Do you mind how your boyfriend or girlfriend looks

Updated on society 2024-04-06
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first time I saw her, I would be more concerned about her appearance, because her appearance will bring more goodwill, and then through this goodwill we continue to develop, and then I feel that I really don't care much about appearance, as long as it's not too ugly, not outstanding, it doesn't matter, I focus on her inner beauty, focus on her heart, if it's a serious girlfriend, then I think the most important thing is inside, and the heart is the goal....

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To be honest, I don't recommend it at all, but if it's excellent in something else and appeals to me, it doesn't matter. As long as I feel happy with her, it doesn't affect my life anyway, no matter what others say, and there are too many plastic surgeries now, and it's too easy to become ugly and beautiful, so in fact, don't mind too much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Mind it, but if there is someone who likes your heart rather than the outside, you have to cherish it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To be honest, the first is the feeling, the second is the appearance, my requirement is not too handsome, just be able to see it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can't say I don't mind at all, but this is definitely not the standard for choosing a boyfriend or girlfriend, many people say that their boyfriend or girlfriend as long as they look worthy of the audience, and it will not scare others when they appear, if you blindly only pursue looks, then your love will become tasteless, maybe you will become boyfriend and girlfriend, just to satisfy your own little vanity. Of course, having said that, it's a little embarrassing for you to fall in love with someone who will be scared at a glance, so what you should care about and pay more attention to when you are together is the feeling! And not appearances.

    Didn't someone say that the appearance is all floating clouds, and after a few decades, it will be a skeleton!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I generally mind, at least I want to be able to see it

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't mind. As long as there is temperament.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Both people and people's first feelings depend on their appearance. It took a long time to find out ...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, most people are the same, at the beginning of seeing the appearance still has an impact on the judgment, but after getting along for a long time, there are feelings, and at that time it is not a matter of not caring or not. Since you're talking about boyfriends or girlfriends, if you still care, can you be considered a real boyfriend and girlfriend?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Have you ever heard of being beautiful because it's cute?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a lie to say don't mind. I'm a native of Changzhou.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Say don't mind, that's fake, unless you're really there.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I mind, after all, whether or not you feel it for the first time depends on your appearance. But such feelings are often not stable, and love that lasts for a long time is the strongest.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In terms of the beauty of the soul and the beauty of the appearance, I choose the beauty of the soul, and in the same beauty of the soul, I choose the one with the more beautiful appearance, and I will judge people by their appearance.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's impossible not to mind, but there will still be miracles in the heavens.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This estimate is still cared about, just have a generalization, and the most important thing is to look at the person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    First of all, physical appearance is only a person's physical characteristics and should not be the only criterion for judging whether a person is worthy of dating or marrying. A person's inner qualities and character traits are just as important, if not more so. An ugly person who is kind to you may have a very lovable personality, kind, intelligent, responsible, and self-motivated, and these qualities are likely to lead to more long-term happiness.

    Secondly, falling in love and getting married requires the joint efforts and decisions of both parties, rather than unilateral choices. If you feel that this person is good to you and that you are willing to be with him or her, then it is your own decision, regardless of what the outside world thinks. Moreover, the appearance is not fixed, and people can make themselves more beautiful by changing their image and maintenance.

    In the end, everyone's standards and values are different, and everyone's inner thoughts on this issue will be different. It is important to think carefully about your thoughts and feelings and make the most appropriate choice based on your values and personal circumstances. After summarizing the above, we should conclude that:

    If a person is very good to you, you can consider dating him, even if he is ugly in appearance. Because as long as there is a spark in your heart, appearance is not important, and it is possible for a person to be braver, more confident, and more happy because of his appearance.

    Finally, we should also recognize that appearance may also change a person's personality. Some people may become conformist because of their appearance, but there are also people who will be braver and more confident because of their appearance, and they can even become a better person.

    Therefore, in my case, I would fall in love and marry someone who is ugly but very good to you, because appearance is not everything, a person may become braver, more confident, and more happy for you because of his appearance, and these are also the most important elements of our marriage.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The question is a paradox. The man Sou Feng buried, and how could he become a boyfriend and girlfriend, and how could he become a boyfriend and girlfriend?

    If you mind explaining that the motive of the relationship is not pure, it is either greedy for the woman's money or greedy for the woman's family.

    The interaction between the two sides must be based on mutual goodwill, if you dislike your appearance, how can you have a good feeling?

    There is also a possibility that the man will mind the woman's appearance if he has other favorite objects.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on your boyfriend's personal preference. Some people may mind, while others may not. The most important thing to consider is whether your boyfriend can accept you, no matter how bad you look on the outside, he will have a deep understanding and acceptance of you, and will give you support and encouragement when you need it.

    Only in this way can you ensure that your relationship can last for a long time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on how much the man is looking for looks.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, it's in the eyes of the lover.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I must mind that lovers need to be recognized and known by outsiders, unless they don't have to socialize, they all hope that their other half can be beautiful and capable.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    For me, falling in love doesn't care about looks. But I will fall in love and marry someone who is ugly but very good to me.

    Love is warm and romantic, love is happy and sweet, each of us hopes that we can have the perfect love and fall in love with the most perfect object. But the reality is often not so perfect, and the person who is good to you may not be good-looking. At this time, whether you will reject the other party because you pay attention to your appearance, or whether you can accept this reality, needs to be analyzed according to the specific situation.

    Specifically, the understanding of this issue includes that appearance is the most important factor when they meet for the first time, that in the long run, appearance is not important and regret is not important, and that if someone truly loves themselves, they will happily accept these three aspects, 1, for the first time to meet in love, appearance is the most important factor. When we meet a person for the first time, we don't know much about it, and at this time, the appearance is the deepest impression that the other party leaves us, and the person with high appearance will leave a good impression. We are willing to associate with them, and people with poor looks will leave a bad impression, and we are not willing to associate with them.

    The same is true for relationships. For the first time in love, if the other party has a poor appearance, he is definitely unwilling to continue to have a relationship with him. 2. In the long run, the most important thing in love is feelings, and appearance is not important.

    The most important factor of love is affection, only when two people have a deep relationship, love can be maintained for a long time, and continue to develop deeply. Therefore, if two people have established a romantic relationship, the issue of appearance is not important, and the relationship is the most important. Only when the relationship between two people reaches a certain depth, can they fall in love with each other happily.

    At this time, appearance is not important. 3. If you meet someone who truly loves you in the process of falling in love, you will definitely accept it happily. For a person, the happiest moment in the pursuit of love is the moment when you find true love.

    And the most perfect state at this moment is to be able to meet someone who truly loves him, and the other party is good to him and takes the initiative to pursue himself. At this time, you will feel the happiest, and at the same time, you will be very happy to accept the love of the other person. At this time, although the issue of appearance is within the scope of consideration, it is not the most important factor, so at this time, it is completely possible for me to fall in love or even get married with a person with average appearance.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Actually, no, it depends on everyone's mate selection criteria, not that handsome boys don't care about the appearance of their girlfriends.

    In life, it is not difficult for us to find that some handsome guys' girlfriends are very average, which makes many people think that handsome guys don't care about the appearance of their girlfriends. But is that really the case?

    I have a friend who is very handsome, I asked him what kind of girlfriend he wanted, and he directly said that he wanted to find a goddess-type, and said that the girlfriends he talked about were all very temperamental. But in this way, he chose to be with a very ordinary girl.

    I also deliberately teased him, didn't I say to find a goddess, and finally found a little girl. He said that if he felt right, he would be together, although his current girlfriend was not as beautiful as his previous girlfriend, but this girlfriend could give him a special feeling, which no one else could give.

    Look, in fact, handsome boys also want to find a good-looking girlfriend, and they are also very demanding on the appearance of girls. Only when you really like someone will you not mind the appearance so much.

    So when you see a handsome guy and an ordinary girl together, don't think that this handsome guy is not an appearance association and will not care about his girlfriend's appearance, but think that there must be something in this girl that attracts this handsome guy.

    Wen Xiao Feichai).

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