Why do we often judge people by their appearance?

It's very realistic. Would you like someone who is fat and fat.

Would you fall in love with someone who doesn't look good?

No way. Man.

It's all about appearances first.

It's like a boy looking at a girl.

Look at the figure, look at the face.

This is already human nature.

So you can't blame people for their appearance.

can only blame the hot and cold world.

The environment can change a person.

The society now.

Only perfect people can survive.

In the world of love.

Beauty is always strong.

There are many great truths that we all understand, but there are few that can be done, and this is human beings, hiding behind hypocrisy. This is not as simple as that of animals.

Because what vision gives us is always the first reaction. Everybody loves beauty, pretty things.

There is a Buddhist saying: practice for a hundred thousand eons.

Phaseless cultivation in an instant.

If you can give up all the laws.

Enlightenment takes a moment.

It is to let us practice without being in the same phase, without the appearance of no one, without self, without the appearance of sentient beings, and without the appearance of those who have no longevity. Only in this way can one be regarded as a person who is wise, self-contained, open-minded, and compassionate.

But why can't I do it? In life and work, I always judge people by their appearance, and from the person's dress, speech and behavior, and even the first look of the person's face, I will put a label on this person in my heart.

The last time I met an aunt who was cleaning in the office, I didn't want to talk to her at a glance, and I didn't want to have anything to do with her. Because I labeled her, vitriol. With a snarky face, without a hint of a smile, with a look of resentment, watching her colleague sprinkle a little water on the ground, she had an urge to scold on her face.

It's just because of my identity, I endure it.

Walking on the street to see a beautiful woman always can't help but take a few more looks, in the subway bus and other public transportation you sit next to a beautiful woman or handsome guy, you will not have too much disgust in your heart, if you can talk to you and ask for directions, you will also be very happy to help, see the innocent face of a child, whether you smile or not, you can't help but want to tease. All of this is because of the expression of our inner mind.

I have a certain amount of experience, many times when I look at people is still relatively accurate, even if I can't see anything at first glance, as long as he opens his mouth to talk a few words, there will be about seven or eight points of accuracy in his heart. Because I found that there are not many people in our lives who can disguise themselves well, especially when it comes to interests, all the inferior roots of human nature will be seen at a glance. Maybe it's because the level of contact I have always been at is not very high.

I have such a cognition, maybe it's also because my own realm is very low, and I still think that I am so powerful, and I think I can see everything after reading a few more broken books. When I feel disgust, indifference, and appreciation, I believe that others will be able to feel it. From this point of view, I still have to practice non-phase.

You need to improve your own realm, to the point where you see that everyone will not put any label on him, and face everyone without joy or sorrow, without good or evil.

Are you also judging people by their appearance, if we come together to cultivate nothing, look at the beauty is a beauty, look at the beauty is not a beauty, and in the end look at the beauty is still a beauty.

Discrimination is not to be confused with judging people by their appearance.

It's not nice to say, shopping guides and salespeople (waiters) are dependent on sales commissions to eat, the higher the sales performance within the unit time, the higher their income, on this basis, for customers, of course, the higher the consumption, the greater the income that can bring him (her).

Based on this, judge people by their appearance, and treat customers who seem to be able to consume more, the more welcome and clever shouting, the higher the level of service. And its treatment of customers with low or no consumption estimates, the service level can not be said to be very low, at least it is also below the normal level (not to say whether it is right to judge people by their appearance, but to distinguish the customer's spending power with their own experience, and then distinguish the service, it is considered the common feature of most industry personnel).

This sounds like there is no professional ethics, but there is nothing wrong with the nature of people who seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, especially in other words, people who feel uncomfortable, most of them are discriminated against or neglected, we can ask rhetorically, the same is a customer, not to mention the problem of being neglected, from another perspective, everyone is a consumer, you pay higher consumption, should you get better and better service, his consumption is low, and the corresponding level of service is not as high as yours.

After talking about judging people by their appearance, let's talk about discrimination.

The word discrimination is not easy to use, and it should actually be a context that devalues the other party. Although it seems bad to judge people by their appearance, it is only out of their own instinct to seek benefits and avoid the difference in the treatment of customers, this difference is reflected in the level of service, but the most basic attitude and service towards customers still have to have.

However, when it comes to discrimination, discrimination is already a demeaning and contemptuous treatment of the other party, not to mention the idea that the service provider treats the customer as God, and it may even disrupt the basic equal relationship between consumers and service providers for mutual benefit and reciprocity, and it is already confused and distorted in thinking.

To put it mildly, this is the dislocation of the host and the guest, losing the position of the service provider, and not being qualified to work in the service industry.

In other words, if you think too highly of yourself and depreciate others, you are already virtuous and degrading at the moral level.

Judging people by their appearance refers to making an evaluation or judgment about a person just by their appearance, without considering aspects such as their inner qualities, abilities, and character. This kind of behavior is wrong, because the appearance does not fully represent a person's inside, and the bend does not reflect the full value and ability of a person.

First of all, a person's appearance does not represent his or her inner qualities such as intelligence, morality, ability, etc. A person's IQ, moral character, and abilities can only be understood through long-term observation and interaction, and these qualities are crucial to a person's development and success.

Second, judging people by their appearance can easily lead to discrimination and prejudice. If a person's value and ability are judged only based on appearance, it is easy to ignore those who have the ability but are not outstanding enough, and over-pursue those who are outstanding in appearance but lack of ability, which will lead to the waste of social resources and the loss of talents.

Finally, judging people by their appearance is also easy to lead to their own misjudgment and loss. If you only look at the appearance and make judgments, it is easy to ignore those who are excellent on the inside and overvalue those who are outstanding on the outside but lacking on the inside, which will lead to losses and wrong decisions for yourself.

To sum up, it is wrong to judge people by their appearance, and we should be stupid and shout that we should respect everyone's inner qualities and abilities, and we should not judge and judge a person only by their appearance.

Physiognomy depends on congenitality.

Judging people by their appearance, losing their sons and feathers", a generation of sage Confucius will still make such mistakes, and we should be more vigilant. People and things are in constant change, so when dealing with people and things, we can't nail the appearance in front of us, don't judge people by appearance, we should take a long-term view, analyze and judge people and things from the essence, only by mastering such a method, can we make correct decisions that symbolize our own interests. People should understand that the beautiful white swan is transformed from the ugly duckling, and if a person is poor now, it does not necessarily prove that he will not be rich in the future, on the contrary, a person is very beautiful now, and it cannot prove that he will not be embarrassed in the future.

It is necessary to see the future situation of this person from the essence of the person, otherwise he will make the mistake of rushing for quick success.

In the workplace, you must not judge people by their appearance, and there is no inevitable connection between appearance and ability.

Character is written on the face, and habits come from the figure.

It's like an apple that looks good on the outside, but it doesn't necessarily have broken parts inside. And that kind of ugly apple is not necessarily bad inside, but it is indeed sweet.

For example, the ugly one is a thief, but the handsome guy may be a murderer.

Judging people by their appearance can only be said to be superficial! Don't you look like you, haven't you heard of anyone?

If a person's appearance is relatively ugly and looks very scary, then they think that this person may be a bad person, but in fact, this person is a good person, his heart is kind, but his appearance is relatively ugly, so you will not be able to distinguish between good and bad. In fact, this is the nature of human beings, knowing that they can't judge people by their appearance, but they will still make wrong judgments because of their appearance and appearance, which has been the case since ancient times, this is a problem that is difficult to change, people who judge people by their appearance are often some villains, and a righteous man and a gentleman will not judge people by their appearance.

Yes, appearance can reflect a person's spiritual outlook, living state and social status to a certain extent. It is not unreasonable for the ancients to say that each other is born from the heart.

Putting your best foot forward in front of people shows that you are confident in yourself.

The old saying must have made sense,

Because appearance does not determine his talent, although some people are not good-looking, but he is very talented, with a very high education, and a very high position, so don't judge people by their appearance.

Because he also looks average, he is not qualified to make fun of other people's appearance.

Because physical appearance alone cannot judge a person's ability. Some people are not good-looking, but they are very capable and powerful. And some people are good-looking, but they don't have real skills.

Yes, I believe the first impression.

When I see a person, I don't care about his or her beauty, ugliness, fatness, or thinness, but the feeling that this person gives me as a whole.

I think I should be, I believe that "the face is born from the heart", some people look very kind at a glance, I like to have more contact with them, but some people look bad at a glance, these people I will generally hide far away, and never touch them unless absolutely necessary, because when I see their faces, I will be afraid.

No, judging people by appearance means judging other people's quality and talent according to their appearance, I think that quality can only be known if you have deep contact, many people say that the first impression, the decisive factor of the first impression is appearance, but no one will judge a person's true quality and talent by first impression.

Yes, first impressions are important to me. People have a good impression of beautiful things. But time will still judge people, but it does not affect the people we like to look good at.

Definitely not, how can people be so superficial?

What's more, I'm ugly myself, ......

I think so, some people don't feel like a person when they first meet, and I don't know if others feel this way.

Character is written on the face, and habits come from the figure.

I always look at the feelings, I can't say I don't look at it at all, but I don't pay much attention to it, I trust my instincts, and it's accurate.

I think I would definitely judge people by their appearance, and when I don't know the personality of others, observing physical appearance is the way to judge a person.

Generally speaking, a good-looking person I don't know is more favorable to her.

If I get to know this person and find that this person is good-looking but has a bad personality, then my liking for her will decrease.

For strangers, looking at her face is a good way to judge her, and for acquaintances, you can only see what kind of person she is after getting along.

Anyone will judge people by their appearance, and those who can't say that they are hypocrites.

The face is a pass, the appearance is justice, hahaha, mainly, people who look like affinity are more likely to gain the trust of others,.