Why does it cost money to fall in love? Give points for answers

In this materialistic society, you don't need to spend money to do anything (except for some spiritual things)...

Other netizens' views on spending money on love: If it's your own money, I'm sure you shouldn't have anything to say.

But if she asks you to buy this and sell that, then you have to be careful.

A good girl will help her boyfriend who knows how to save money.

It depends on how well you are together.

If you haven't been together for a long time, I don't think you should pay for a boy if you don't have a lot of money.

If there is a lot of money, it should be AA system, or this time he invited, next time you will take the initiative to invite, but no matter how you should not come out alone, although two people are together, you should not care too much about money, but make these clear, you can avoid some unnecessary trouble, like going out to play, this is easy to say, tickets or something If he buys it, and then eats bits and pieces, you can buy it, but you don't need to say it, it's too realistic, just be natural, don't be too deliberate. If it's not your first time in love, it's time to give him clothes after half a year together

In order to make up for his own shortcomings, because he doesn't know how to go to the other party's happiness and romance, he pins his hopes and money, hoping to buy back his self-esteem, but it usually works. For a long time, both sides felt that spending money was the most normal thing.

It's not money that should be spent in love, it's the heart, you think about the other person, you want the other person to be happy, you want him to have what he wants to have, or beautiful things, these are all based on the economy, so most people think that love is money, if it's true love, then it's the heart.

Hehe, it costs money to do everything now, it's just a matter of spending more and spending less.

If you don't want to spend money, end the relationship.

This shows that you don't love him or her enough.

I don't have to spend money every day, now it's two people, not just two money, and only when the material satisfaction can I rise to the spirit.

Because it's not too much for you to spend money for your love!! I am, I also spend money for the person I love!!

Don't talk about falling in love, you don't need to spend money to do anything now. What's more, you're going to have a lifelong partner in the future.

If you really like it, you will be willing to spend money for her

Brotherly romance costs money.

A little appropriate spending is what it should be.

Money is reluctant to spend for each other, why should I fall in love with you!

You can also choose not to spend money.

Knocking on the door, unwilling to spend money? Who wants it.

Small money is to be spent, big money, it depends on what kind of person.

Falling in love is about spending money in itself, but under the premise of spending money, whether two people can really come together, the real society, the real people, if true love is to spend more money and spend money willingly, I am afraid that it is not good to deceive feelings under the banner of falling in love, and in the end, the bamboo basket is empty.

I've also seen a lot of men, women, talking about falling in love, men are cheating, women are for money, those who really want to fall in love are scared, I don't know if I should pay real feelings, whether I really dare to spend money for each other, money can be earned again, but if the feelings are hurt, it will not be so easy to earn back.

This question is too one-sided, first of all, spending money must depend on how much money you have, and then how much is the person you are talking about in your heart, take me as an example, not much money, more than thirty, I have been in love a few times, I admit that I am not a particularly generous person, because chasing girls is like an investment, first of all, we must see how much the subject is worth in your heart, I only have one time with a girl regardless of the cost, and I will calculate the cost of the rest.

If the person I am dating now is something I like very much, I will be willing to give a lot, because it is the person I love, I can give everything for her, I will prepare small surprises in ordinary times, and prepare gifts for anniversaries. Girls like rituals, so they usually send more flowers.

When we go out on holidays to go out on dates, watch movies, and eat, I take it for granted. However, if the love is not deep, I will not put so much thought into it, because I know that sooner or later we will be separated, so I will feel that there is no need to give a lot.

But this is just my one-sided idea, and there will definitely be people who think differently from me. Finally, what I want to say is, don't use money to measure in the world of love, love is priceless, if love is expressed by various things, then this love will change its flavor and no longer be sweet.

I'm willing to pay 50% of my salary, and I think that when you fall in love, you need to have a sense of ritual, so you also need to pay money for this ritual, which can also promote the relationship between each other.

I'm still willing to pay, it can be said that it's okay to pay 80,000 yuan, such a **. That is, it is better.

I'm willing to pay a few thousand dollars, after all, I'm still a student myself, so I can't make much money.

I think that when it comes to falling in love, you can't just use money to measure how much you give, I will spend money when it's time to spend it, and the most important thing is to really care about your partner, and sincerity is more important than anything else.

Spending money on each other during a relationship, if it is voluntary, not a loan relationship, then there is no way to ask for a return. Therefore, we should choose the right way to get along with each other and consume.

The general pattern of modern spending money in the relationship between men and women.

1) AA system spends money.

The AA system is a very popular concept of consumption, especially popular in the student group, under the influence of this interpersonal communication model, many students see the advantages of the AA system convenient and fair.

Some time ago, Yanyan told me that she went out to eat with a boy, and after eating, the boy paid first, she thought that the boy was not bad, and she would invite him to drink a cup of milk tea, and the boy suddenly came unexpectedly: "Alipay transferred me 27 yuan for dinner." Yan Yan immediately dispelled the idea of inviting him to drink milk tea.

And that guy has always been single.

2) Boys' all-in approach.

When Ozawa first started working, his salary was not bad, and he had a lot of money left after his living expenses and rent, and then he talked about a girlfriend who was still in college.

Girls in the campus stage are relatively simple, not as realistic as girls who are working, so he loves his girlfriend in every way.

As a result, the longer I went on, I found that my economy couldn't keep up, and the monthly love expenses were too big, and in the end, even the rent became a problem.

At this time, my friend realized that in this relationship, the payment of money seems to have always been his own, every time he eats, watches movies, gives gifts, goes out to play, and even a bottle of mineral water, he pays for himself, and he has not even drunk a cup of milk tea from the other party. Such a relationship made him wonder if he was taking care of a female college student.

3) AB system gifts are still exchanged.

The so-called AB system is "you invite me to dinner, I invite you to watch a movie", "you invite me to watch a movie, I invite you to drink milk tea", the man has a little more, and the girl has a little less.

When Xiaowen and Huizi fall in love, they will always go out to eat, every time Huizi pays for the meal, Xiaowen will take the initiative to pay for the movie, Huizi gives Xiaowen lipstick, and Xiaowen gives Huizi clothes. Definitely won't let Keiko pay all the time.

It's impossible to fall in love without money.

Although I say this in a tone that may be a little too categorical. However, in this era where everything is needed, it has to be said that money is really important.

In the movie In the small era, Gu Li's classic line: Love without material things is a plate of loose sand. Not only does the movie verify this sentence, but the reality reflects this sentence vividly.

First of all, falling in love needs to be maintained with heart, how can you be attentive? In addition to being careful, the indispensable thing is to take action. When it comes to action, we have to support it.

On weekdays, it costs money to go out and play together, and it costs money to buy this and that split spring, and it costs money to have a meal. Ordinary festivals require a sense of ceremony, and you need to spend money and care to prepare gifts. Love needs surprises, occasionally go out to travel together, relax your mood, need fares, road expenses, room fees, ......If you're in a long-distance relationship, you don't usually see each other a few times, but you can't never see each other all the time!

Then when we met, it was the time of hemorrhage in terms of property.

So, whether it's a boy or a girl, hurry up and get money, not for the sake of the mountain, for your other half, but also for yourself, work hard!

Let's just put it this way.

When two people are together, they should be suspicious, don't go out together to dismantle the keys and play, go out to eat, travel to the lead skillfully, watch movies and go shopping, ......

If you don't need it, you don't need money.