My boyfriend went to find the person he loved and broke up with me

Updated on psychology 2024-04-16
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What you can't get is always the best, you are chic, just break up I believe that if you break up really freely, and then don't go to him, he will definitely come back to you, because this man is like this. Men always like to conquer things that they can't conquer, and you also said that your ex-girlfriend And your boyfriend said that he had been waiting for him, so he knew that your boyfriend must have dumped him at the time, and now that people are back, as a man's nature, he must be heartwarming, but it's a pity that your boyfriend doesn't know what the responsibility is, and if he really has been waiting for that woman as your boyfriend said, why do you want to start with you Right!

    I think you'll understand, never be confused for this kind of man.

    It is not a lover who will leave.

    What does this kind of man want him to do, he won't die without a man, not to mention that he is not a good man.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let you know that the person you can't live without is you, not him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You have been together for more than two years, and I believe that we love each other, but it is a cruel fact that he has always pretended to be the original girl in his heart while loving you, and she is more important than you. You have to admit it. I've seen this blog a long time ago, and there are two possibilities:

    One, for that girl to see, let that girl cherish him; Two, for you to see, he doesn't want the girl to regret it, so let you go.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I guess he's turning this journal not only to tell you something, but also himself, and the person he likes. I hope you can both grasp the happiness in front of you, and don't wait until you lose it to know that the person who used to be by your side, love you and take care of you no longer belongs to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's very simple.

    Everyone should be able to understand it.

    It's the one who has been silently loving you

    Chose not to continue.

    Chose someone else.

    And then you look at their happiness.

    Suddenly reluctant.

    Your friend meant it should.

    For the sake of another person.

    He chose to hurt you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It doesn't have to be said to you Maybe he himself understands some truth In short, true love still wants the other party to be happy The result is in front of you Please accept it calmly Time will tell everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It shows that he doesn't love you, and it's sad to continue, learn to let go, and you will find someone who loves you more!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He wants to tell you that although he knows that it is stupid and stupid to love that person, he still has no way to control himself to love.

    Let you not learn from him, but love yourself a little more.

    Presumably he really decided to love without hesitation?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There's no need to speculate about him, he just wants to tell you that you are not his favorite, I hope you understand that his love is not something you can control rationally, I hope you don't feel too sad after breaking up, you will always find someone you really love!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let you not trust people without purpose.

    He is an example of this!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How about 2 years, 4 or 5 years of breaking up, if you are good enough, you are still worried that you can't find a better one than him, he left you is his loss, don't worry, the old will pass, don't have any illusions, forget him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since you were together at the beginning, it proves that you were once in love. He had his choice, you chose to break up, and I think there must have been something that had a different idea. He is looking for a new girlfriend, maybe he wants to use Xianghe to accompany a new relationship to help him forget about you and reduce the pain in his heart.

    Since you have chosen to break up, I hope you can also forget about him, start a new life, insist on following your own path, and pursue your dreams, his business has nothing to do with you. If he didn't love you, you should be glad that you didn't give yourself to someone who didn't love you. If he has loved you, you should wish the person who once loved you a new happiness, so that you don't have to worry about him anymore.

    More importantly, in the future, since the other party has walked out of the past relationship and started his new life, you don't need to immerse yourself in the past, there are better boys waiting for you, don't affect your future happiness for the sake of the past. At the end of every relationship, it doesn't matter what the ending is, when you give your heart and can't get him to adapt to, isn't it a kind of luck for you to lose. Getting the fate is destined, and losing the book is lucky.

    A person who doesn't love you now is what you should care about the most, after all, talking about the past has no effect on a girl, but will make you more sad, in fact, a woman's greatest charm lies in its excellence, and the beauty of self-confidence.

    If it is you who propose to break up, then he may be the one who suffers the hurt, then he may need to start a new relationship to help himself heal, but this behavior is very irresponsible to himself and his new girlfriend, and it is also stupid that he may not let go of you and deliberately angry with you, if you still have feelings for him, the breakup is just an impulse, you can talk to him again. People are not rational, just like you, aren't you still paying attention to your ex-boyfriend after you break up? Although it is impossible to deal with all situations perfectly, at least do less things that hurt others and hurt yourself.

    Love is very complicated, the love that used to be true, and the love that is not loved now is also true... It is still necessary to maintain love with your heart and not hurt each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It seems that the other party doesn't like himself at all, if the other party Shenghe likes to quarrel with him, the other party will definitely not find a bridge to bury the bridge to the next one in such a short time. It shows that the other party has no feelings for him for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, I think that even if he finds the next one soon, it can't be denied that he hasn't loved before, Senzai, you may be true love when you love, and when you don't love it, it's really not Zao Chunfan love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Personally, I think that he has never loved you, he is with you, and he found the next one immediately after the breakup, which means that he does not really love you and has not loved you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's really sad to find out that your boyfriend is in love with someone else, and if you think there is still a chance to keep it, then you can keep it, or you can let it go decisively.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should break up with him, because it's no longer interesting to be with someone like that.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's best to make it clear to him face to face, you don't think it's necessarily real, but it's very likely that you will hurt him because of this.

    So if you love him, go for verification, if he can give you a reasonable explanation, then please love him more, if he can't give you a reasonable explanation, then the breakup is just a normal procedure, at least both parties are not very hurt.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your own boyfriend is now in love with someone else, then you will definitely choose to break up as soon as possible.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, since the other party is in love with someone else, the twisted melon is not sweet, there is no need to make it difficult for others, and separation is the best choice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course you should choose to break up with him, his mind is not on you and he is in love with someone else, this is disrespectful to feelings, I think you must be sober.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It can only be said that your boyfriend is a scumbag who eats and lives, and wants to step on a few boats to show his ability, meet such a scumbag, decisively break up with him, and don't give the other party a chance to stay, after all, such a boy will not stay in a woman for too long, and will only bring you constant harm.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Whether you break up or not depends on whether you have deep feelings for him, and if you love him very much, then you can try to snatch your boyfriend back from that woman.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When you love you, you really love, and when you don't love, you don't love, so feelings are a wonderful thing, and when you break it, you break it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you find it, but you catch it directly, sometimes differentially, if you catch it directly, it must be separated, if you feel it yourself, then there is no need for this.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Let your boyfriend already fall in love with someone else, a marriage without love is unhappy, so it is even more time to break up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If your boyfriend is in love with someone else, then I think you should break up with him, because such a relationship is not solid for you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the other person doesn't actually take action, but only thinks that once in a while, you should give the other person a chance. If the other person does this and is indifferent to you, you want to consider breaking up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, because after a man has another woman in his heart, there will be no more love between us, because we will have different dreams in bed.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You won't be happy if you are reluctant to do so, it's better to let go and leave in style, and you can give yourself dignity perfectly, you can break up first.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hello, he is in love with someone else, and if you are willing to talk to someone who doesn't love you, then you keep talking, otherwise you should definitely break up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course it should be broken up, since your boyfriend's heart is no longer with you, then there is no point in continuing to be together.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You should be troubled to like and pay attention to it, thank you.

    Your adoption is the best reward for me.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hello, immediately after the breakup, I went to find someone else, which means that the love between him and you is long gone, and the other party has long been empathetic, and this kind of love is not wanted.

    Love is a matter of two people, not one person. After the breakup, the other party has nothing to do with you, don't care about his life anymore, live your own life, learn to let go, and face your life again is the best, since you have broken up, don't care about him anymore, don't let the other person's life affect your life.

    No matter what, after separation, you should also pay attention to the way you get along with each other:

    1. If you can, don't contact if you can.

    Break up decisively, and don't find excuses to disturb the other party's already peaceful little life if you can not get in touch. Breaking the thread will eventually push you to the brink of collapse.

    2. Don't meet alone.

    Once from falling in love to breaking up, the two must have complained, and the heart of guarding against others is indispensable, and they avoid meeting alone after breaking up. If it is not necessary, it will not be seen. If you have to meet, ask a friend to come with you.

    3. Preserve the appearance of each other's hearts.

    After a breakup, some lovelorns like to say bad things about each other behind their backs and slander each other. Be forgiving and forgiving, not to mention the person you once loved so much?

    After falling out of love, some people look up at the sky at 45 degrees, and some people bloom in the direction of sunflowers. Regardless of each other's feelings to the **.

    I wish you who are in love or have loved each other well after every parting.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Immediately after the breakup, he found one, which means that he has no love for his ex, has completely given up, and has broken his thoughts. It's also possible that they've been together for a long time.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    After the breakup, he immediately found one, indicating that he wanted to break off the previous relationship earlier, or maybe he was ready for it a long time ago.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    He must have wanted to break up a long time ago, or someone was already there before the breakup.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Now that you're separated, let's pay less attention to each other. Whether he looks for it or not, and when he looks for it, has nothing to do with us.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, I broke up with my boyfriend, and he still came to you, what did he think in his heart, and did he still love me? That must love you, or can't let go of you, some people will only feel cherished when they lose, so they keep pursuing, and when you forgive, he shows that he doesn't care about you, and people like him are very contradictory.

    I broke up with my boyfriend, and he still came to you, what did he think in his heart, and did he still love me?

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, I broke up with my boyfriend, and he still came to you, what did he think in his heart, and did he still love me? That must love you, or can't let go of you, some people will only feel cherished when they lose, so they keep pursuing, and when you forgive, he shows that he doesn't care about you, and people like him are very contradictory.

    When I was with him, he often broke up with me and then made me angry, I couldn't stand it, so I moved out of his house, and after I left his house, he came to me again.

    This kind of boy is not tortured, the better you treat him, the more he doesn't care about you and take it for granted, and when you are really sad and want to leave, he is chasing you again, this time you must not casually promise him to teach him a lesson so that he will know to cherish you in the future.

    When I was at his house, he always said that I didn't do housework, didn't respect him, and his parents said it was my fault.

    He and I are not married, but we live with his parents.

    His mother cooked a meal and told me to eat, saying that I would show his face to his mother.

    There are not many girls like you now, and they generally don't want to live with their parents, just because they are afraid that the two of them will always quarrel because of their parents' concepts, he should feel fortunate to meet you as a gentle, virtuous and kind girl, and now he should regret it when he separates, otherwise he will not look back to you.

    Oh. So now it's mostly up to you if you still want to be with him.

    He said let's calm down for a while and go home together for the New Year.

    You tell him that we will calm down for a period of time and who I will go back to whose house I will go back to, I am very disappointed in you, you can reflect on yourself.

    Then see how he treats your relationship, if he is still obsessed, then continue to cold him or change his way to anger, he lets him know that he is really thinking about forgiving him when he can't let go of you.

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