Do the people who shouted Dink before regret it now?

I think someone should regret it, but it's not bad to live in a two-person world. The word Dink first appeared in the 80s of the 20th century, when society was gradually developing. At that time, many of the first emancipators embraced Dink.

Dink's main point is that the couple chose not to have children for a better quality of life. However, when it spread to our country at that time, it was resisted by most people, because it conflicted with the domestic concept of "unfilial piety is the greatest", leaving a group of people with a firm will to implement it.

In fact, there are two types of dinks. One is a couple who are in normal health, advanced in thought, and actively choose Dink. The other is the husband and wife, who are unwell and forced to accept Dink.

As the cost of living in society increases, there are more and more Dinks. Most of them belong to the first Dink mode, but many have been hesitating on the edge of Dink. First, Dink is in conflict with the ideas of the older generation.

Second, he feared that he would regret it later and that his life in his later years would not be secured. So today, let's see what happened to the earliest Dinks now.

Wang Bo and his wife have been married for 30 years and have never had children. He was one of the first people to voluntarily choose Dink. At first, he was shaken and opposed by his family.

However, as time went on, the opposition became weaker. The reason is that the couple's quality of life is slightly higher than that of families with children. In the past few years of married life, they have traveled to 32 countries.

Compared to their peers, they have always worried about their children's study and marital room, and they have never regretted it.

After seeing the situation of the Dinks, I would like to say that everything in this world has two sides, and Dink also has two sides。If you do decide on Dink, you should also be prepared for the future, especially since everyone has a heart for comparison. If you think you're ready when you watch someone else post their grandchildren, or when you're living in a nursing home, then be brave and do it, no matter what others think.

So I think someone should regret it, but it's not bad to live in a two-person world.

I would have had a hard time with Dink.

I don't think I regret it.

Actually, I must regret it now.

It feels like they should regret it now.

They'll all regret it now.

For most people, marrying someone of the opposite sex after reaching a certain age and having one or two children is a conventional life trajectory. But there are also families where couples choose not to have children for a variety of reasons, and this kind of family is called a "Dink family".

1.In fact, giving birth to a child is quite a painstaking thing, from pregnancy to the child's marriage and childbirth, parents need to be conscientious and full of care. Choosing to be a Dink, couples don't have to face the pressure of having children, and Yamaji can focus on work and life, which will not only reduce stress, but also have more time to be alone with each other, be able to immerse themselves in sweetness, and improve happiness.

2.There may be no one to provide for in old age.

Since he did not have children, it is likely that there will be no one around him to support him in his later years. When people get old, they will be unable to move, and their health will become worse and worse than before, and the probability of getting sick will increase significantly. If you are sick, most of the time you can only take care of each other with two people, and you may envy the elderly who have children.

3.Grandma Wang and Grandpa Wang were the first Dink family, and now they are in their seventies. Through understanding, the husband and wife live a very good life, eat and drink every day, often go out for walks and sports, and occasionally go out to travel.

The two keep each other company, still having the same fun and deep emotions as they did when they were younger. Grandma Wang did not feel lonely, thinking that the pressure and troubles of not having children for decades were very relaxed, she and her wife lived happily and happily, and she did not regret choosing Dink at all.

4.is also Dink's Grandma Liu, her feelings are diametrically opposed to Grandma Wang. Grandma Liu's wife, who is in her seventies, died of illness a few years ago, and she spent a lot of money on illness.

Grandma Liu's brothers and sisters have also passed away one after another, and gradually, it is difficult for her to find someone to talk to in her ordinary life, and her life is even more difficult. Her life is lonely and helpless, and she often regrets and sighs when she faces an empty home alone: it would be nice if she had a child at that time.

Choosing Dink became the thing she regretted the most.