Ask for help: Does every child start to become self motivated when their dad dies?

You're 21 years old and not a kid anymore. You don't show the courage of an adult. You're still guessing your heart about these trivial things.

You should use an independent individual image to plan your future. At the moment when a loved one passed away, his soul has turned into an artery in your heart, it always stirs up your remembrance of your loved ones and your encouragement, I lost my mother when I was 12 years old, and now I am 22 years old, I have my own factory, although the scale is small, but I still feel a sense of success. Being independent and enterprising is the best farewell to him!

The answer is no.

Self-motivation is a human emotion that needs to come from the heart. It has little to do with the death of the father. Any major and important event will change in ourselves, but the specific change depends on people and events.

This problem varies from person to person, not every child will become positive after losing their father, there are still a very few people like you who can face it positively, don't blame yourself too much, and don't put too much pressure on yourself, those who leave are leaving after all, and the living still have to live, so it's good to face it easily.

Good boy, you're not unmotivated, you just don't know how to do it. Good boy give himself time to heal quickly. Well, set a goal for yourself in the future, and don't care about anyone's eyes.

Just be yourself. Do your best for yourself and your loved ones.

Varies from person to person,,, everyone's nature is different,,, may be motivated, may be ,,,negative, no matter what, as long as you do your best limit,,, be OK to be yourself.

Alas, people are always in this situation, and the change is great.

Teaching by example is more important than teaching, and doing it is for him to see.

The eyes of the masses are bright, if they are really self-motivated, anyone can see it, not just talk about it... If you have others, you will see that you are not self-motivated, otherwise.

Parents are the best role models for their children, so be a good representative!

Whether there is self-motivation or not, it's just relative, many people seem to be light and tasteless and have nothing to do with the world, but their hearts are like a volcano, just waiting to erupt, I don't think any normal human being is unmotivated... There's a stupid way to play, if your child wants to play, you let him play and encourage him to play.

1. Empathy: In the case of children's learning pressure, many parents have encountered this problem you are encountering now, and children think that they are helping their parents learn, which makes people very anxious, I understand it very much.

2. Concretization: Under what circumstances are children particularly prone to such thoughts? Can you elaborate on that?

3. Reasons, and specific analysis:

A child has no interest in learning. You can recall when your child didn't like learning anymore and find out why. Maybe it's not too good at the beginning of the small promotion? Or do you not like a certain subject teacher? Wait a minute.

Solution: Find the cause and prescribe the right medicine. Rediscover your child's initiative in learning.

bParents are more concerned about academic performance than about their children.

Solution: Pay more attention to your child's mental development, rather than blindly staring at your child's grades. A harmonious parent-child relationship comes first. Arrange more family time so that children can feel the love of their parents.

c. Children do not have their own learning goals.

Solution: Let your child set his own goals for the future according to his or her talents and hobbies. Then help your child develop a path and plan to achieve their goals.

Hello parents, the second year of high school is the most critical year for your child in high school, and you can ask for help for your child in this way, which shows your good intentions. Children are not motivated to learn mainly because they do not realize the importance of learning and are not interested in learning.

Of course, test scores do not represent everything, but parents must let their children realize that test scores are to test the results of learning for a period of time, to test their lack of knowledge during this period, and then to study in a targeted manner. Parents should choose the appropriate way for the child to communicate with the child, encourage the child more, the child in the second year of high school is the more rebellious stage of adolescence, parents must not use criticism and scolding to educate the child, should use guided education, the child knows the reason and moves with affection, so that the child is truly aware of the good intentions of the parents from the heart, and can accept the requirements of the parents from the heart, so as to pay attention to academic performance.

In this era, the most important way to test children's grades is the test scores, so we must pay attention to the test results, otherwise it will have a negative impact on the college entrance examination.

Parents should first affirm their children's views, and then tell their children the importance of exams in a tactful way, so that children can pay attention to grades, improve self-motivation, and enhance their initiative and enthusiasm for learning. Parents' education and guidance of their children is a long-term process, and parents must be patient and accompany their children through this critical period.

Answer: First of all, you have to maintain a good attitude, and follow the above after the method with Mr. Zhu, I have a neighbor's daughter who has a plummeting academic performance because of rebellion, and then change the child according to the method given by Mr. Zhu, and now the child's grades have also come up. Teacher Zhu is happy to help others, if you don't understand, ask Teacher Zhu.

Although academic qualifications are not a panacea, it would be better if children were guided so that they could change their attitudes correctly and become interested in learning, and learning would not hinder the cultivation of other specialties.

Of course, I'm not opposed to getting a job through other means, I just think that learning is the shortest and easiest way to get a job, especially for rural children, if you want to have a way out in the future, maybe 80% of people can only change their fate through learning.

If we really can't let our children continue on the road of learning, it doesn't matter, just think about what we said upstairs, learning well doesn't mean that it's useless, but at the moment, we, as parents, still have to work hard to let our children learn, even if they don't succeed in the end, but as parents, students, there will be no regrets in the end.

This is indeed a big question about how to guide children to learn. I can't say a few words clearly, but depending on the child's situation, you can read more books about the psychology of high school students, grasp their psychology, and then prescribe the right medicine.

I wish your child the joy of learning in the future.

In fact, it is really difficult to communicate with children, not hard, not soft. But seriously, it's best not to put pressure on your own children, so that it will have a great impact on your children's future, as long as the child's ideas are right and not illegal, you should try your best to support them. Don't deny your children in one bite.

Some children are not born to study, but they will excel in other places, and now, there are a lot of college students, graduate students. What's the use of having good grades, you still have to have the ability to support your child!

Tell him that grades are the cornerstone of his life, and that without good grades, there will be no good job, and there will be no good life.

Parents should be role models for their children, self-motivated, upright and enterprising, and teaching by word and example is more effective than anything else. Children admire their parents, and they will naturally learn from their parents and become self-motivated.

Parents themselves are slack and do not seek progress, but they pin their expectations on their children, give their children high requirements, and hope that their children will meet. The child won't listen. They will judge for themselves, you parents can't do it, and still ask me? So the heart doesn't buy it.

Therefore, parents must always "do what they can't do, but seek their own", and be aware of the impact of their words and deeds on their children.

You can watch an old movie, test the family, learn from it, communicate with the child first, influence the child yourself, and it will be better to do this, such as watching TV every day, and then telling the child that the child should not watch TV.

Induce, for example, to visit a better university, take this as a reward, and then slowly take it step by step and it will be much better.

There should be a lot of support and accompanying children. Cultivate children's interest in certain aspects more. Also praise your child more when your child is doing the right thing.

Nurture his interest in learning. Use the rosenthol effect to help your child learn. It's good to have more problems with children.

But there are some extracurricular things that you take the initiative to tell him (of course, he is most interested). It's better for him to learn this way. Like me.

Living Enviroment, Math, Global Histroy, English were very good in all aspects... I went to high school in the United States for 1 year.

Motivate your child and motivate at the same time!

There are many levels of motivation, first of all, you have to be motivated and optimistic about things.

Read more inspirational books or biographies of celebrities.

Then, have your own ideals and goals.

It's important to act, starting small.

Don't just do it for her, but you have to like it from your heart or do it, and you will understand that the love in junior high school is just a good feeling, not love, but the memories will be very beautiful.

The most important thing is to complete the homework assigned after class on time, don't you underestimate it?

When I was in high school, I didn't do any homework, and I copied it every time someone else finished it. But there was only one time when I had the nerve to do my English homework on my own, and this time it changed the opinion of a girl I liked......

After all, I'm still a student, and if there are many activities in the school, let's participate more.

Finally, it's important to be yourself because you are who you are.

There is a goal for learning, and the result is not important, but if the process is good, the learning result will be good...

I think being self-motivated means thinking positively and trying to do everything well. Of course, you can't waste your studies, and you can't indulge in games. Kids, do your best!

First of all, don't characterize your child. If you say that about her, she thinks she's such a child.

There are many ways to promote self-motivation, such as unintentionally saying that your teacher said that your English pronunciation is very accurate. Someone said you had good writing and clever ideas. A little content to compliment the child.

If you look for the book "A Good Mother is Better Than a Good Teacher", there is an electronic version on the Internet. The issues you care about are all talked about in it. We have one for each person, hehe.

What should I do if my child is not self-motivated? Star Awareness Project

Children are not motivated, parents should do this.

Your daughter is not as motivated as you would expect, but she is happy. The more people pursue and only think about what they want, they will miss out on happiness. Do you want your child to be a child without a child?

She's only 12 years old, you can nurture her hobbies. You don't have to be a competitive person to succeed, do you want your child to be a person with a rich spiritual world, or someone who only wants to win first place?

The ancients said that filial piety came out under the stick...

Children only hope for joy and adults only know expectations, so why don't they know how to be sympathetic to each other?

Persuade the education, set test goals for him, and constantly encourage him to give him material rewards and stimulate his self-motivation in appropriate situations!

The attempt was successful.

Give yourself a small goal that is easy to achieve.

After slowly experiencing the joy of success.

Self-confidence gradually develops.

Then set the goal bigger.

The opportunity to succeed, your grasp of this, it depends on your own ability, grasp the opportunity, you will be confident, self-confidence, you will have the motivation to learn, try it.

Encourage him more. Ask for his opinion and set him a goal, not too high, so that he always has room for improvement.