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I don't think you should be silent when it's time for you to speak up in society, otherwise people will think you're honest and easy to bully. As for my friend's side, it depends on the situation, and it's not a solution if you don't talk all the time. You'll think there's something wrong with you, it's lively all at once and it's quiet all at once.
When others don't want me to talk about it, I think about it on my own. This also just increases my thinking ability, and does not make noise to others, killing two birds with one stone, how good!
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It's your right to talk, but sometimes you can't talk too much, if your friend is quieter, you can't keep talking for the sake of an active environment, which will make the other party feel very embarrassed, in fact, sometimes everyone doesn't have to talk together, it's good to sit quietly for a while. But this is up to the individual, some people don't like that kind of atmosphere. As for controlling yourself from speaking, I don't think there's any need for that, you just need to pay attention to saying the right things in the right places.
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You want to make yourself happy to live through words, and silence is golden, if you talk too much, others will not respect you, but who do you look at, find someone who is not jealous, good-tempered, principled, and loves to talk to himself, and if you are a woman, you can talk to a few male netizens to be been, you may still be willing to listen to you, speaking is an art and communication, and everything is done just right.
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Keep yourself busy and have no time to talk. If you keep trying to say it, imagine the consequences, if it's serious, shut yourself up. If you go to society, it's better to be talkative!
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When someone speaks, they deliberately think about other issues.
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Summary. Read more books on emotional intelligence to improve your emotional intelligence, first of all, you must understand what to say and what not to say. Otherwise, even if you talk too much, it's useless, because your EQ is too low to know whether you should say it or not?
It's no different from talking without a brain.
After understanding what to say and what not to say, we must understand the truth of humble words. If your status is not high, or if you speak to someone with a higher status than yourself, then you must secretly remind yourself before you speak, think twice, think clearly before you speak, and think about it first.
As long as you hint at yourself every time, you can also hint at yourself when no one is around, and over time, you will form a habit and get rid of the bad habit of talking but braining.
Of course, if you really can't change it, then you have to improve your social status, as long as your status is high, even if you talk nonsense, it will be considered unfathomable, and if you can't talk with your brain, you will also be considered innocent.
How to keep your mouth shut and don't talk nonsense
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In the future, you have to think twice before you speak, you can't just say what you think, if you want to say what the consequences will be, you should pay attention to it at ordinary times, and it will get better slowly.
Silence is golden. Talk less.
Hold your mouth shut and talk less.
How to keep your mouth in order.
Endure. Think before you speak.
How to practice speaking before the brain.
Don't say anything you want to say, think about it.
1. Read more books on emotional intelligence to improve your emotional intelligence, first of all, you must understand what to say and what not to say. Otherwise, even if you talk too much, it's useless, because your EQ is too low to know whether you should say it or not? It's no different from talking without a brain.
2 When you have understood what you should say and what you should not say, you must understand the truth of what is lowly and what is low. If your status is not high, or if you speak to someone with a higher status than yourself, then you must secretly remind yourself before you speak, think twice, think clearly before you speak, and think about it first. 3 As long as you hint at yourself every time, you can also hint at yourself when no one is around, and over time, you will form a habit and get rid of the bad habit of talking but not your brain.
4 Of course, if it is really impossible to change, then it is necessary to improve one's social status, as long as the status is high, even if it is nonsense, it will be considered unfathomable, and if it is not enough to speak, it will also be considered innocent.
You recommend a few books.
Okay, wait a minute.
The Art of Speech by Dale Carnegie.
There are no movies.
Fifteen Lectures on Eloquence Training" by Sun Haiyan and Liu Bokui.
I don't know much about the movie, but I can help you check it out.
Yes. "Mr. Sweetheart".
I don't know how, I haven't seen it either, you can try it.
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How to control your mouth and not talk nonsense: First, you must recognize how important it is to control your mouth. If you don't speak well, you will harm others and yourself.
A casual joke is likely to inadvertently hurt someone else's feelings. Many people accidentally say something that should not be said, which makes others hurt a lot and suffers a lot of losses. What's more serious is that some words will have a great impact not only on the spot, but more importantly, a far-reaching impact afterwards.
Second, it is necessary to profoundly summarize the skills and methods of controlling the mouth. Recall the situation that you can't control and analyze the reasons, maybe it's when you're triumphant, maybe it's credulous. Solve them one by one, keep the mood and not be happy or sad.
Don't trust others easily. The ancients said that it is always true to say only three points when you meet people. It must be a dangerous thing to throw a piece of sincerity to a stranger.
Therefore, pay attention to the object and occasion when speaking. Don't rely on momentary pleasure to cause lifelong regrets.
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Summary. Let yourself calm down, listen to some very lyrical pure **, let your heart calm down, don't think about some things that make you feel annoying, try to think about some happy things, or fantasize about some very romantic and happy things, let yourself be intoxicated, your heart will naturally be quiet, and when your heart is calm, you will naturally not have so many words.
If you really want to talk and you can't control it, I suggest you find a few good friends to talk to, maybe it will be more comfortable!
How can you control yourself to talk less.
Hello. Let yourself calm down, listen to some very lyrical pure **, let your heart calm down, don't think about some things that make you feel annoying, try to think about some happy things, or fantasize about some very romantic and happy things, let yourself be intoxicated, your heart will naturally be quiet, and when your heart is calm, you will naturally not have so many words. If you really want to talk and you can't control it, I suggest you find a few good friends to talk to, maybe it will be more comfortable!
You can focus on something else, or stress in your heart: Don't speak, don't speak. But it's best to make a habit, you can set a goal now, it can be a day without talking, or a few hours without talking, and over time, the habit of liking to talk will gradually change.
After letting yourself think about it for three minutes before you encounter an accident, and slowly developing this habit, you can not only control yourself to talk less, but also avoid saying the wrong thing yourself. Try it, it works. Smile when you want to talk, then shut up, or drink water and eat, and occupy your mouth, and after a while you will talk less, so you need to get used to this.
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Summary. There are three ways to do this; The first is visceral, self-regulating. Here are a few things that can be done:
1. Keep your mouth shut and control yourself not to speak. 2. Control your emotions, let yourself enter a quieter state, think about some unhappy things, and you will become silent.
There are three ways to do this; The first is visceral, self-regulating. There are the following things that can be done: 1. Keep your mouth shut and control yourself not to speak.
2. Control your emotions, let yourself enter a relatively quiet state, and think about some unhappy things, and you will become depressed and hungry.
The second is to divert attention. There are the following points that can be done with the field: 1. Drink a glass of water and drink it all the time. 2. Wear headphones to listen to the air Xun**. 3. Eat potato chips, shout food at zero loss, eat melon seeds, etc.
Third, it is mandatory not to speak. The method is to use your own tape and glue your mouth shut.
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Silence is golden, I take this phrase as a motto. As the old saying goes, "there is calm in every big event", which tells us that if things are slow, they will be round, and that it is easier to succeed when things are slow.
The more mature a person is, the less likely he is to show himself in front of others, but to respect his inner feelings. If you do it, you will be a saint, if you say that you will be a sage, if you say that you will be a sage, if you say that you will not do it, you will be a liar. So, why should I babble?
Self-cultivation and virtue, so as to form their own gentleman's personality. This sentence is a bit boastful. I say again, I dare not say that I am a gentleman, but I am definitely not a hypocrite.
Living in groups can also prevent disasters from coming out of the mouth, and diseases from entering the mouth. The so-called "right and wrong is only to open more mouths, and the troubles are all due to the strong head", sit alone to guard against your heart, be cautious about your words and deeds, and prevent your own chaotic heart.
The world is crazy, but according to my nature, I always try to maintain a little dignity and seek a little peace in the crazy world. There is extreme sensitivity and amplified uneasiness in my personality, and words become an outlet for my feelings. Holding a book at night, mending his broken life.
I know that I am soft-spoken, so I don't like to talk nonsense, so I pretend to keep my own meter of sunshine. Let the years take their course. I read poetry books, recited poems and essays, walked the clouds and water, and the pen walked the dragon and snake. Of course, I have to tell myself that the noble man is late.
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Then you should always remind yourself not to talk too much and listen to others more.
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