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Personally, I support this point of view, because the love of college students is very simple, and the love in college students is also very sincere and realistic.
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After all, people will grow, and there will definitely be a change in concept and consciousness, and the love of college students is based on material.
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I think it's normal. Because everyone has their own point of view, there is nothing wrong with thinking about it later, and choosing good conditions is also possible to live a better life.
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This must be the case, because today's children know a lot, and it is becoming less and less common to trap others with feelings.
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This phenomenon is relatively normal, this is because there are more types of love in society now, and these people are not particularly emotional about feelings, and they want to go to the end with each other is also relatively strong.
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It's better to be realistic, so that at least you won't be wronged, if it's always ideal, then you will suffer a lot in the future.
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In fact, it is determined by the environment, and everyone is more realistic, because they are all things that adults have to consider, and they are also closer to life, so they are realistic.
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My opinion is the same, and I am very realistic in this regard, because in college it is no longer like high school, they will be more pragmatic and want to get married.
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It should be realistic. Because love must focus on reality, such love can be meaningful and have a future. Love that is not based on reality is a bubble.
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In fact, I think this is a normal move, college students are adults, so you should be realistic when choosing love, after all, the final goal is also to get married.
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The outlook on love is a reflection of the outlook on life. The concept of love has different contents in different historical periods, influenced and restricted by different economic conditions, social systems, and ideological and cultural states, and continues to develop and change with the development of society.
The concept of love is people's fundamental view and attitude towards love, and its content mainly includes: what is love, the essence of love, and the position of love in social life and personal life, mate selection criteria, how to deal with broken love, etc. The concept of love is a reflection of the outlook on life.
The concept of love has different contents in different historical periods, due to the influence and constraints of different economic conditions, social systems, and ideological and cultural states, and continues to develop and change with social development.
The modern concept of love is based on the premise of the common ideals and goals of both parties, based on free love, and taking the joint responsibility and moral obligation as its own responsibility.
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The love of college students is actually not so realistic, when you go to the society, you will find that all love relationships have material and weigh the pros and cons, but the love in college is the most sincere.
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Love includes love, love is one-sided, when a person constructs an association with another person from the spiritual level, a carrier formed in the brain that can be infinitely amplified.
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If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind painting a sad fan.
Eighteen-year-old rainy season, eighteen-year-old love, it was a wonderful college time.
After experiencing the hectic and stressful state of study and life in high school, it is a wonderful thing for you to stand out and be admitted to your dream university.
In college, you will meet more and better people of the opposite sex, and the pressure and tension of studying can be slightly more relaxed than in high school. As a result, love on college campuses has sprung up, and we can see it everywhere.
Whether you want to admit it or not, many people fall in love in college, belong to the appearance association, and are an out-and-out appearance control. Their love, looks first, everything else is a floating cloud. This kind of love comes and goes quickly.
Because of the lack of understanding of each other, it can be said that as long as you are beautiful or handsome, you will be together. It's like when you were a child, you liked a toy, you tried hard, cried and made trouble and asked your parents to buy it for you, and after playing for a while, you found that you didn't like the toy very much.
No matter how beautiful love is, as long as the pursuit is different, it is difficult to continue. Of course, it doesn't matter who gives up for whom, it's just that you are pursuing a different way of life. Just imagine, even if one party gives up for the other, the results will not be satisfactory.
Perhaps I shallowly believe that the difference in pursuit will bring about the difference in the values of the whole life. Or maybe I'm underestimating the power of love.
But the facts did not lie, and the results did not deceive. I don't deny that there is such a love, and most people still accept this reality and live their own lifestyles from then on.
Ideals, pursuits, and realities, in my opinion, are themselves contradictions. In this irreconcilable contradiction, a breakup is an inevitable result.
The former alliance will still be defeated by reality in the end. When the graduation season comes, those words to comfort yourself: I don't regret my dreams, I just hate being too hurried. If life is only as it first seems. It's better to lie to yourself.
How normal it is to go their separate ways, but it is intertwined with love, which seems so beautiful and desolate. Maybe the separation, the brief separation is for a better reunion next time. Perhaps, this separation is forever.
Between love and reality, we will eventually have to choose, which is why the love in college cannot last long.
I know that no one will regret such love, but such a pure and beautiful love is destined to become a thing of the past with the advent of graduation season.
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1. Compared with the previous 20 years of college students, today's college students pay more attention to the immediacy of love, and regard love as an independent life task rather than a long-term life goal such as marriage. The diversification of love is accompanied by the development of the Internet, which makes college student love no longer so serious and sacred. 2. Simply most students fall in love like the heroes and heroines in Qiong Yao's pen, there is no pressure of real life, and the first priority of men and women is to fall in love seriously.
And love is never separated from the solid earth, and love that is divorced from real life is easy to "see the light and die". 3. Spiritual characteristics dominate college students' choice of lovers, and they pay more attention to mutual recognition at the spiritual level, and the material exchange and peer-to-peer in secular life will not affect college students; College students even pursue pure love once. 4. Natural and casual college students believe more in fate, and when faced with unexplained emotional entanglements, students will explain the changes in emotions with fate.
5. Rationality and sensibility coexist, and college students have both emotional impulses and rational thinking when choosing their lovers. Think more about whether the two parties are suitable for each other, and put the feeling of being very happy together in the top of the list. However, planning for the future life is not mentally prepared, and it is often difficult to pass the test of reality when faced with major life issues such as career choices.
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I think it's a normal thing because if you don't be realistic with the other person, the other person will be realistic with you, and it hurts us more.
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Because the social pressure is very high now, if it is not realistic, my life in the future will also be very stressful, and it is very bad, I think it is good to be realistic.
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Female college students are about to enter society, so it is normal to be realistic in love, and girls can't always be stupid and sweet.
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I think so too, because these female college students know that love is very difficult, so it is very realistic.
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Because the current social pressure is relatively large, the price is also very high, and girls have certain requirements for the quality of life, which is naturally more realistic.
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Because life is very stressful now, female college students are very realistic in terms of love, which is in line with the current society, if there is no money and no material, they will not be happy after marriage.
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Love in college is a cultivation for me, and what I have gained the most from regret is growth. No matter what kind of shell is wrapped on the outside, when it goes deep into the most essential core of life, in one emotion after another, what kind of pain and sweetness, torment and patience are experienced without funny theory, and in the end, they all turn into inner transformation again and again. Maybe ordinary people can't see it.
A lot of people look at me and think that I haven't changed much from what I was 20 years ago. It's even the same appearance. But only I know that I am growing along the way. That's the biggest takeaway from every relationship, and I think that's the most important experience.
When we leave, this love becomes a blessing to each other. I laugh and point out that they come to this world to grow, whether it is family, friendship, or love; It's the same whether it's work, writing, or starting a business. We must learn to grow in the process.
The reason why two people come together is to grow together, not to ask for each other. The most feared thing is that one grows and the other doesn't keep up. Such an emotion is destined to have a lot of shortcomings, and each other will feel tired.
Those who can't catch up will feel tired. In fact, people who can't wait will also feel tired.
True love begins with the mutual attraction of two souls. One day, the two men turned their heads at the same time and looked at each other one more time; Or one day, two people recognize each other at a glance in the crowd, and just like that, that person is engraved in the depths of their souls.
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Loving love in college was a very special experience for me that can have an impact in the following ways:
Feel strong emotions: College students are in adolescence and have strong emotional needs, and a true love can satisfy their inner desires. In this beautiful emotional relationship, college students can feel sweetness, tenderness, and attachment, which can also make them cherish and appreciate the happiness they have more.
Learn to tolerate and understand each other: In a relationship, in addition to sharing joy and sharing, it is inevitable to encounter each other's shortcomings or conflicts. At this time, college students can learn to be sexually and tolerant in the process of giving and understanding, so as to better face future emotional challenges.
Develop a sense of responsibility and maturity: A good relationship requires not only emotional investment, but also a certain amount of responsibility. By dealing with relationships, college students develop a sense of responsibility and maturity in them, which is extremely important for their interpersonal skills and career development.
Exploring the Self and the Future: In love, college students can try to understand their innermost desires and beliefs, as well as their expectations for the future. In this way, we can deeply internalize the meaning of the love relationship and prepare ourselves for how to deal with more possible options.
To sum up, college students' pursuit of sincere feelings is not too empty or childish, on the contrary, a beautiful and mutually cherished relationship is positive for self-worth and growth.
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College students focus on improving their abilities in school.
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