not have the concept of love when they fall in love, and some people use money as the benchmark for the pursuit of love. I don't have a sense of responsibility and long-term planning. It is equivalent to advancing one's own love and allowing unscrupulous sex, which we should oppose.

2. There are also many people who think that falling in love is a compulsory course in life when they are in college, but many teachers do not recommend college students to fall in love. Because the mind at this time is not so mature, and the career is not very broad. I haven't really thought hard about choosing a partner.

So there are also a lot of people who oppose it.

3. Some people think that falling in love in college can improve a person's emotional intelligence, increase the person's sense of responsibility, and let him learn to take responsibility. I also think that love in student days is very simple and sincere, and it is very worthy of everyone, and there are also many people who think that college is not a place to fall in love, and personal development and growth are more important in college. So everybody has everybody's thoughts and sayings.

For college students to fall in love, it is also a matter of opinion.